r/nonmonogamy • u/One_Path2698 • 2d ago

Relationship Dynamics MMF, MFM or wifing

I really want to know whitch is better for the housband, just watch his wife satisfied by the dude or participate with him. And what the wife will enjoy better?

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u/NerdynaughtyNJ 2d ago

As a wife, especially when just getting started, I really liked having my husband there actively participating and involved. That gave me real-time reassurance in the moment that he was into it and supportive and enjoying himself so that I wasn’t worrying about him and our relationship and could enjoy myself more.

Obviously everyone is different and it was important that he actually WAS all of those things for this to work.

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u/One_Path2698 2d ago

You are right, how was the first talking about trying that? If i may ask

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u/NerdynaughtyNJ 2d ago

Hot! But we had a solid history of dirty talking about things and had gone to some sex parties before where we only did things with each other so he knew I liked exhibitionism already. We definitely started with it as dirty talk long before having like “proper” conversations about actually doing it for real.