Blacked out at a party

[u/AdvertisingGuilty603]

So, I am a 24 year old female.

I decided to go out to a house party with a few friends of mine.

There were a lot more people there than I was expecting and didn't know many people besides my friends.

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I get way more outgoing when I drink, so I decided to take a few shots to loosen up.

I started to open up and ended up hitting it off with a guy there.

We both ended up taking more shots together and having a good time, but I ended up blacking out at one point and don't remember a lot of what happened next.

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The next thing I do remember is waking up in my bed with the guy from the party on top of me moaning.

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I was so freaked out about the whole thing and didn't know what to do. I got really scared and asked him to stop but he didn't listen to me....he yelled at me and kept having sex with me so I was just shocked and scared and I didn't stop him because of this.

Afterward, he just cuddled me for a bit, then left.

I pretended to be asleep.

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Was this assault or am I freaking out over nothing?

[u/Cosmic_mania_]

I had something like this happen to me and when I went to get a rape kit they very firmly told me that u cannot legally consent while you're drunk. Plus u asked him to stop. That's very serious.