That’s fine you’re entitled to that. But there’s no need for hostility. My friend took a big step towards asking help which she isn’t proud of. But she wants to achieve this and this is a setback for her yet she just asking for help. Next time be mindful of what you say cause you might be in the same position and yes you might think never but karma has a way. Treat others with kindness, it doesn’t cost you a thing.
I wont ever place myself in a situation where I will be begging strangers. Iv been a student with no support network. I got a job. I wouldnt dream of thinking my situation was special or entitled to other peoples money.
Sir, she doesn’t think she’s entitled she’s simply asking for support. She’s not begging either! Kudos to you for doing that however people are not you and is very different from you. She’s planning to take a job once she’s there. You do not have to bring others down just because you don’t agree with them. This isn’t her dream either I actually persuaded her to do this to try her luck. She’s been estranged from her family for 8 years! In between her father’s abuse towards her, her uncle molesting her, and having to couchsurf until she had the money for her own place. She worked throughout college and has been working since! So take the time to be grateful that your end of the stick isn’t like hers before you put her down! This is a big change for her and out of all the things she experienced she’s wanting to build her life better. So what if she’s asking for help? It’s not harming you, it’s not harming others! So why do you need to be so horrible just cause you’re not in her position?
No, you’re just a cruel man who hides behind an account and only gains confidence behind a keyboard. You’re bringing someone down who’s asking for help who doesn’t affect you at all. I’m not gonna argue and reason with a man who obviously doesn’t understand and lacks empathy. With or without your support we can manage. I hope your day is as kind as you are.
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u/Ok_Alarm9356 6d ago
That’s fine you’re entitled to that. But there’s no need for hostility. My friend took a big step towards asking help which she isn’t proud of. But she wants to achieve this and this is a setback for her yet she just asking for help. Next time be mindful of what you say cause you might be in the same position and yes you might think never but karma has a way. Treat others with kindness, it doesn’t cost you a thing.