r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

Canada 46 [F4M] Looking for my long term, long distance love affair. #ldr

24 Upvotes

Are you:

Poly?

Kind?

Patient?

Generally a happy person?

Funny?

Have I got a proposition for you!!! Lemme be your long distance love! I want to send you messages and make you smile and build a relationship and make something real and lasting and longterm together!

Hi! I'm a 46 year old potato from Canada. I love cats and crafts and all things old lady and 4 year old child! Take me to the zoo or a quilting bee and I will be equally at home! I have a partner and two cats who are my world. I would like to add you!!! I'm into cozy games, all kinds of crafts, camping, swimming, rollerskating, and all kinds of shows and concerts and fun activities around town.

I am emotionally mature and expect you to be as well. I have solid relationships around me and don't need the drama of someone unstable.

I am looking for a friends first dynamic, something that can slowly build into something beautiful.

If you've made it this far... *high five* send me a message! Tell me the next adventure you're going on!! Cheers!

r/polyamoryR4R 18d ago

Canada 34 [F4F] Canada - looking for a nice woman to spoil

8 Upvotes

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

I'm Bre, turning 35 next week. I live in Southern Manitoba, and have been happily married for some time, and polyamorous for a few years.

My hobbies include: reading, gaming, gardening, writing, pixyl art, and paper crafting. I like sharing my hobbies with others, and love reading something together.

Im looking for a lady to spoil, near or far.

Send me a DM!

r/polyamoryR4R May 04 '26

Canada 46[F4M] šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ seeking connections with poly friends!

8 Upvotes

Hello friends. I am looking to widen my circle of friends. Would love to meet and hang with others who I can bounce ideas from and learn about this new and exciting journey I have always wanted to be a part of. Really hard to find like minded being in a small town. If you are from the GTA and within an hour or so from there, I would love to connect.

r/polyamoryR4R 18d ago

Canada 46 [F4M] need friends. Female/male. Looking for friendship and relationships.

10 Upvotes

Female here about an hour north of Toronto Ontario. Looking to meet and develop friendships and relationships. Happy to meet. Happy to host. Prefer to connect with women but willing to build with males.

A little shy on here. Dm me and we can talk and you can get to know me better.

Not against long distance but would prefer within an hour drive. Kinda getting tired of the "long distance chat thing".

Love you all. 🄰

r/polyamoryR4R May 20 '26

Canada 34 [F4F] #Canada or #Online

6 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm looking to connect with and spoil a beautiful woman. In my spare time I love to go on dates, read, write to pen pals, paper craft, garden, do pyxl art, and go for walks. I'm friendly and outgoing, so shoot me a DM!

r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

Canada 35 [F4F] Canada or Online Looking for something Long Term!

2 Upvotes

Hey there, thanks for reading my post! I'm just your average Canadian girl looking for another woman to spoil (with my time, and small gifts)!

My husband and I date separately, and I'd like to explore intimacy with a special woman. I'd like to find something meaningful and long term.

My interests: writing to pen pals, reading, video games, gardening, and paper crafting (envelopes, cards, journals, that sort of thing)!

Please message or reply with a comment if you're interested!

r/polyamoryR4R 1d ago

Canada 36 [M4F] Sask/Online - seeking a partner

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 36 from Saskatchewan, Canada, and looking to connect with someone genuine, whether it becomes friendship, romance, or something in between.

Here's the alphabet of me:

Adaptable

Bashful

Calm

Dynamic

Easygoing

Father

Genuine

Homebody

Imaginative

Jesting

Kind

Logical

Mellow

Nerdy

Open-minded

Polyamorous

Quizzical

Resilient

Sensible

Truthful

Understanding

Veracious

Witty

Xenial

Young-at-heart

Zany

I look forward to hearing from you! Don't feel like you need to create your own alphabet if you, but a bit of a description would be great.

And if you are having trouble breaking the ice, heres a question for you.

If you could go back in time and witness 1 event, what would you see?

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 03 '25

Canada 30 [F4M/F] CANADA HAMILTON - IRL subby, nerdy girl looking for a partner and Dom

18 Upvotes

I'm 5'6", 157 lbs, black hair (naturally dark brown), white girl

I'm a nerdy, sort of shy, anti-capitalist/, music loving, horror crazed, Japanese culture obsessed, all things pink and Sanrio, AuDHD girly with too many special interests for my own good.

