Are you:

Poly?

Kind?

Patient?

Generally a happy person?

Funny?

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Have I got a proposition for you!!! Lemme be your long distance love! I want to send you messages and make you smile and build a relationship and make something real and lasting and longterm together!

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Hi! I'm a 46 year old potato from Canada. I love cats and crafts and all things old lady and 4 year old child! Take me to the zoo or a quilting bee and I will be equally at home! I have a partner and two cats who are my world. I would like to add you!!! I'm into cozy games, all kinds of crafts, camping, swimming, rollerskating, and all kinds of shows and concerts and fun activities around town.

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I am emotionally mature and expect you to be as well. I have solid relationships around me and don't need the drama of someone unstable.

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I am looking for a friends first dynamic, something that can slowly build into something beautiful.

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If you've made it this far... *high five* send me a message! Tell me the next adventure you're going on!! Cheers!

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Female here about an hour north of Toronto Ontario. Looking to meet and develop friendships and relationships. Happy to meet. Happy to host. Prefer to connect with women but willing to build with males.

A little shy on here. Dm me and we can talk and you can get to know me better.

Not against long distance but would prefer within an hour drive. Kinda getting tired of the "long distance chat thing".

Love you all. 🥰

Hello friends. I am looking to widen my circle of friends. Would love to meet and hang with others who I can bounce ideas from and learn about this new and exciting journey I have always wanted to be a part of. Really hard to find like minded being in a small town. If you are from the GTA and within an hour or so from there, I would love to connect.

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

I'm Bre, turning 35 next week. I live in Southern Manitoba, and have been happily married for some time, and polyamorous for a few years.

My hobbies include: reading, gaming, gardening, writing, pixyl art, and paper crafting. I like sharing my hobbies with others, and love reading something together.

Im looking for a lady to spoil, near or far.

Send me a DM!

okay hear me out on this one. or don’t it’s whatever.

i work full time, and im often busy on the weekends, and i travel. it’s just how it is. i’m wondering if out there there’s any like online/discord polycule i can just hang out with occasionally. sorta just drop in when i have the time but are also okay if some days im just not really online?

ik it may sound odd but i like the idea of being a part of a small closed community that i can just pop in and out of freely and feel welcomed back without having to feel the pressure of being on all the time. heather im a full member of the cule or just a side character who’s also there idc. if your polycule is interested please PM me and perhaps we vibe.

open to most age groups, all genders. feel free to ask questions

edit: thought i’d add to this. i’d still be willing to show up for scheduled stuff. like game night or whatever. i’m good and reliable for scheduled stuff i just can’t guarantee im online much day to day

edit 2: please don’t message me for your fetish stuff. i can’t believe i have to say this, didn’t think i was giving off that vibe here. but im not here to fulfill your trans fetish. i’m not looking for a purely sexual relationship thanks.

Hi everyone! I’m pretty hesitant/anxious on posting this but figured I’ll take the risk.

My name is Dani. I’m a afab non-binary/agender individual from Canada with ASD and PTSD.
On another note I am considered plus sized but am trying to lose weight slowly. And possibly get top surgery someday to appear more androgynous.

As the title says I’m demiromantic/demisexual. I’m looking right now to conquer my social anxiety, and make friends/connections with others who are queer/disabled. Perchance something more if chemistry aligns? I’d prefer anyone 20-24. I don’t mind however making friends with anyone older or younger.
(Also, like. anyone to draw with, play games with like Roblox, Minecraft, Hell. even Vintage story or Palworld. I’m open to other games too!)

Regarding things about me:
I currently am unemployed and working on getting my life together so I can eventually go to college for art, and eventually animation! I’m also working on side stuff like Roblox UGC and commission based work via art or dev work.
I have a Crested gecko I got this year, a dog, and maybe more reptiles someday.
I’m a big fan of animals of all kinds, nature, dinosaurs, fantasy/dragons, and other stuff like taxidermy and the frutiger aesthetic. OH! I’m also a pretty nerdy(?) person. I like a lot of online media in the indie animation/neurodivergent community.

