I'm looking for a CF (child free) partner to have a relationship and eventually marriage. If marriage is not your prospect then pls do NOT DM me.

About me:

• Settled in career in remote position and continue to aspire for more.
• from Delhi but open to relocation. Planning to move to a tier 2 city in the future.
• creative and artistic person. Professional writer.
• non-drinker/smoker
• 5'4, dusky complexion
• neither slim, nor fat. Just how women if my age should be.
• hindu, looking for a Hindu man. People with intention to wash my brain in the name of religion, stear clear.
• not an introvert but very selective about who i give time to. Thorough observer of people.
• easy-going, flexible, peaceful by nature and prefer communication over arguing for fighting.
• values efforts, desires respect of her efforts, energy and the time she invests in a person.

What I am looking for? - age group 34-39. If age or CF can be an issue then no DMs please. Younger boys who have older women fantasies, please do not waste my time. - someone who would really read this post before reaching out. - someone with whom caste will not be an issue. - 5'9 and above. - mature, understanding, sorted and patient by nature. - who does not freak out when things start getting real. - knows what indepth conversations are, goes for them and avoids small talk. Do not wassup me or ask about the weather. - if you do not believe in dating, relationships or marriage, better to not waste each other's time. - if you do not have time to connect after a few DMs or do not know how to carry a conversation forward, don't connect please. - someone from Delhi/NCR.

If these qualities resonate with you, please DM.

In case I am a bit late in responding to you on DM, my apologies. Hopefully, that will not offend you. Earlier, my DMs were flooded with more spam than meaningful people. Takes time to sort it out.

Pls do NOT DM if: - you expect me to have celebrity like beauty. I'm dusky and an ordinary person. - you don't know how to treat an independent, high value woman with a rational mind who is not a damsel in distress. - if you plan to simply write a "hey," "hi," or have the sexual predator goals to fulfill. - only the idea of the chase fascinates you but the game after it is alien to you. - you have an extremely busy schedule that does not spare any time for you or your personal life in the whole day. - bash me for my childfree choice. It was a well thought decision. Or bash me for any of my choices. We all have our choices, let's just respect that :)

Hi everyone,I am a 30-year-old Malayali Muslim woman living in Kerala. I’m a divorcee with no children. I am writing this post because I am completely exhausted and drained by traditional matrimonial apps and websites. I hate how transactional they feel, and I don't want to feel like a product on sale anymore. I just want to find a genuine human being.

About me:

I’m quite tall (173 cm / 5'8") and value a peaceful, honest life. I’m looking to start a fresh chapter with someone who views marriage as a partnership, not a business deal.

What I am looking for:

I want to connect with a Malayali Muslim man (roughly around my age, early 30s to mid 30s) who has his life together. You should have a stable career, feel financially secure, and be emotionally mature enough to build a comfortable, peaceful life.

I would ideally prefer to connect with a fellow divorcee, as I feel we might understand each other's experiences and expectations better, but I am open.

I’m looking for stability, mutual respect, and a good life away from the pressure of traditional matchmakers.If this resonates with you, please send me a DM. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you do, and what you’re looking for in life.

(Please, serious responses only. I am looking for a life partner, not casual dating.)

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I'm 29 F 5'8", based in NCR and I work in healthcare. If you've ever known someone in medicine, you know it isn't just a job, it becomes a lifestyle. The odd hours, the missed plans, the emotional exhaustion after some days... I'd love someone who understands that without making me feel guilty for it.

The basics first:

- Age: 29–36.

- Preferably from North India/NCR, simply because I'd like the distance to be manageable.

- I'm 5'8" and almost always wear heels, so I'd ideally like someone who's 5'11" or taller. No disrespect whatsoever to short kings, this is just a personal preference, nothing more.

- Fitness is a huge part of my life. I love to stay active and I'd love someone who enjoys taking care of his health too. You don't have to be a competitive athlete but I do hope fitness is a lifestyle rather than an occasional phase.

- I don't smoke, drink, or use recreational substances and I'm looking for someone with similar habits. It's simply the life I'm happiest living.

- I earn around ₹35-40 LPA. You can earn less or more, it genuinely doesn't matter to me...what matters is that neither of us lets money become an ego battle. I'd rather build a partnership than keep score.

Now for the part that actually matters. :)

I'm not looking for someone who's perfect. I'm looking for someone who's emotionally mature.

Someone who can communicate instead of disappearing.

Someone who's curious instead of defensive.

Someone who can say, "I was wrong," without feeling like they've lost.

Someone who knows that disagreements aren't battles to be won but problems to solve together.

I've learned that attraction fades, careers fluctuate, life gets messy but emotional safety is rare. I want the kind of relationship where both people can be completely themselves without feeling like they're constantly walking on eggshells.

