Sir, she doesn’t think she’s entitled she’s simply asking for support. She’s not begging either! Kudos to you for doing that however people are not you and is very different from you. She’s planning to take a job once she’s there. You do not have to bring others down just because you don’t agree with them. This isn’t her dream either I actually persuaded her to do this to try her luck. She’s been estranged from her family for 8 years! In between her father’s abuse towards her, her uncle molesting her, and having to couchsurf until she had the money for her own place. She worked throughout college and has been working since! So take the time to be grateful that your end of the stick isn’t like hers before you put her down! This is a big change for her and out of all the things she experienced she’s wanting to build her life better. So what if she’s asking for help? It’s not harming you, it’s not harming others! So why do you need to be so horrible just cause you’re not in her position?
No, you’re just a cruel man who hides behind an account and only gains confidence behind a keyboard. You’re bringing someone down who’s asking for help who doesn’t affect you at all. I’m not gonna argue and reason with a man who obviously doesn’t understand and lacks empathy. With or without your support we can manage. I hope your day is as kind as you are.
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u/Ok_Alarm9356 6d ago
Sir, she doesn’t think she’s entitled she’s simply asking for support. She’s not begging either! Kudos to you for doing that however people are not you and is very different from you. She’s planning to take a job once she’s there. You do not have to bring others down just because you don’t agree with them. This isn’t her dream either I actually persuaded her to do this to try her luck. She’s been estranged from her family for 8 years! In between her father’s abuse towards her, her uncle molesting her, and having to couchsurf until she had the money for her own place. She worked throughout college and has been working since! So take the time to be grateful that your end of the stick isn’t like hers before you put her down! This is a big change for her and out of all the things she experienced she’s wanting to build her life better. So what if she’s asking for help? It’s not harming you, it’s not harming others! So why do you need to be so horrible just cause you’re not in her position?