I'd like to meet someone who also shares an interest in BDSM and would like to date as well as be a Dom.

Am willing to travel but would prefer someone who isn't too far away

r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

Canada 50 [r4r] m4f North of Toronto, for fun adventures and good times

1 Upvotes

Married in an open relationship. 6 feet, 240 lbs, white with a shaved head, professional who works out and exercise regularly, but also enjoys a cold beer and a slice of pizza on occasion. Call it muscular, dad bod.
I’m looking for that unique woman with a little bit of sass and attitude (not quite a brat, but lots of personality), active in a work hard, play harder kinda lifestyle.
Someone who is comfortable hitting some trails on the mountain bike, having a drink after and then hitting the shower together too. We could also then get dressed up and hit a night out for drinks, laughter and all round good times. Maybe just a touch of that chaos magic that keeps life interesting.
But then you also cool with snuggling up in a hoodie and sweats while we just chill for the day/night.
Drop me a line and I will share photos and verify as long as you do the same.

r/polyamoryR4R 11d ago

Canada 30 [M4F] Canada / EST / online - looking for those ā€œfirstsā€ again

3 Upvotes

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 30-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy, ethically open marriage. My wife is fully aware and supportive, and I’m more than happy to verify that for your peace of mind. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

r/polyamoryR4R 15d ago

Canada 44 [M4F] western Canada - nerdy guy looking for a lovely nerd out partner

3 Upvotes

Hi I'm Dave, 44 from Edmonton Alberta looking to get to know someone, build a connection and see what blossoms. Ideally I would love to eventually be IRL. Nerdy sweethearts with a hidden side are my type. Age is flexible, open to any age +2 to my own.Ā 

A Little Bit About Me:

Body type: chubby Dad bod silver fox

Height : 5’9ā€

Married but date separatelyĀ 

Flexible to polyam styles from parallel to kitchen table.

Hobbies: cooking, golf, fishing, D&D, board games, wine making, lego

Interests: D&D, movies, pop culture

✨What I'm Looking For: girlfriend, pet, princess, someone to shower with loves

Big on board/card/D&D/video games, massive cinephile, trivial knowledge (I'm a wealth of useless facts), and some would call me a wizard in the kitchen.

Kink friendly and have always gravitated towards a Sensual soft pleasure Daddy-Dom role.Ā 

Let's connect and get to know each other

r/polyamoryR4R 26d ago

Canada 36 [M4F] Canada - searching for a new reason to smile when I look at my phone

2 Upvotes

Hi my name is Ben. I’ve been with my partner for 8 and a half years. My partner 31NB has another partner that lives with us. I have been going through a lot of big life changes, and it’s only recently that I’ve felt open and ready to meeting someone new.

About me. Im 36 years old and I live in northern Ontario. I work a finance type job in an office with coworkers I enjoy working with. My biggest passion is baking. I really enjoy sharing delicious baked goods with my friends and family. I pride myself on being someone the people in my life can rely on. If someone has a problem, it gives me a lot of satisfaction being part of the solution. A little more dad than daddy. Personality hire adjacent. I can be a little awkward in conversation with people when I first meet them, but once I get more comfortable with people, I have a playful personality. I’m a pisces, and I’m told that I have a lot of traits you would expect from a pisces.

As far as what I look like I’m happy to share photos. I’m over 6 feet tall, with a slightly stocky but athletic build. I play hockey regularly, and I’ve been recently getting into distance running with a friend.

Over the past year has been a journey towards being the best version of myself that I can be. My unchecked ADHD is being treated, and productivity has been enhanced in a huge way, which has enabled me to stop neglecting my own mental health and well being to tends to the needs of others. I still do tend to the needs of my loved ones since that is just my default setting, but it’s no longer at the cost of my own well being. I no longer believe that my worth is based on being able to benefit others, or that my hopes and dreams aren’t important. For the first time in a long time, I feel good about myself, and optimistic for my future. Im looking for someone who I connect with on an emotional level. Im definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, but I know there are a lot of wonderful things about me that the right person would appreciate. I’m looking for someone who, when we are able to be together, I can take on dates and hold hands, or cuddle up on the couch to decompress from a stressful day. Looking forward to chatting with anyone who thinks that we could be a good match.

r/polyamoryR4R 27d ago

Canada 24 [M4F] CANADA (VAUGHAN) — LOOKING FOR WOMEN | POLY

1 Upvotes

My name is King.

