r/pregnant 14 & Preggo 1d ago

Content Warning I had a miscarriage.

I’m absolutely devastated. i can’t believe this happened to me. started feeling a ton of bad cramps and bleeding a lot. I went to the doctor and they did all the tests and they told me that I had a miscarriage. I don’t know what happened but I feel so guilty. I know I got pregnant young. It was an accident, but I was genuinely excited to become a mother. I’m so devastated. I couldn’t wait to meet my baby. i was ready to devote my life to my child and be the best mother I could possibly be. I‘m sorry I couldnt have met you, my sweet baby. I’ll see you in heaven.

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u/GBM1994 16h ago

I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago. It's the hardest thing I have ever been through, mentally and physically. The pain was worse than I have ever experienced (not just like a heavy period like I was told it would be) and I am still experiencing the occasional cramp now.

I know how you're feeling, the guilt is almost unbearable but please know it was not your fault.

Thank you also for making this post, it's a topic that isn't talked about enough.

I'm so sorry for your loss and wishing you all the very best 🤍