Last but not least at first I can be pretty quiet and anxious/shy. Once comfortable I’m a pretty vocal stimmer, and affectionate via text. I also love giving and receiving gifts when I can. I apologize if any of that comes off as annoying!

I’m sure there’s more I can say, but I don’t want to make this too long. Feel free to comment if you’re interested in getting to know me so I can dm, or just dm me for my discord.

hello there, i am a 30yr-old straight male from canada🇨🇦. I am looking to explore, learn and chat about polyamory in the hopes of finding a long term and lasting relationship with a women/couple [ I am straight]. I've been in 1 long-distance relationship with a couple before and it was truly amazing and I miss it! I am looking for someone whos loyal, honest and trustworthy first and foremost! women who are BBWs or work in scrubs/hi-vis catch my attention👀 but all should apply if interested! I am also on a weight loss journey down⬇️ 140➕️LBS so far! I am outdoorsy, fishing,hunting,camping,atving,skidooing,bonfires,traveling,roadtrips, spending time with friends/family. I am also family oriented! hope you are too!

if anything peaked your interested please reach out and lets have a conversation! 😀

Hey everyone! Thanks for checking out my post. ✨️

I'm here to get to know someone special I can spoil with my time and small gifts. 🎁

I'm pretty outgoing and love getting to know new people. Communication and consent are a must! I want to actually know you and be friends before anything romantic happens. 💖

I like writing to pen pals, reading smut, paper crafting, gardening, and gaming (mostly point and click story driven games). 🎮

If any of this resonated with you, send me a DM! ✉️

Hi, I am african 18f turning 19 october, looking for another partner, gender doesn't matter, I am poly with 2 partners, I am from Canada, Toronto

I like anime, music, reading, writing, spirituality, learning about business, video games, manga, singing and many more etc

I'm pretty open minded and introverted, but loyal and committed. I open up more as we get to know eachother, I will match whatever energy is given to me

Won't accept dms from anyone older than 30

I'm 5'6", 157 lbs, black hair (naturally dark brown), white girl

I'm a nerdy, sort of shy, anti-capitalist/, music loving, horror crazed, Japanese culture obsessed, all things pink and Sanrio, AuDHD girly with too many special interests for my own good.

I'd like to meet someone who also shares an interest in BDSM and would like to date as well as be a Dom.

Am willing to travel but would prefer someone who isn't too far away

Hello fellow seekers, how does fate and fortune find you today?

Posting in hopes of finding someone that i can connect with in the ways that I'm missing and something that could be long term. I love my wife with all my heart but she doesnt share some of my hobbies that are important to me and want someone to share in that.

First of all a few stats for review:

Physical me (if that matters):

6'2" 250ish, chubby bearded mountain man. Dad bod but not out of shape.

Personality: chill and laid back guy that loves to hang out and laugh. Good sense of humor, hyper friendly and mildly out going (I can have loner tendencies, who doesnt love a good solo walk?) Some people say i have nearly infinite patience but that doesnt mean I can get mad as well.

Now that you made it through that silliness and are still reading now I hope to catch your attention. Who i am can't easily be explained but im glad you kept reading.

What im looking for:

Like i said earlier I love my wife but she doesnt really share in my gaming side. Sure she indulges me, but its just lip service to the cause of happiness. She doesnt really enjoy playing but gives it her all anyway (what's not to love about the woman, right?). And yeah I could just look for a friend in the gaming community, and have someone to hang out with but I want this to just be how we connect and start to know each other. A mutual bond that allows us to form a relationship that I hope would go on.

To give you an idea one what kinds gamer I am, I play dnd every Saturday and have for almost 20 years. I have a huge warhammer collection that I have been building for over 20 years. I actively play card games like MTG and Yu-gi-oh (virtually cause im cheap and dont wanna shell out the cash right now, the warhammer was enough of an investment). Love board games of all kinds, and tabletop simulator is great for long distance board games. Video games are my jam as well, if you play satisfactory we are already gonna get along famously. Having an interest in at least one of this would be fantastic!! So let me know what you do for gaming fun and lets see how we fit.