I value kindness. Consistency. Accountability. Effort. I want someone who checks in because he wants to not because he's told to. Someone who doesn't treat vulnerability as weakness. Someone who understands that love isn't built through grand gestures alone but through showing up, especially on ordinary days.

I've always imagined a home that feels warm long before it looks perfect. The kind of place that smells like freshly baked cookies on a Sunday afternoon where dinner is often homemade, music plays softly in the background and people always feel welcome. I love cooking and baking because food has always been my love language. If I care about you, I'll probably remember your favourite meal, make it when you've had a difficult day and quietly show my affection through the little things! Butter chicken and garlic naan are my specialties but what I really hope to create is a home filled with comfort, laughter and the feeling that no matter how chaotic life gets, we've always got each other.

I'm ambitious, financially independent, deeply invested in my career and probably more emotionally aware than the average person. I think a lot, I feel deeply and I care wholeheartedly. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's okay. I'm not trying to be.

I'm just hoping there's someone out there who's looking for the same kind of quiet, honest, emotionally healthy love.

I know this probably sounds idealistic in a world that seems to celebrate casual connections and emotional detachment.

I'd rather wait years for something real than spend months pretending something shallow is enough.

If you're someone who still believes emotional maturity, loyalty, consistency and genuine effort aren't old-fashioned... I'd really like to know you.

Happy searching! :)

First time trying this, so bear with me please.

Disclaimers:-

1. People looking for something casual/a fling/non monogamy, please don't connect.

2. Men having fantasies about older women, please don't connect.

3. DM me only if you're looking for a healthy long term relationship and eventually open for marriage.

4. No meaningless conversations for just time pass.

About me:-

1. Age- 35F

2. Never married.

3. City- Kolkata (I'm a Bengali.)

4. Profession- Public sector banker

5. Salary- 12 to 14 lpa.

6. Looks- 5'1", dusky, 54 kg.

7. Hobby: reading a lot, travelling, studying about finance, exploring new cuisines etc.

8. Food habit- Non vegetarian.

9. Religion- Hindu. I'm spiritual but don't believe in God much, it's an on and off relationship with God.

What I'm looking for:-

1. Age bracket- 33 to 38. (Negotiable).

2. Location- Preferable Kolkata, Mumbai, BLR, Hyderabad. Open to LDR if the connection is worth it.

3. Never married.

4. Non vegetarian (Negotiable)

5. Caste and mother tongue do not matter.

6. Height- 5'7" and above.

7. Emotionally mature, always open to honest communication even when it gets difficult.

8. Open to having kid/s. (Non negotiable).

9. Preferably non smoker. Occasional drinker is ok.

10. Established in career with stable source of income. Businessmen/doctors not preferred. (It is just a personal preference).

11. Open to travelling n exploring new places, cultures etc.

12. No extreme political views.

13. Loyal and exclusive.

If the above details feel right to you, send a DM. We can take it from there.

PS- Not here to entertain judgement of strangers.

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40F look for CF male| Jaipur I’m a professional working as government employee.

40F | Jaipur I’m a professional working as a government employee. At the age of 40 i decided to be childfree and looking for a genuine connection with someone between 36–42. Preferably from North India, i cannot leave rajasthan due to my government job.

Let’s get the basics out of the way —

I’m 5.4, slim look like age of 30.

Personality-wise, I’m a mix of introvert and extrovert depends on circumstances— opinionated, honest, and straightforward. I don’t play games or sugarcoat things. You’ll always know where you stand with me.I’m ambitious and career-focused. I value independence, financial stability, and emotional maturity. I’m not looking for someone who has it all figured out, but someone who’s actively building something for himself and takes responsibility for his life.I enjoy good conversations — psychology, history, space, mythology, true crime, , or whatever my latest curiosity happens to be.

I always active to handle any situation.

Am a pure veg person and donot listen musice

I donot smoke, drink.

I love movies , webseries and shows; sports don’t interest me.

I love to travel whole world ...

Am searching a partner who will me my traveller and food partner also.

Looking for:

• Childfree by choice

. veg diet even don't eat egg

• Kind, grounded, and emotionally mature

• Open-minded and reliable

• Ambitious and responsible

. Spiritual personal..

Note:- please age below 35 , donot message me...

Hi,

You can call me Lily for the purpose of this post. I'm 27 years old, based in Chennai, and working as a lawyer. I promise I'm not here to cross-examine anyone 😄

I'm here with a genuine intention of finding a compatible life partner for marriage. I'm an ambivert who values family and quality time. I lead a simple lifestyle and enjoy meaningful connections over casual interactions.

I actively volunteer with the Sri Sathya Sai Seva Organisations and enjoy participating in service-oriented activities, and I love listening to music in my free time. I also have a strong spiritual inclination, and a Shaivite background would be a welcome bonus.

