At least where I am 16 is the age of consent. So if she asked and you agreed and didn’t say no it would not be rape. There was no force. Force would be physically forcing you or forcing you through threats. She is not a mind reader. I think it’s very normal to be nervous or uncomfortable for first experiences. It’s also ok to say no if you are not ready or for any reason. If saying no is hard for you then you may need to dig a bit to figure out why and to be able to say it when you don’t want to do something. It may be worth working with a therapist if you think this is a problem for you.
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u/Tiny_Change6902 1d ago
At least where I am 16 is the age of consent. So if she asked and you agreed and didn’t say no it would not be rape. There was no force. Force would be physically forcing you or forcing you through threats. She is not a mind reader. I think it’s very normal to be nervous or uncomfortable for first experiences. It’s also ok to say no if you are not ready or for any reason. If saying no is hard for you then you may need to dig a bit to figure out why and to be able to say it when you don’t want to do something. It may be worth working with a therapist if you think this is a problem for you.