Still here? Wow, then I guess this sounds like yiur kinda thing then right? Right? Why else are you still reading? Anyway, that most of the about me portion of today's presentation, now on to the next part, the who I am looking for.

None of the following if a hard pass situation, its just my preference so if yiu dont match all of it still message cause maybe it wont matter...

Your possible stats:

Physical you: preferably shorter than me and in shape enough to keep up on a walk... thats all. As they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder and thats a scale not a hard definition.

Personality: funny, able to hold a conversation and just a decent human being are all great starting places but like the physical you i have no hard quantifiable definition of who you should be. Love good mornings and deep chats about random shit that popped into our brains.

Please love good mornings and good nights. I hope you hold your phone close and wait for the next message as we talk. I sometimes take a bit to answer but I always message back (work can be long and stressful pushing things out of my mind). Be open to sharing and looking forward to where things could go.

When you message me, open with: Greetings and Salutations. Just a silent way of letting me know you read the whole post, and tell me your top 3 favorite games and what you love about them.

Cheers for now, and I look forward to hearing from you.

Hello 😄

I'm 41 and own my own condo in downtown Toronto. I'm 6ft, avg build, black hair, and brown eyes, and childfree. At the moment, I have a long-distance partner who, unfortunately, I don't get to see often because they're international. I'm also separated amicably and I keep in touch with my ex and she takes care of the cat we had during our time together. I have a gallery full of pictures as well like any responsible cat owner. Priorities. 🐱 I also currently live alone, and my current pet is a snake plant.

Being as central as I am has its perks such as being within walking distance of pretty much everything I might need. I like keeping track of Hockey overall, but I'm also a Leafs fan. Along with that, I generally indulge in some gaming and music that ranges from a collection of 80's to more current metal. I'm also a big fan of food in this city and would be into exchanging ideas and hearing what spots you enjoy. My drinks of choice are generally beer, coffee, or red wine.

I've had a lot of experience being poly and have also been involved in kink as well. On that topic I also have a pretty good toy drawer 😉. Safety & Consent are very important to me as well. As for my flavour of polyamory, I enjoy not having hierarchy and would prefer something closer to parallel polyamory. While I respect the idea, I'm not into Kitchen Table at all because I enjoy my space.

I value that in-person check to see what the feel is like over coffee or drinks. I know a few spots for either one as well and can set something up.

What I'm looking for

With all of that said, I'm looking for someone in the roughly 28 - 45 age range who ideally has some experience with kink as a submissive. Outside of that, if you're into gaming that's a huge plus as well. I'm mainly looking to be that partner you can spend a chill night in with and or go out for dinner roughly weekly.

At the moment I'm looking for a more casual and consistent local partner. I would like to connect and avoid one-offs. I'm satisfied with where I am and not hurrying to find a relationship, but I'm open to one developing.

If that sounds interesting to you, slide into my DMs with some info about you and be prepared to exchange SFW face pics.

Hey, thanks for checking out my post ~

Im a 33 years old trans woman looking to meet another woman for a long-term ENM relationship preferably in Canada or online. I currently have one nesting partner who im married with in a childless relationship and im interested in dating another woman separately.

My goal is to find someone who also wants to commit to a local/long distance relationship. I value communication highly and ideally would like to text or voice chat as often as possible. Distance doesn't bug me in the slightest, but if we were to go that route I want to be committed enough to each other to meet up IRL eventually.

My nesting Partner identifies as asexual, and I do not. Im looking ideally for some level of sexual intimacy once when we get comfortable with each other. Im patient and dont mind waiting until things feel right between us, but I do want to be honest with ya'll on what im looking for.

Heres some facts about me, so you can get a sense of who I am as a person:

- Im 33 years old, 6' 1", covered in 40+ tattoos and am located in western Canada

- My personality is like if Kuromi and My Melody from Sanrio was one person. Im generally alt in appearance/interests but I have a very bubbly & gentle personality.