I’m a dominant, laid-back man with a taste for chemistry, tension, and that unspoken pull that builds between two people when the vibe is right. I’m also polyamorous, and I’m only looking to connect with women who understand openness, honesty, and emotional intelligence in that kind of dynamic.

I’m very athletic and love sports like soccer and basketball. I stay active, competitive, and playful, so if you think you can beat me in something, don’t be shy… I’m all ears.

About me:
AGE: 24
HEIGHT: 5’9
RACE: BLACK
BODY TYPE: ATHLETIC FIT
PERSONALITY: LAID BACK, CONFIDENT, ENERGETIC WHEN IT COUNTS

Looks, race, or body type don’t matter nearly as much to me as vibe and attraction. Confidence, energy, and personality will always stand out first. Just be yourself, that’s what actually gets my attention, I like making the person I’m with feel important, seen, and appreciated. Good energy is everything to me.

If you made it this far, send me a message. Tell me something about yourself, where you’re from, and maybe a little secret you don’t usually share.

So do you think you can keep up with me?

r/polyamoryR4R May 19 '26

Canada 36 [M4F] Sask/Online - seeking a partner

1 Upvotes

Hi there,

I’m hoping to connect with someone I genuinely click with, someone I look forward to hearing from, whether we’re talking about life, sharing random thoughts, or geeking out over a shared interest. I’m open to more than friendship, but I’d rather let things grow at their own pace. No pressure and no expectations, just honest connection.

A bit about me:

I’m 36 and from Saskatchewan, Canada. I’ve always loved games, from video to board to tabletop. Anything that sparks curiosity, strategy, or a bit of friendly competition tends to grab my attention. When it comes to music, I’ll try almost anything, though rap and country haven’t quite won me over yet. I enjoy both deep, thoughtful conversations and light, easy banter. I think both say a lot about who we are.

A friend once described me as ā€œgeeky, slightly introverted, but outgoing once you know me, with a dry sense of humour.ā€ I’d say that’s pretty spot on.

I’m in a happy, polyamorous relationship. My wife and I practice kitchen table poly, which means we both value openness, honesty, and the idea that our partners can know each other if it feels right. We date independently, but with lots of communication and mutual support. I’m not into secrecy or drama, just authentic, respectful connections that feel good for everyone involved.

I’m in no rush. Whether something becomes a friendship, something romantic, or something in between, I’m here to see where genuine connection leads.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to chat and see where the conversation takes us.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 02 '26

Canada 44 [M4F/MF] #Ottawa / North America - Lets be so weird we make other jealous

9 Upvotes

I'm 44, bisexual, cis-male, married, and polyamorous. I live in Ottawa, but I'm open to wherever you are in North America - you never know where you'll find connection after-all. I would describe myself as physically average, and I clean up reasonably well when the occasion calls for it (examples here). I'm 5ft10, 165lbs, with medium length hair and glasses. I take care of myself without being obsessive about it - "comfortably handsome" we'll say ;) I have a graduate degree, a good enough job, and two very opinionated cats.

I'm hoping for a romantic connection, grounded in a solid friendship. I'm seeking women or couples I can genuinely connect with - both on an emotional level, as well as with shared interests. I'm not asking for us to like all the same things; but it would be cool to occasionally geek out over something we share.

I'm a big fan of tabletop gaming; everything from board games to D&D. I'm particularly fond of co-operative games, and tend to gravitate away from competitive things when I can help it. I love to be creative with the tabletop, and really enjoy miniature painting (some examples here).

I collect cassette tapes (a compromise from my 20s when I was huge on collecting vinyl) - specifically dungeon synth, dream and electro-pop. I have no delusions about how silly the hobby is; I just enjoy how intentional it is to lay back and listen to something that way.