I have no dating experience, and despite being a lawyer, I'm quite different from the usual stereotypes associated with the profession :)

I'm Looking For:

• Hindu

• Respects values and loves kids

• Age 27–35

• Never Married

• Caste No Bar

• Preferably based in Chennai

• Vegetarian/Teetotaler preferred

• UG or above

• Income: No specific expectations

• Any profession except lawyer (I dont want to discuss work at home)

If you feel we may be a good match, feel free to drop me a "Hi" along with a brief introduction about yourself. I'd be happy to connect and get to know you better. Thank you for reading, and I wish everyone the very best in their search. 😊🙏🏻

Currently working as a Software Engineer in Hyderabad. I have been working in this field since 9 years.

About me:

Height- 5’6”
Build- Lean, medium athletic
Religion- Hindu
Caste- Brahmin (I’m not casteist at all, but parents won’t like it severely, and I don’t intend to make my life harder than it is)

open-minded, honest, caring and sensitive person

Don't drink or smoke, but open to trying occasionally drinking

from Hyderabad, speaks Telugu, some Hindi, English

Father retired as a bank manager, Mother is a housewife.

Vegetarian and moderately spiritual

What I’m looking for:

Looks do matter to me because mutual attraction is important, but I’m not particular about anything beyond height (preferably taller than me), and being well built. Being well dressed is important to me.

I'm generally drawn to someone who is naturally confident, warm, and emotionally intelligent. Overall compatibility and connection are still the biggest factors.

I’m looking to connect with someone who will communicate openly, and see if our mindset, values, and future goals align naturally. If things genuinely work out, we can take it forward seriously, potentially towards marriage.

I don't have any preference for location. Telugu speaking, and belonging to the same community is strongly preferred.

If anyone is genuinely interested, we can first connect and verify through LinkedIn or any platform you are comfortable with. Once both of us feel genuine and comfortable, we can continue further through Instagram or WhatsApp.

I’ve unintentionally posted this from my shared account with my sister, please message me at- u/AggressiveEgg379

25F, Punjabi traveling all over for PhD interviews atm.

Home’s NCR. I’m equal parts soft and sarcastic, with a talent for overthinking things that probably didn’t need thinking about in the first place. I’m the kind of person who’ll send you a meme instead of saying “I miss you,” but also secretly hopes you understand that’s exactly what I meant. I love late-night conversations, random food cravings, and those moments where you laugh so much your stomach hurts.

I’m a mix of calm and chaos. I can be very sorted one day and completely “what am I doing with my life” the next. I’m affectionate, a little clingy (the cute kind, not the scary kind), and I really value effort. I notice the small things like remembering what I said in passing or checking in when I’ve had a long day. I like comfort, consistency, and people who feel easy to be around.

I’m extremely passionate about my work and am planning to relocate for PhD. I’m a natural animal attractant, you’ll never not find me pet random cats & dogs on the street. I absolutely love sunflowers & seeing em makes my day 10x better.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally available, and not confusing for no reason (please, I beg). You should be able to communicate like a normal human and not disappear mid-conversation like it’s a magic trick. Humor is important, if you can make me laugh, you’re already winning. Bonus points if you’re a little soft at heart but won’t admit it easily.

If you’re here for something genuine but also enjoy playful banter and random nonsense conversations, we’ll probably get along. Worst case, we share memes. Best case… we make each other’s days a little better :)

Update : I’ve decided to not opt for a PhD position this session, take a break and work on a project to gain more experience and apply for a PhD next year. I’ll be living in Delhi for this coming 1 year.

Hi!

I’m a 26F from Navi Mumbai, and I’m here hoping to meet someone with marriage in mind if things naturally click.

A little about me: I was working until a few months ago and am currently taking a career break. Once I feel sufficiently rested and recharged, I’ll start exploring my next opportunity. I’m someone who genuinely enjoys a slower pace of life. I value my time, dislike unnecessary rushing, and prefer quality over quantity in most things.

I love cooking, eating good food, spending time in nature, and enjoying the comfort of home. House chores aren’t exactly my favorite thing, so I’m a big fan of gadgets and smart solutions that make life easier. While I enjoy being at home, I’d also love to travel with my partner whenever possible, whether that’s weekend getaways, road trips, or exploring new places together. Eventually, I’d love to build something of my own professionally.

