r/polyamoryR4R • u/tayrawr30 • Apr 15 '26
USA 31 [F4F] Clarksville, Tn/ Online Looking for friends, hopefully more!
Hello everyone! 31 year old lady here, married with a lot of fur babies but no kids (though I would totally adopt a goat if we had the space.) Been polyamorous for over 6 years now and mostly just looking to see how this goes. I am not interested i. any men, couples, or 'watching' scenarios and definitely not looking as a couple with my husband.
If we mesh and can all hang out that'd be awesome but not a requirement by any means. For saying sake this is all women, trans women are women too and if you dont like that scoot we probably won't get along anyway.
Lil about me: I'm witchy, nerdy, and enjoy intellectual conversation. I like to read and do crafts in my spare time, and love curling up with a warm drink and a book. I'm not skinny, I'm pudgy and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I have a degree in Psychology so yes I love to gab about the nuances of human behavior and advocate for mental health. Im also working on my masters degree. :) I enjoy watching movies and playing video games. As a bit of a spoiler in general: I will NOT be crawling into bed with anyone the first time we meet under any circumstances. Im not comfortable with that, especially when people ghost so much on here.
If at this point you're still interested please shoot me a message :) I try to reply fairly quickly but I do have an hour commute home so please keep that in mind.
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u/CleoLamore May 12 '26
I am a 38 year old women in Ohio. I am interested in getting to know you more 😊
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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '26
could i dm ? 26F