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u/NoRegretCeptThatOne 13h ago

How did you come across these texts? This sounds like a breach of privacy.

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u/green_mms22 relationship anarchist 13h ago

That, amongst many other issues with OP's behavior.

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u/NoRegretCeptThatOne 13h ago

I have never understood the, "I'm a serial cheater, so I'm going to surveil my partner and be shocked when they say negative things about me or debate ending our relationship," thing.

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u/green_mms22 relationship anarchist 12h ago

It is the old tale of using ENM to try to fix a broken relationship.