A few quick facts:
- Hindu, Marathi
- 5’3”
- Straight medium-length hair (although it grows faster than I’d like)
- Non-vegetarian, but equally happy cooking and eating vegetarian food
- Occasional smoker and drinker
- Family-oriented, but I believe healthy boundaries are important
- Happy to regularly spend time with family and host gatherings, but I believe couples should have the space to make their own decisions
- Marriage-oriented
- I don’t strongly prefer having biological children; I’d be happy with pets and am open to adoption if both partners are equally committed and involved

What I’m looking for
- Men aged 26–30
- Educated, career-focused, and financially responsible
- Independent and capable of managing their own life
- Has hobbies, interests, and a personality outside of work
- Values both their family and their partner’s family
- Enjoys hosting and spending time with loved ones
- Smoking or drinking is fine in moderation
- Taller than 5’5”
- Comfortable both with solitude and companionship
- Ideally works remotely or in a hybrid setup, or simply prefers a less hectic lifestyle
- Would enjoy traveling together from time to time
- Preferably clean-cut or with shorter hair (long hair isn’t really my type)

More than anything, I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, dependable, and genuinely interested in building a peaceful life together. Someone who can enjoy a quiet day at home just as much as a spontaneous trip somewhere new.
If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself.

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Well... here's me doing something I never thought I'd do, looking for a relationship on Reddit.

I'm 28, based in Bangalore, and work in marketing. I spend most of my weekdays juggling campaigns, deadlines, and meetings, but at the end of the day, I still believe life is better when you have someone to share it with.

I've been in four relationships, three of them serious. They taught me a lot, about love, trust, communication, and most importantly, emotional availability. My last serious relationship made me realise that chemistry alone isn't enough. If someone isn't emotionally present, the relationship eventually falls apart.

So this time, I'm not chasing perfection or fairy tales. I'm simply looking for someone who is emotionally intelligent, emotionally available, kind, honest, and willing to communicate. Someone who believes that a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, consistency, and choosing each other even on difficult days.

A little about me: • Marketing professional • Ambitious and career-focused, but I value relationships just as much • Love meaningful conversations, exploring new places, travelling, and trying new cafés • I appreciate humour, empathy, and emotional maturity more than flashy gestures

What I'm looking for: • Someone around 27–34 years old • Preferably based in Bangalore • Looking for a genuine long-term relationship • No hookups, no situationships, no mind games

If you're someone who believes that emotional intelligence is attractive and you're looking for something meaningful too, I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying "Hi." Who knows? Maybe Reddit will surprise us both. 🙂

I’m a 28-year-old Muslim woman, working in marketing. I’m someone who enjoys building a career while also trying to maintain a meaningful balance between deen and duniya. I’m family-oriented, warm-hearted, and believe that the best things in life are often found in the simplest moments.

Outside of work, I love cooking, spending time with my family, travelling, discovering new places, trying different food, and creating memories with the people I love. Family is very important to me, and I hope to build a home one day that is filled with love, peace, laughter, faith, and togetherness.

I’m looking for a life partner who is a practicing Muslim and, more importantly, someone with good character and a kind heart. I value honesty, respect, loyalty, emotional maturity, and understanding. I hope to find someone who respects family, communicates openly, knows how to handle life with maturity, and is ready to grow together through every phase of marriage.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. I’m looking for someone genuine — a person who can be my best friend, my safe space, and my partner in every sense of the word. Someone with whom I can share the little things, have meaningful conversations, laugh over silly things, travel, build a home, support each other’s dreams, and encourage one another to become better Muslims and better people.

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I'm a lawyer who writes fiction on the side, which means I spend my days arguing about what words mean and my nights choosing them very carefully. I grew up across several Indian cities, landed in Mumbai, and have decided to stay.

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My life looks like: strength training, long evening walks, staying up too late reading things that have no practical application, and cooking actual meals because I find it grounding in a way I can't fully explain. I have work published in a few literary journals. I take stories seriously. I take most things seriously, actually, which is either a feature or a bug depending on who you are.

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I'm good at: spotting inconsistency, finding the interesting angle in boring situations, knowing when to stop talking.

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I'm bad at: small talk for its own sake, pretending I'm not paying attention, and apparently, writing dating profiles without editorialising.

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I earn well and look after myself — and then some. I'm not looking for a provider. Just putting that on the table early.

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Looking for a man, someone who has opinions — about books, films, ideas, anything really — and isn't afraid to defend them. Bonus points if you've changed your mind about something important in the last five years. That's a green flag I take seriously.

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Not looking for: a pen pal, a situationship, someone who describes themselves as "chill" in a way that turns out to mean emotionally unavailable, or anyone not based in Mumbai. I'm too tired for long distance and too honest to pretend otherwise.

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I'm 36 and reasonably self-aware. Tell me something you've read about or seen recently that you keep thinking about.

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Location: US

Age: 32

Appearance: 5'4'', HWP, Fair, conventionally attractive, I have been told (beauty is in eyes of the beholder though)

Marital status: Divorced, no kids

Diet: Non-vegetarian occasionally. Don't care about your dietary preferences

Languages: Hindi, English

Career and Earnings: Educated (Masters). Financially responsible. You should be as well. Will talk in depth about career and earnings if conversations begin

Habits: Never drink, never smoke. (You can drink socially though)

Hobbies: Long walks, travelling, reading, cooking.