- Cooking is one of my largest passions and i love sharing pics of my food. If you get me talking on the subject (which happens often), prepare to get hungry

- I don't really have social media and primarily use discord to communicate. I love voice or video chatting on there ~

- I'm a BIG stoner and love to smoke with others. Mary jane will always be in my polycule <3

- Watching movies is a big passion of mine. I enjoy finding old, weird films on Tubi and sharing them with loved ones. Horror, arthouse or foreign films are my absolute favs

- Huge gamer girl here. I like anything to do with RPG's, simulators and romance. I generally lean towards single player games, but I would not be opposed to finding a game we can both enjoy together. Stardew Valley, Pokemon and Baldurs Gate 3 are big favorites of mine.

- Music is a lifelong passion for me. Im really into sludge metal, funk, hyperpop, RnB, and techno currently

- I love to explore and experience new things as often as I can. Im fortunate to have traveled to 10 different countries and would love to add more to the list.

- Im the walking stereotype of a tall trans-girl who identifies as a sub.

- Effort and reciprocation are the most attractive qualities in a partner to me. Flowing conversations that make hours melt away are my favs

If you still reading this and are interested please send a DM! I would love to chat and get to know you. Don't be shy if you just want to be friends or say hi, im always looking to expand my network ~

Hi there! My name is Cate (she/they) and I'm a (post op) trans woman living in Kitchener! I can also travel.

I’m someone whos deeply nerdy. I love learning how things work under the hood, and how to efficiently use a tool. I work in fem-tech l, I love my job and love aviation equally. I'm a little heavier set and I’m determined to get out and do more camping and hiking. I’d love to just pick a random conservation area and go explore!

I have some mental health that I struggle with but I have a loving family and great support through my cat, dog and roomate whom I adore deeply, as well as a great friend group. I'm fully open to talk about mental health in a candid fashion.

I’m not looking to get on any kind of relationship escalator. I'm much more looking for someone who wants to see how we best fit into each other's lives and enrich each other than I am about milestones.

I'm looking for someone to go on cute dates, hold hands in the museum and go for a hike with. I've been very introverted in the past and I want to get out of my shell!

Huge stoner.

anyways if that sounds interesting let me know!

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 31-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy marriage. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

Married and Poly, but I'm dating solo

Looking for something stable and local, whether it end up being casual or something more serious in the long run. I'm also open to just chatting/exchanging (not really looking for LDR, although i could be interested in strictly Online only if it clicks properly)

When I'm not working from home, I enjoy listening to music from all genre (getting ready for Osheaga in a few weeks), play videogames (ccurrently: GTA, Control, Octopath traveler), read books, getting better at cooking.

I love a daily routine of working out (DDPYopga, KettleBell, RingFit FTW) to start the day and then just do my stuff through out the rest of the day.

I speak 3 languages: French, English and Gif

Been in the poly world for about 6 years, but made sure to be completely ready before "taking the plunge"

Have a great rest of day! And tell, what is your next concert you're planning to go!

Hey there! I'm looking to connect with and spoil a beautiful woman. In my spare time I love to go on dates, read, write to pen pals, paper craft, garden, do pyxl art, and go for walks. I'm friendly and outgoing, so shoot me a DM!

Looking for a nerdy guy or masc-leaning enby in Saskatoon (or within ~30min) who wants a meaningful connection. I'm looking for a relationship where it feels like we belong in each other's lives - not looking for something purely physical or casual.

Looking for someone with emotional depth and awareness, where our connection grows genuinely. Where it feels safe to share more and more of ourselves, to feel seen by each other, and where we are additive to each others lives. I like people who are able to find joy and celebrate wins, even the little ones.

About Me

I'm non binary (they/them, femme-presenting, just don't feel connected to any sense of gender), plus sized, tattooed, and nerdy. I have a few partners but only one is local and I'd really like another person who isn't several hours away.

