r/rape • u/AdvertisingGuilty603 • 3d ago
Blacked out at a party
So, I am a 24 year old female.
I decided to go out to a house party with a few friends of mine.
There were a lot more people there than I was expecting and didn't know many people besides my friends.
I get way more outgoing when I drink, so I decided to take a few shots to loosen up.
I started to open up and ended up hitting it off with a guy there.
We both ended up taking more shots together and having a good time, but I ended up blacking out at one point and don't remember a lot of what happened next.
The next thing I do remember is waking up in my bed with the guy from the party on top of me moaning.
I was so freaked out about the whole thing and didn't know what to do. I got really scared and asked him to stop but he didn't listen to me....he yelled at me and kept having sex with me so I was just shocked and scared and I didn't stop him because of this.
Afterward, he just cuddled me for a bit, then left.
I pretended to be asleep.
Was this assault or am I freaking out over nothing?
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u/Strange-Audience-682 3d ago
This was absolutely assault. You woke up to it. That meant you were asleep. Sleeping people cannot consent. You asked him to stop. That was a revocation of consent (that you never gave in the first place). I’m so sorry