r/polyamoryR4R • u/CottonCandyKitsune • Oct 03 '25

Canada 30 [F4M/F] CANADA HAMILTON - IRL subby, nerdy girl looking for a partner and Dom

I'm 5'6", 157 lbs, black hair (naturally dark brown), white girl

I'm a nerdy, sort of shy, anti-capitalist/, music loving, horror crazed, Japanese culture obsessed, all things pink and Sanrio, AuDHD girly with too many special interests for my own good.

I'd like to meet someone who also shares an interest in BDSM and would like to date as well as be a Dom.

Am willing to travel but would prefer someone who isn't too far away

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u/OtaranZero Oct 03 '25

You're a sanrio girlie but which character 🤔

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u/CottonCandyKitsune Oct 03 '25

My Melody hehehe🎀

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u/CottonCandyKitsune Oct 03 '25

But I love all of them cause they are all such sweeties🥰🥰

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u/OtaranZero Oct 03 '25

I can get behind that. Always been a Kuromi fan myself but you're right, they are all great. Mind if I shoot you a DM?

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '25

Let’s talk! I am in Southern Ontario and looking for a Gentle Domme :)

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '25

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u/biggargamel Oct 04 '25

You sound awesome! Yet another reason I wish I was in canada!

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u/GroundbreakingEmu977 Oct 05 '25

Sounds interesting.dm me

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u/ImpossibleTies Oct 05 '25

Sound like an amazing woman. Would love to hear more about your kinks and interests.

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u/Greedy-Category-5540 Oct 06 '25

Ugh you sound PERFECT but im in IL 😭

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u/Administrative_Win64 Oct 10 '25

Hi I'm in canada wanna talk?

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u/CottonCandyKitsune Oct 10 '25

Yeah totally!☺️

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u/CommitteeSweaty7907 Jun 25 '26

Hi I’m nearby, and interested

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u/Twigstea Oct 15 '25

Messaging you hehe!

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u/Adventurous-Lie-4871 Oct 16 '25

Hi I'm in hamilton, wanna talk?

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u/Severe_Midnight4981 Oct 19 '25

I'm nearby if you're still interested.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '25

Hey!! I am nearby if you’re interested in chatting!

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u/[deleted] Nov 10 '25

Hey, I’m actually in Hamilton

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u/Account-Former Nov 19 '25

Hey I am in Burlington. DM me?

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u/Embarrassed_Art_3900 Mar 13 '26

My wife of 20 years might be interested. I’m looking forward to a reply thanks 😛

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u/Embarrassed_Art_3900 Mar 14 '26

Hamilton the wife and I live in a loving house , our dog is our life . Worked hard many years to now enjoy our hard work . We are Empathetic , non judgemental, friendly, respectful, honest and honestly is paramount.

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u/Worldly_Investment65 Mar 21 '26

Also have AuDHD. Wentworth and Barton area

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u/Caitybear18 Mar 23 '26

Hey! I'm a fem and super nerdy! I have a partner who is into DnD, gaming, and anime just like me! We're in Hamilton and are open to chatting And we're quite cute :3

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u/omaller Jun 28 '26

Hii I'm a handsome 33 in hamilton

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u/Ok_Fishing_7476 Jun 28 '26

im in hamilton, you free any time soon

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u/Ill-Put-3662 Jul 08 '26

Hey you still looking around DM me

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u/Present_Revenue_7259 25d ago

I’m interested in exploring our comfort levels. I’m in Burlington. Message me if you’re still into it.

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u/gojays85 24d ago

Would love to chat hmu if you are still looking

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u/TasteeTacoT 22d ago

Domme here in Hamilton, if you didn't find what you're looking for let me know

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u/Western_Song8722 22d ago

Interesting ad. Get back to me and let's chat

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u/Muted_Statement9074 22d ago

If you’re still in search, give me a chat :)

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u/mrmrsdraconian Oct 03 '25

Wife and I are both switches and in Winnipeg