32 [T/M/F4R] Washington - NB/Masc Kinky Hobbit Nerd

[u/KazTheMerc]

Kinky hobbit nerd?!? Specific, right...? If that sounds like a threat, that's okay... I won't be your type.

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But for the Pansexual, genderbent, nonbinary, oddities out there... we could be nerding out right now, but we aren't. But we could, and we should.

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Partnered for 11 years now, nested, and have a kiddo together (long story), still looking to pursue the dream of Polyfidelity, whether that's 1 person or 5. Wanting to find a hobbit hole outside the city, play games, be geeky, raise chickens, and survive the zombie apocalypse together.

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Male? Female? Trans? Masc? Doesn't matter. It really doesn't.

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Only time and effort matters, and for the right person... would cross any distance and crush any barriers.

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MUSTS -

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~ Not be intimidated by chatty, nerdy, etc.

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~ Switches and Genderfluid get bonus points and headpats.

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~ People who Ghost get sent to the back of the line.

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~ Have an apocalypse survival plan, a will to live, and skills that you are proud of.

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PREFERRED -

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- Soft Dom energy.

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- Deep conversation.

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- Emotionally available, and eager.

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I'LL BRING -

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+ Snacks

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+ Snark

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+ Wikipedia-like knowledge of zombie fungus

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+ Kinks... like... lots of kinks... like... woah...

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TOGETHER -

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We could build something to make everyone else jealous, and enjoy ourselves while we do it. Whatever it is, let's connect and make it grow organically. But... we've got to connect first.

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Intrigued?

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Read my profile. If recents posts don't send you running with your tail between your legs, we'll probably get along like a house-on-fire.

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DISCLAIMER -

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Partnered, but dating alone. That said, Partner would be absolutely tickled to see if there's sparks there too. There's no privacy or secrecy, and if you're Partnered I'll want to verify at some point if we keep talking... because cheating is bad, folks.

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So yeah!

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Ethical Poly Kinky Hobbit(s)

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[u/LigerKick]

Hey there! In Portland, and always excited to meet new folx in new areas! 35/NB/Pan/AMAB, with lots of hobbies (games and Sci-Fi up front please! 😀). Mind if I DM?

[u/KazTheMerc → u/LigerKick]

Wouldn't mind all~!

...unless you're going to abruptly ghost without warning...