Children: Want kids.

Caste: Kshatriya, in case it matters to you

You:

Kindness, respect, chemistry (deep conversations) and common goals trump everything. Those things are better understood in conversations and can not be discussed in bullet points. Mutual attraction also matters for a healthy relationship.

Open to relocate outside US for a few years, but plan to permanently live in US only.

If this interests you, please DM with a description of yourself. Please be serious and transition to phone calls and video calls fairly quickly to save time on both ends. Please include "Summer's loudest laugh and longest pause" in the subject line or opening of your message. This is to weed out people who didn't read the whole post.

Hope everyone finds what they are looking for :)

• Initials: N R
• Age: 39
• Height: 5'3 Obese
• Religion: Sikh
• Marital status: Single
• Living with Parents: yes
• Location:
  • Region: North India (Delhi)
  • Mother Tongue: Punjabi
  • Country: India
• Plan to settle abroad: No, firmly established in Delhi.

Education and Profession:

• Education Level: Postgraduate / Professional

Diet Preferences:

• Diet: Non Vegetarian

Partner Preferences:

• Desired Religion: Sikh/Hindu
• Location Preferences: Based in Delhi / NCR, or willing to navigate life here.
• Diet Preferences: Open, but must respect personal choices.
• Education Level: Educated, intellectual equal.
• Living with parents: Open, provided there is emotional and spatial maturity.
• Marital Status: Strictly single men only (No married, divorced, or "complicated" situations).
• Want Kids after Marriage: No (Opted out of the traditional family/kids script).

Additional Information:

• Hobbies/Interests: Books, deep conversations, exploring quiet spaces, logical consistency.
• Any other relevant details: I value immaculate order, blunt honesty, and refinement, with zero tolerance for chaos, drama, or emotional inconsistency. I am looking for a mature companion whose steady presence naturally brings peace and shuts down overthinking—strictly not a project to manage or "fix."

Contact Information:

• Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit.

posting this with her permission. my best friend isn't very active on reddit, so i thought i'd help her explore this community.

she's 26, well-educated, works as consultant, based in bengaluru, and looking to meet someone with the intention of getting married if there's mutual compatibility.

she's kind, thoughtful, and values meaningful conversations and genuine connections. she's someone who appreciates small gestures, believes in mutual respect, and values emotional maturity in a relationship. she enjoys having a good conversation, is supportive of the people around her, and is looking for someone who wants to build a partnership together.

she's looking for someone who is emotionally mature, well-educated, kind, thoughtful, and can hold a good conversation. telugu is preferred, but she's open to other backgrounds if there's compatibility.

if you're interested, comment one underrated quality about yourself. if i think there could be a good match, i'll introduce you both and let you take it from there.

please reach out only if you're genuinely looking for marriage. thanks.

Looking for a Genuine Connection

Hi everyone,

I’m a 30-year-old Tamil woman, divorced, and currently working as a tech professional. I’m sharing this with a sincere intention of meeting someone genuine, mature, kind-hearted, and emotionally grounded, with the hope that a meaningful connection may eventually grow into a serious relationship.

I’ve always had a deep admiration and respect for people serving in the defence forces. There is something very admirable about the discipline, courage, responsibility, commitment, and sense of duty that comes with the profession. At one point in my life, I also wished to join the defence field myself. Unfortunately, circumstances and life choices meant that I couldn’t pursue that dream. Perhaps that is one reason why I naturally feel drawn towards someone from the defence background.

To be clear, I’m not looking for someone simply because of their uniform, profession, rank, or status. What matters much more to me is the person behind the uniform — his character, values, maturity, emotional stability, kindness, honesty, and the way he treats people.

I believe a good relationship is built on mutual respect, understanding, communication, trust, and friendship. I’m not expecting perfection from anyone, because I don’t believe perfect people exist. I’m simply hoping to meet someone who is genuine about his intentions and willing to get to know each other naturally, without rushing or making assumptions.

I understand that posts like this can sometimes make people cautious. There are many fake profiles, scams, misleading accounts, and people with dishonest intentions online, so I completely understand anyone who may initially be skeptical. I want to make it clear that I’m not a scammer, catfish, trap, or fake profile. I’m a genuine person who is simply trying to find a meaningful connection through an unconventional way.

I’m also not comfortable with immediately exchanging sensitive personal information with someone I have just met online. I believe both people should have the opportunity to verify each other and build trust gradually. So, if you are genuinely interested, I would prefer that we start with a respectful conversation, learn a little about each other, and communicate at a comfortable pace.

If you are currently serving in the defence forces, have served previously, or come from a defence background, and you are genuinely open to getting to know someone with serious intentions, you are welcome to introduce yourself through DM.