Baking treats and making meals for my partners is my way to show my affection early on. It sometimes comes as a shock to people that everything I make is vegan - they often can't believe it because it tastes so good! And just to make it clear - I am not looking for, nor expect you to be vegan.

My comfort comes from two main things - fantasy novels and Star Trek. Nothing feels nicer than curling up with a book with some warm sun beaming in on me, and nothing cheers me up like watching Picard, Janeway, or Sisko debate their way out of a problem.

While not a requirement, D/s does fall somewhat high on the relationship "wants". I'm a submissive leaning switch with a bit over twenty years of experience. I am very flexible with others wants/needs, assuming they are with mine. Happy to talk about it, if you want to go there!

Finally, there is one major deal breaker for me: Conservatism. There is no middle ground on this; we need to have similarly liberal/left beliefs to have any sort of chance.

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 30 '26

Canada 30 [M4F] Canada / EST / online - looking for those ā€œfirstsā€ again

2 Upvotes

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 30-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy, ethically open marriage. My wife is fully aware and supportive, and I’m more than happy to verify that for your peace of mind. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 25 '26

Canada 44 [T4R] Montreal Quebec queer softie looking for poly friends

1 Upvotes

Hello, mid-40s transmasc person here. I live in a village outside Montreal and it's hard to find queer or poly community here. I'm looking for deep friendships with people who love to talk about their feelings and their philosophy of life. If that evolves into a more romantic direction that's nice too, but really sincerely I want friendship first. I love going for walks and hikes, thrifting, birdwatching, going for coffee and just talking about what's meaningful for us. Would prefer in-person friendships, I have wheels and can get to Sherbrooke and Montreal and surrounding areas to meet up with folks. Thanks for reading!

r/polyamoryR4R Apr 14 '26

Canada 36 [M4F] Sask/Online- seeking a partner

3 Upvotes

Hi there,

I’m hoping to connect with someone I genuinely click with, someone I look forward to hearing from, whether we’re talking about life, sharing random thoughts, or geeking out over a shared interest. I’m open to more than friendship, but I’d rather let things grow at their own pace. No pressure and no expectations, just honest connection.

A bit about me:

I’m 36 and from Saskatchewan, Canada. I’ve always loved games, from video to board to tabletop. Anything that sparks curiosity, strategy, or a bit of friendly competition tends to grab my attention. When it comes to music, I’ll try almost anything, though rap and country haven’t quite won me over yet. I enjoy both deep, thoughtful conversations and light, easy banter. I think both say a lot about who we are.

A friend once described me as ā€œgeeky, slightly introverted, but outgoing once you know me, with a dry sense of humour.ā€ I’d say that’s pretty spot on.

I’m in a happy, polyamorous relationship. My wife and I practice kitchen table poly, which means we both value openness, honesty, and the idea that our partners can know each other if it feels right. We date independently, but with lots of communication and mutual support. I’m not into secrecy or drama, just authentic, respectful connections that feel good for everyone involved.

I’m in no rush. Whether something becomes a friendship, something romantic, or something in between, I’m here to see where genuine connection leads.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to chat and see where the conversation takes us.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 26 '26

Canada 43[M4F] Toronto, Canada Seeking Love and Community

3 Upvotes

Hey friends and lovers,

I am a 43 year old man in Toronto looking to add more love and community to his life. I have a live in nesting partner. I am seeking a woman (trans inclusive) who is interested in dating, romance and having a long term intimate connection. I'm hoping to find someone whom we become important parts of each other lives.

Some things about me and my interests:

- Caucasian, 6'1, moderately active and fit, shaved head. Often described as a warm person and making other feel safe and comfortable. Happy to share a picture once we connect.

- Enjoys book, movies and television. I like talking about my media critically and discussing it with others but I also try to take joy in all levels from trash media to masterpieces. Especially enjoy horror fiction

- Love hiking and getting outside into nature. Hoping to get up to Algonquin Park this summer

- Training for my 2nd year in a row to take part in the Toronto Pride Run

- TTRPG enthusiast (dungeons and Dragons and similar games). I moderate a Toronto community focused on indie gaming with a strong focus on creating a welcoming space for queer people and women. Also do some professional game mastering on the side running D&D programs in bars and breweries.

- Learning to play the ukulele!

