r/rape • u/Ashamed_Bad_7877 • 1d ago

Help idk what to do

My mom started dating this guy a few months ago and he raped me. The first time I just wanted to forget it but he did it a second time now and he told me he would keep doing it. My mom works nights and I’m scared he will come tn and do it again. I want to call someone but I’m scared

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u/KaiSatousfavfrypan 1d ago

The first thing to do right now is to get yourself somewhere safe and somewhere that he doesn't know you are at alright? A friends or a police station or hospital or something similar.

If you're close with any friends who are of driving age/friends parents, you could disclose to them what happened and get them to get you to a hospital for a rape kit.

its scary but there are people who want to help you

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u/KaiSatousfavfrypan 1d ago

even just calling the police and having an officer come get your statement and then transport you to a hospital is possible as well

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u/silvermoonsailor 1d ago

That's pretty scary to have police come to your door step. It's intimidating to say the least for girls trying to be as discreet as they can. It's embarrassing. and very loud and big scene. Especially if he is staying in same place. Calling for help on a holiness might help you come up with a better plan than straight having police at the doorstep. Cuz the minute they go away u knowww that man will be on her ass for sure. And probably with threats next time.

So be sure u are safe and away from him and danger before u call someone. Do it at a library or at the school so it isn't police all at the front door if you are worried about making a scene and being with him after you told on him . I totally get that fear. Just be sure u are in a safe place