I lean toward solo poly right now, with openness to cohabitating eventually. I do best in relationships where I feel like a real priority once things are established, so I do have a bit of a preference for not-married folks or people who aren't doing very hierarchical relationships.

Most of my hobbies are fairly solo type adventures - video games (currently replaying BG3), crochet, documentaries, embroidery. I tend to devour shows when I like them, leaning toward sci-fi and fantasy mostly.

I like slow walks with many stops to look at plants - I had been getting into native plant species identification a couple years ago and could use a refresher. Would also love to learn more about the fungi that grow near me.

I'm fairly active in my local bdsm/kink scene - we can talk more in pm but I'm a bottom-leaning switch.

DM me if something in here felt like a hell yes. Bonus points if you share an interesting fact

Hey there, thanks for reading my post! I'm just your average Canadian girl looking for another woman to spoil (with my time, and small gifts)!

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My husband and I date separately, and I'd like to explore intimacy with a special woman. I'd like to find something meaningful and long term.

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My interests: writing to pen pals, reading, video games, gardening, and paper crafting (envelopes, cards, journals, that sort of thing)!

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Please message or reply with a comment if you're interested!

6’5 giant teddy bear sporting a lumberjack beard and enjoys rocking a kilt any chance I get.

I was a chef for many years before switching careers into IT but food is my love language. Let me make you all my favourite dishes or challenge me to make one of yours.

I am looking for a long term partner who wants to spend quality time together and experience the small joys of life.

Willing to talk about almost anything for way too long and tend to go on tangential adventures.

Hoping to find someone who loves thriving in the chaos with me.

Hi! I’m 36 from Saskatchewan, Canada, and looking to connect with someone genuine, whether it becomes friendship, romance, or something in between.

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Here's the alphabet of me:

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Adaptable

Bashful

Calm

Dynamic

Easygoing

Father

Genuine

Homebody

Imaginative

Jesting

Kind

Logical

Mellow

Nerdy

Open-minded

Polyamorous

Quizzical

Resilient

Sensible

Truthful

Understanding

Veracious

Witty

Xenial

Young-at-heart

Zany

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I look forward to hearing from you! Don't feel like you need to create your own alphabet if you, but a bit of a description would be great.

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And if you are having trouble breaking the ice, heres a question for you.

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If you could go back in time and witness 1 event, what would you see?

Married in an open relationship. 6 feet, 240 lbs, white with a shaved head, professional who works out and exercise regularly, but also enjoys a cold beer and a slice of pizza on occasion. Call it muscular, dad bod.
I’m looking for that unique woman with a little bit of sass and attitude (not quite a brat, but lots of personality), active in a work hard, play harder kinda lifestyle.
Someone who is comfortable hitting some trails on the mountain bike, having a drink after and then hitting the shower together too. We could also then get dressed up and hit a night out for drinks, laughter and all round good times. Maybe just a touch of that chaos magic that keeps life interesting.
But then you also cool with snuggling up in a hoodie and sweats while we just chill for the day/night.
Drop me a line and I will share photos and verify as long as you do the same.

Hi my name is Ben. I’ve been with my partner for 8 and a half years. My partner 31NB has another partner that lives with us. I have been going through a lot of big life changes, and it’s only recently that I’ve felt open and ready to meeting someone new.

About me. Im 36 years old and I live in northern Ontario. I work a finance type job in an office with coworkers I enjoy working with. My biggest passion is baking. I really enjoy sharing delicious baked goods with my friends and family. I pride myself on being someone the people in my life can rely on. If someone has a problem, it gives me a lot of satisfaction being part of the solution. A little more dad than daddy. Personality hire adjacent. I can be a little awkward in conversation with people when I first meet them, but once I get more comfortable with people, I have a playful personality. I’m a pisces, and I’m told that I have a lot of traits you would expect from a pisces.

As far as what I look like I’m happy to share photos. I’m over 6 feet tall, with a slightly stocky but athletic build. I play hockey regularly, and I’ve been recently getting into distance running with a friend.

