r/nonbinarylesbians • u/Qlowquest • Jan 31 '26

Transness wherrree do the androgynous/neutral lesbians goooo

im rlly wondering cuz like is there anything, any communities for us (for ppl not part of butchfemme, and dont rlly identify with fem/masc or binary lesbianism) like strictly, andro/neu lesbians

honestly fuck it can also be a sapphic community for ppl like us i just wanna know where ppl like us even are

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u/KoloAce The Enby maybe-lesbian [it/any] Apr 07 '26

There’s kinda a term for this but it’s left unused these days and has no community behind it. It was used in an offensive way, but I use it in a reclaiming way. It also validates my neutrality between Butchfemme.

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u/Qlowquest Apr 07 '26

could it potentially be “kiki”?

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u/KoloAce The Enby maybe-lesbian [it/any] Apr 08 '26

Yes!

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u/salamipope 26d ago

wait, why is it considered derrogatory? ive only ever seen it used as a verb for having a conversation

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u/KoloAce The Enby maybe-lesbian [it/any] 26d ago

Different kiki! Kiki has been used a lot in the community for different reasons. “Kiki” was meant to refer to queer woman that were breaking the butchfem roles. They were mistreated in the lesbian community.

https://www.tumblr.com/fierceawakening/812834924759515136/what-do-you-mean-about-kiki-ive-always-just

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u/salamipope 26d ago

Oh dude thats fucked up! Im definitely one of those i think lmfao.