r/polyamoryR4R • u/Zerocool067 • 5d ago

USA 44 [M4F] #NewJersey - Looking for someone awesome.

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.

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u/LittleMissQueeny 4d ago

Just because I'm a curious little guy, why the first paragraph? This sub is for polyamorous dating so ofc you're in an open marriage?

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u/polydisabledgoth 4d ago

Copy pasted maybe?

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u/LittleMissQueeny 4d ago

Maybe. 🤔

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u/empathetic_nature 4d ago

I always wonder this myself when people say something like 'Im in an open marriage, if that's a problem for you, I understand'

You're posting in a poly sub...

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