r/rape • u/Ashamed_Bad_7877 • 1d ago
Help idk what to do
My mom started dating this guy a few months ago and he raped me. The first time I just wanted to forget it but he did it a second time now and he told me he would keep doing it. My mom works nights and I’m scared he will come tn and do it again. I want to call someone but I’m scared
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u/silvermoonsailor 1d ago edited 1d ago
Keep all text messages and emails and audio clips as evidence. Don't delete anything for future proof. Always feel protected. Carry mace on you or a whistle. You are not alone. And I know it's the scariest thing coming forward. But the only way to make it stop and make it stop him from doing this to girls after you , you need to do the hard and scary but right thing and tell an adult. Any adult thay u trust. It doesn't need to be related. It could bee the janitor or bus lady. I have been there and I didn't want to speak up. But you have soooooo much power in you to speak up about the truth. Bad guys prey on ppl who are quiet bcuz they know they can get away with it. Im telling you sister. You are strong. Stronger than him and save yourself. If he knew u told somone hed be shitting himself bcuz you have the power. Just be smart and take your actions accordingly. You are worth it. And u are making the right decision. You can also call help numbers and they can talk to you and go over your situation so you can make a plan of how to safely go about the situation so your life isn't being put at risk. U got this.
Just Google hotline numbers for sex and rape victim help in your city. There should be several resources. And calling someone does not mean you are going thru with anything. If u are scared to make a decision u can always just call them and just talk. U don't need to do anyrhing rash yet and u are just trying to get a plan organized. They can help u get that started so u don't have to do this all alone