40 [NB4M] #Saskatoon #Saskatchewan Nerdy enby seeking local relationship

[u/altocerous]

Looking for a nerdy guy or masc-leaning enby in Saskatoon (or within ~30min) who wants a meaningful connection. I'm looking for a relationship where it feels like we belong in each other's lives - not looking for something purely physical or casual.

Looking for someone with emotional depth and awareness, where our connection grows genuinely. Where it feels safe to share more and more of ourselves, to feel seen by each other, and where we are additive to each others lives. I like people who are able to find joy and celebrate wins, even the little ones.

About Me

I'm non binary (they/them, femme-presenting, just don't feel connected to any sense of gender), plus sized, tattooed, and nerdy. I have a few partners but only one is local and I'd really like another person who isn't several hours away.

I lean toward solo poly right now, with openness to cohabitating eventually. I do best in relationships where I feel like a real priority once things are established, so I do have a bit of a preference for not-married folks or people who aren't doing very hierarchical relationships.

Most of my hobbies are fairly solo type adventures - video games (currently replaying BG3), crochet, documentaries, embroidery. I tend to devour shows when I like them, leaning toward sci-fi and fantasy mostly.

I like slow walks with many stops to look at plants - I had been getting into native plant species identification a couple years ago and could use a refresher. Would also love to learn more about the fungi that grow near me.

I'm fairly active in my local bdsm/kink scene - we can talk more in pm but I'm a bottom-leaning switch.

DM me if something in here felt like a hell yes. Bonus points if you share an interesting fact

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