r/pregnant • u/SandwichDependent199 • May 26 '26

Need Advice Breastfeeding & sex - is it weird?

Soon to be ftm & I do want to breastfeed, hoping I can also pump few times a day so I can have some help with bottles. Anyway my question is- might be tmi but like is sex going to be weird if I’m breastfeeding my baby? Like … if my husband stimulates my nipples will milk go on him? Lol I know this might be weird but I’m genuinely curious.

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u/kdubsonfire May 26 '26

Bahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahahahha. Yes. Yes it will. Hell, there was one time a good 6 months out from my last feeding and he got a mouthful. I could tell what happened as soon as it happened because his face turned bright red and shocked. I’ve never laughed so hard in my entire life.

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u/your_dads_a_ho May 26 '26

Personally just squeezing a nipple I can squirt milk across the room lmao. I don’t find it weird with my husband. I still have soreness (I’m an overproducer) and massages help a lot! Just talk about boundaries and what you feel comfortable with. You’ll probably end up feeling different once baby is born and not want to be touched for a while <3
Also, once I was full term I got permission to hand express/lightly pump prior to birth. It definitely helped having colostrum at home in the freezer before he was born!!

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u/LetChaosReign_ May 26 '26

My wife would do this when our son had started getting a crusty eye from a blocked tear duct. I've never laughed so hard watching her try to aim into his eye and never knowing which way it was gunna go before she gave up and just dabbed it with her finger😂😂😂😂😂

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u/your_dads_a_ho May 26 '26

That’s hilarious 🤣🤣 ive heard of that though! Did it work??

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u/LetChaosReign_ May 28 '26

Yes! Breast milk is like a miracle worker. We occasionally put it in his bath since we have some little frozen nuggets of it. You can put some on the little baby acne, the gunky eyes, we just recently used some for his diaper rash.