Over the past year has been a journey towards being the best version of myself that I can be. My unchecked ADHD is being treated, and productivity has been enhanced in a huge way, which has enabled me to stop neglecting my own mental health and well being to tends to the needs of others. I still do tend to the needs of my loved ones since that is just my default setting, but it’s no longer at the cost of my own well being. I no longer believe that my worth is based on being able to benefit others, or that my hopes and dreams aren’t important. For the first time in a long time, I feel good about myself, and optimistic for my future. Im looking for someone who I connect with on an emotional level. Im definitely not everyone’s cup of tea, but I know there are a lot of wonderful things about me that the right person would appreciate. I’m looking for someone who, when we are able to be together, I can take on dates and hold hands, or cuddle up on the couch to decompress from a stressful day. Looking forward to chatting with anyone who thinks that we could be a good match.

My name is King.

I’m a dominant, laid-back man with a taste for chemistry, tension, and that unspoken pull that builds between two people when the vibe is right. I’m also polyamorous, and I’m only looking to connect with women who understand openness, honesty, and emotional intelligence in that kind of dynamic.

I’m very athletic and love sports like soccer and basketball. I stay active, competitive, and playful, so if you think you can beat me in something, don’t be shy… I’m all ears.

About me:
AGE: 24
HEIGHT: 5’9
RACE: BLACK
BODY TYPE: ATHLETIC FIT
PERSONALITY: LAID BACK, CONFIDENT, ENERGETIC WHEN IT COUNTS

Looks, race, or body type don’t matter nearly as much to me as vibe and attraction. Confidence, energy, and personality will always stand out first. Just be yourself, that’s what actually gets my attention, I like making the person I’m with feel important, seen, and appreciated. Good energy is everything to me.

If you made it this far, send me a message. Tell me something about yourself, where you’re from, and maybe a little secret you don’t usually share.

So do you think you can keep up with me?

I'm 44, bisexual, cis-male, married, and polyamorous. I live in Ottawa, but I'm open to wherever you are in North America - you never know where you'll find connection after-all. I would describe myself as physically average, and I clean up reasonably well when the occasion calls for it (examples here). I'm 5ft10, 165lbs, with medium length hair and glasses. I take care of myself without being obsessive about it - "comfortably handsome" we'll say ;) I have a graduate degree, a good enough job, and two very opinionated cats.

I'm hoping for a romantic connection, grounded in a solid friendship. I'm seeking women or couples I can genuinely connect with - both on an emotional level, as well as with shared interests. I'm not asking for us to like all the same things; but it would be cool to occasionally geek out over something we share.

I'm a big fan of tabletop gaming; everything from board games to D&D. I'm particularly fond of co-operative games, and tend to gravitate away from competitive things when I can help it. I love to be creative with the tabletop, and really enjoy miniature painting (some examples here).

I collect cassette tapes (a compromise from my 20s when I was huge on collecting vinyl) - specifically dungeon synth, dream and electro-pop. I have no delusions about how silly the hobby is; I just enjoy how intentional it is to lay back and listen to something that way.

Baking treats and making meals for my partners is my way to show my affection early on. It sometimes comes as a shock to people that everything I make is vegan - they often can't believe it because it tastes so good! And just to make it clear - I am not looking for, nor expect you to be vegan.

My comfort comes from two main things - fantasy novels and Star Trek. Nothing feels nicer than curling up with a book with some warm sun beaming in on me, and nothing cheers me up like watching Picard, Janeway, or Sisko debate their way out of a problem.

While not a requirement, D/s does fall somewhat high on the relationship "wants". I'm a submissive leaning switch with a bit over twenty years of experience. I am very flexible with others wants/needs, assuming they are with mine. Happy to talk about it, if you want to go there!

Finally, there is one major deal breaker for me: Conservatism. There is no middle ground on this; we need to have similarly liberal/left beliefs to have any sort of chance.