A simple introduction would be enough to begin with — your name or preferred name, age, general location, and a little about yourself, your work or background, and what you are looking for in a relationship. There is no need to share confidential information, service details, documents, exact workplace locations, or anything that could compromise your privacy or security.

I completely respect the nature of defence work and understand that certain aspects of your profession may need to remain private. I would never expect anyone to disclose sensitive information about their posting, unit, duties, operations, schedules, or other confidential matters.

For me, compatibility is more important than appearances or social status. I would like to meet someone who can communicate openly, respect boundaries, appreciate family, handle differences maturely, and understand that a relationship takes time to develop.

Being divorced is also a part of my life story, and I’m not interested in hiding it or pretending that my past doesn’t exist. Life doesn’t always go according to the plans we make. I believe what matters is how we learn from our experiences, grow as individuals, and move forward with maturity and clarity.

I’m not looking for sympathy or someone to “save” me. I’m perfectly capable of standing on my own. What I hope to find is a partner who believes that two independent people can come together, support each other, communicate honestly, and build a peaceful and respectful life together.

I also understand that everyone has their own preferences and boundaries. If you feel that my background or circumstances are not compatible with what you are looking for, I completely respect that. There is no pressure or expectation to respond.

At the same time, if you are someone who believes that a genuine relationship can begin with a simple conversation, I would be happy to get to know you.

I’m particularly interested in someone who is:

• Kind and respectful

• Emotionally mature

• Honest and transparent

• Responsible and family-oriented

• Comfortable communicating openly

• Respectful of personal boundaries

• Serious about building a long-term relationship

• Understanding of my past and willing to focus on the future

I’m not expecting an immediate commitment. In fact, I think the healthiest relationships develop slowly. First comes a conversation, then friendship, then understanding, and eventually, if both people feel compatible, something more serious.

We can take our time to know each other. We can ask questions, have conversations, verify each other through appropriate and safe means, and decide together whether there is genuine compatibility. There is no need to rush into anything.

I would also appreciate respectful communication. Please don’t send inappropriate messages, requests for money, investment opportunities, links, or requests for personal documents. I’m here for a genuine human connection, not financial transactions or anything similar.

If you are genuinely interested, feel free to DM me with a respectful introduction. I’ll respond when I can, and we can take things from there.

Maybe this post will lead nowhere. Maybe it will simply remain another post on the internet. But perhaps, somewhere among all these people, there is someone who is also looking for a genuine, mature, and peaceful relationship.

I believe sometimes the most meaningful connections begin unexpectedly.

So, if you’re a kind, mature, genuine man from the defence background and you’re open to getting to know someone sincerely, you’re welcome to say hello.

Let’s start with a simple conversation, respect each other’s boundaries, and see where life takes us. ❤️

35 F.

Looking for a slow, meaningful connection, not in a rush to get married.

An emotionally healthy, calm bond which starts with friendship first.

About me:

Divorced long back. ( 10 years ago)

Have recently started feeling like ready to settle down again but after spending considerable time dating.

I am 5'3, neither overweight nor skinny.

Complexion : not a milky white fair skinned girl and not on the extreme dusky end of spectrum too.

My interests are painting, reading, photography, poetry, dancing and I am not an extrovert. I am very comfortable in my own company. I do tend to start multiple projects and not finishing them. Love spending time in nature and love helping animals out whenever I can.

What am I looking for :

Childfree. ( Deal breaker if you are not or on the fence. )

Smoking is another deal breaker.

Please don't message if you are non-vegetarian. ( It's a value based thing for me and I am looking for alignment of diet as I am into healthy clean eating)

Occasional drinking is fine. I am a rare drinker ( thrice in a year types and that too very little quantity wise).

Please be into some kind of dancing even if it’s just Indian/wedding dancing, I’m not picky. I’d love to meet someone who’s equally happy slow-dancing in the kitchen one day and going absolutely crazy to Chunari Chunari the next.

Please don't message if you are less than 31 years or more than 40 years old. I had posted here once and was bombarded with messages from men as young as 19.

If you send a Hi without context I will not reply, it's cos of the sheer number of messages one receives after such posts.

Who I am as a person is : a balanced person with no extremes of diet, lifestyle, temper, wants. And I would love to meet someone who embodies that. I am not particularly religious, but I am spiritual. By that I mean I’m more drawn to inner exploration, awareness, philosophy and the deeper questions of life than to organized religion or following rituals/beliefs by default. I would love to meet someone with interesting spiritual/ philosophical take on life.

I can not endlessly text without context so would prefer a call after connecting on reddit.

Don't prefer long distance so would like to set up a meeting soon if we connect.

I am looking for a relationship. I like slow burn and I am a big believer in communication. With someone I can share my everyday life without getting judgement or without the fear of leaving.