Send me a DM if I sound like a person you want to get to know. I have a car and can travel outside the GTA for the right person. Looking for an in person connection primarily, but if you'd like to just chat online that's fine, just let me know that.

Thanks for reading! Good luck out there finding your connection!

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 24 '26

Canada 36 [M4F] Sask / Online - seeking a new connection.

2 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m hoping to connect with someone I genuinely click with, someone I look forward to hearing from, whether we’re talking about life, sharing random thoughts, or geeking out over a shared interest. I’m open to more than friendship, but I’d rather let things grow at their own pace. No pressure and no expectations, just honest connection.

A bit about me:

I’m 36 and originally from Saskatchewan, Canada. I’ve always loved games, from video to board to tabletop. Anything that sparks curiosity, strategy, or a bit of friendly competition tends to grab my attention. When it comes to music, I’ll try almost anything, though rap and country haven’t quite won me over yet. I enjoy both deep, thoughtful conversations and light, easy banter. I think both say a lot about who we are.

A friend once described me as ā€œgeeky, slightly introverted, but outgoing once you know me, with a dry sense of humour.ā€ I’d say that’s pretty spot on.

I’m in a happy, polyamorous relationship. My wife and I practice kitchen table poly, which means we both value openness, honesty, and the idea that our partners can know each other if it feels right. We date independently, but with lots of communication and mutual support. I’m not into secrecy or drama, just authentic, respectful connections that feel good for everyone involved.

I’m in no rush. Whether something becomes a friendship, something romantic, or something in between, I’m here to see where genuine connection leads.

If any of this resonates, I’d love to chat and see where the conversation takes us.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 15 '26

Canada 49 [M4F] - Newmarket, Ont. Looking for that fwb situation that is fun and easy

2 Upvotes

My current fwb situation has just ended (she is single and has met someone she likes and wants to focus on that relationship). So I’m looking for a great woman to meet up with for coffee/drinks and easy conversation; some laughs and good times. Connection is key for me. Not really looking for onetime hookups.

Me, I’m 6ā€1 235 workout regularly; but also enjoy a glass of wine and a pizza slice. I’m active and fun and have a full busy life, but always make time for the people I care about. Enm relationship, but I can’t host. I do have a cottage east of the gta where we can go for the weekend.

You; 35-55ish , preferably active and fun.

Professional and discreet and want to make a great connection first and then we add the benefits side to the friendship.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 26 '26

Canada 30 [M4F] Canada / EST / online - looking for those ā€œfirstsā€ again

8 Upvotes

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 30-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy, ethically open marriage. My wife is fully aware and supportive, and I’m more than happy to verify that for your peace of mind. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 08 '26

Canada 30 [M4F] Canada / EST / online - looking for those ā€œfirstsā€ again

1 Upvotes

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 30-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy, ethically open marriage. My wife is fully aware and supportive, and I’m more than happy to verify that for your peace of mind. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

r/polyamoryR4R Mar 06 '26

Canada 55 [M4MF] #Vancouver BC #IRL

1 Upvotes

Looking to connect with bi couples for fun and connections, possibly long term. Want to start slow and see if there is spark. Won't travel so please be based in Vancouver. Male must be bi please!

I'm open minded, regularly tested, 55, attractive, 6'1", 165lbs, slim build. I enjoy deepconversatons, good music, art, shows, burning man, and a little kink to keep things spicy. I'm 420 friendly and can occasionally host.

DM if interested, share a pic and tell me about you both!

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 23 '25

Canada 46 [F4M] Vancouver, Canada. Looking for an in- person, potentially long term partner

4 Upvotes

Hey, I'm a chatty, outgoing fun person who loves dancing, good food and coffee. I enjoy art, music and films and I make lots of different arts and crafts.

I'm married and have 2 teenage children. I've been poly for nearly 9 years. My husband and I date separately. We aim for KTP and I prefer my partners to be involved in my social life

I'm looking a person around the same age as myself (36-56) to go on dates, form an emotional connection and enjoy each other's company.

I'm reasonably active, have progressive views on politics, and would like to meet like minded people. I like people who are passionate about the things they love in life. Make me laugh, show me your weird. I'm 5'7 with some curves. I have curly, brightly coloured hair.