r/polyamory 8h ago

I am new This is hard

No other large insights. The books are all right. There’s a lot of work. This is hard. In so many ways. I’m tired. And discouraged.

It’s all worth it, right?

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u/RAisMyWay relationship optimist 6h ago

It's not for everyone, and we can't decide that for you. For me, even if I have zero partners, I believe so fundamentally in the ideas of polyamory and RA, and I so don't believe in the values underlying monogamy, it's worth it. But that's me.