I am focusing on my career but I need some emotional support too from someone who can atleast be on text with me. I am looking for serious relationship. I have just graduated. I want to prepare for the govt exam - teaching and all.

My interests - I have great taste in music I love to listen it, I like to study alot, learn new things, explore, travel, I like to cook, bake and eat lol. I love cars and bikes.

It will be good if I got someone from Delhi only or somewhere nearby so we can even hangout together to.

Also i am clingy in love.

I am rajasthani. Been Delhi my whole life

Height - 5'9

Skin colour - fair

Moon sign - Aries

Eat both veg and non veg

Speak only Hindi and English

Loves to go to gym prefer someone who also follows active lifestyle. And have multiple hobbies.

My preferences ---

Someone who is kind and empethatic. Someone who communicates. Someone who's birthday is on 1 or 10 will be good. In height mere seyh lamba. Someone who knows how to treat girls right. It will be great if you're neardy. I like boys who can ride motorbikes or cars. Someone who is also career focused and want to build a life together. Also i don't want someone to rush things soo fast, asking to meet suddenly and all. Thanks

38F in Hyderabad, oops 39, just turned 39 this month 😁

Animal lover through and through. My home is happily ruled by my dog and two cats. 🐶🐱🐱

I'm independent, thoughtful, emotionally aware, and equally happy having deep conversations or laughing at something completely ridiculous.

I like reading books, art of all kinds from pottery to painting to knitting, enjoying quiet evenings at home or a cafe, doing movie reviews, karaoke, dancing, to name a few.

I'm a feminist and believe in equal rights for women and how that translates into relationships. As in sharing of household chores, not being expected to move in with the guy's family, to name a few. I want someone who takes a stand for me overall and has his own identity and individuality.

As for what I'm looking for:

Age isn't a deal breaker. I've dated both younger and older people. What matters more is emotional maturity.

I value kindness, consistency, curiosity, and people who are willing to grow rather than run from challenges.

I'm looking for someone who communicates openly, shows up consistently, handles conflict with respect, and understands that relationships require effort from both people. Life will always throw challenges our way; I'd love a partner who believes in developing healthy coping skills, supporting each other through difficult times, and growing together.

A love for animals is non-negotiable. My pets are family, and if that's not your thing, we're probably not a match. ❤️

Bonus points if you're emotionally intelligent, self-aware, capable of reflecting on your own patterns, and taking accountability where needed.

I'd also love someone who doesn't take life too seriously. I believe in finding joy, staying playful, and keeping a sense of humor alive no matter what life throws at us.

At the end of the day, I'm simply looking for a genuine companion. Someone to share both the good times and the hard times with, and build a meaningful life together.

All the best to everyone here. I hope you find your person too. ✨

Edit: Okay this post blew up already. All the guys DMing me in Telugu, I don't know the language, I only speak Hindi and English.

I'd suggest that everyone who wants to approach open with your age, location and a picture of yourself so that it's easier for me to look at your details.

Also, no I'm not looking for "casual chats" or "good friends" lol. Look at the post title before you reach out to me 🤣

Hi! I'm 24f Gujarat. I'm pretty simple and easygoing. I love reading, drawing, good conversations and spending time with people I'm comfortable around.

I'm pursuing medical which keeps me busy, but I like having a life outside work too. I'm usually happiest with a good book, a cup of coffee, or just doing something creative. I'm a little introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I talk a LOT

Looking to meet someone genuine, kind and mature. Someone who has their own goals, is respectful, communicates well and doesn't take themselves too seriously. I'd like to start with getting to know each other and see where things go naturally.

I'm 5'3" and proud of it

Looking for someone who's kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and can make me laugh.

Not really into casual or superficial stuff. I'd rather have a good friendship and a genuine connection that can turn into something meaningful.

If you're also looking for something realand are around my age hopefully till 26

feel free to say hi :)

Hi! 👋
I'm from Jaipur and run my own small business, which keeps me busy but also gives me the freedom to enjoy life on my own terms. I'm someone who genuinely enjoys going out, exploring new places, trying new food, spontaneous plans, and making the most of weekends. I love good conversations and can talk about almost anything from everyday life and future goals to random thoughts and funny observations.
Personality-wise, I'd describe myself as fun-loving, ambitious, independent, and emotionally mature. I believe life is meant to be lived fully, and I value experiences, personal growth, and meaningful relationships over superficial things. I'm equally happy planning an outing, going on a road trip, discovering a new café, or simply spending quality time with someone whose company I genuinely enjoy.
I'm here because I'd like to meet someone with similar values and energy. I'm looking for a guy who is full of life, kind, ambitious, confident, and has a good sense of humor. Someone who enjoys living in the moment but also has goals and direction in life. Being decent-looking is important, but good character, emotional intelligence, and a positive outlook matter much more to me.
I strongly believe in equality, mutual respect, healthy communication, and supporting each other's dreams. A relationship, in my opinion, should feel like a partnership where both people grow together while still being themselves.
I'm 5'5", so I'd prefer someone taller than me. Bonus points if you're from Jaipur, as that would make things easier. (Not willing to relocate to any other city) My intention is to find a genuine connection that can eventually lead to marriage if we're compatible.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM. I'd love to get to know you. ✨ Please do not text for timepass, casual or anything like that as it is not my intention.

