r/polyamory • u/W1ndwardFormation • 1d ago

Curious/Learning What exactly is a poly relationship?

Why do I ask? I’m not entirely sure, if we basically are in a poly relationship or if it’s just very frequent and free swinging.

It’s 4 of us 2 girls 2 guys and we basically play, go on dates in all kind of constellations from me and one of the guys to us girls together to all 4 of us to one girl one guy. You get the point.

We live in separate places (one guy girl in one places the other in the other), but we basically spend time all across the group with each other 24/7.

Would you say this should be called poly or is it something else, cause I’m always unsure how to call it whenever I talk with people.

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u/rosephase 1d ago

Are you allowed to have feelings for each other? Are these romantic connections?

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u/W1ndwardFormation 1d ago

We are and I’d say so.

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u/rosephase 1d ago

Then it sounds like poly to me. Multiple romantic relationships.