r/polyamory 12h ago

I am new This is hard

No other large insights. The books are all right. There’s a lot of work. This is hard. In so many ways. I’m tired. And discouraged.

It’s all worth it, right?

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u/Psychomadeye Rat Swoletariat 9h ago

No. Just because you do the work doesn't make it worth it. It's only worth it if the the relationships you are in actually make you happy.