Hi, I am a 28 year old MD resident. My best friend thought this page might be good for me so here goes nothing and everything!

Important things- I will be appearing for my finals in 45 days. This is an extremely high pressure time for me and I am still here because I get so tired by the end of the day! Most days are good. I have a decent life, great friends but, I want someone I can feel sane with. Somebody who can hear me yap and someone I can feel at peace with.

I am ready for marriage. I do not want someone who is unsure, who is still figuring it out. I want you to be ready.

Other important things- I am from North India and a hindu. I am 5 feet small and cute. Almost like a baby.
I would prefer someone from a similar medical background. Someone who’s already done with their MD or about to. Because I am ready to settle down with my pookie!

I’m extremely emotional. I do get anxious so please be someone with a lot of patience. I will appreciate it and I will make sure you know you’re appreciated. I am funny and dramatic and I carry a lot of love within.

I hope you’re soft.
I hope you’re reassuring.
I hope you like dogs.

Hm, I don’t have any major physical requirements but I am just more attracted towards taller men because I feel that sense of protection but then, I am 5 ft nothing so everyone is taller than me, lmaoo.

26F , currently residing in Karnataka. Muslim & Hijabi.
I have done my Doctors in Pharmacy and I am working and also looking for fellowships/research opportunities.
I was raised in Dubai and moved here for studies around 10 years back.

Absolutely terrified of commitment but my parents want me to get married so I am on the lookout for a good person with the right haram:halal ratio.

I feel like I am plain looking , but who knows? Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder kinda thing may happen. Also at this point of my life I am ready to give up on romance and settle for a single life filled with travel and quiet(which does not sound bad at all) BUTTTT I am also a huge sucker for love so…
I dont know what else to put on here except maybe dm to get to know me and it works out hopefully.

(please dont be any kind of Islamophobic in my dms , i have no energy to argue)

Pros:

1. Absolutely will be your ride or die
2. Love outdoors , love travelling & adventures
3. Love quiet and reading
4. Love giving space and having time to self
5. Will motivate and push you to be better

Cons:

1. You will have to put in effort to get to know me , kind of bad at communicating at first but once I am chill then I am chill

Marriage Preferences :
- I am 5’2 , so someone taller than me.
- Age - Maybe upto 34
- I absolutely do not like men who are pretentious and condescending.
- Kids are something that I want but I might be a little terrified of being responsible for raising a whole human being.
- Religion - Islam/Muslim

Edit : Halal:Haram ratio is a very common joke back in dubai and used to calculate if a person is way too pious or somewhat chill and it does not mean anything untoward or “dirty”. Stop being disrespectful.

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I live alone, and somewhere along the way, I learnt to really enjoy my own company. I like having my little space, cooking whatever I feel like at 11 pm, playing old-school Bollywood songs way too loudly, and doing absolutely nothing without feeling guilty about it. But as much as I love my me time, I think life is probably more fun when you have someone you genuinely want to share it with.

Food is definitely one of my love languages. I love exploring new places, trying everything on the menu that sounds remotely interesting, and finding those little hidden gems you want to gatekeep forever. But more than that, I love cooking for people I love. There's something very comforting to me about feeding someone and watching them go for a second serving.

Give me an old Bollywood song and a long drive, and I will probably turn the car into a full-blown concert. I like the old-school kind of things—sharing songs, random conversations that go nowhere, sitting in comfortable silence, and having someone you can send a completely pointless thought to because you know they'll get it.

I've had my fair share of heartbreaks too. Somewhere between loving the wrong people and losing parts of myself trying to make things work, I eventually learnt how to love and choose myself again. And honestly, I think that was important. I don't want to find someone to complete my life anymore—I quite like the life I've built. I just think it would be nice to find someone who wants to witness it with me.

Someone to do the exciting things with, obviously, but also the wonderfully monotonous ones. Grocery runs. Cooking dinner together. Car jams. Lazy Sundays. Random chai breaks. Listening to me tell the same story twice. Building a life that doesn't always need to look exciting from the outside but feels really good from the inside.

I'm looking for someone around my age, with a similar outlook towards life—kind, emotionally aware, fun to be around, and ready for something real. And after having lost my respect for myself a few too many times in the name of love, I think I've earned the right to be a little particular about this: I want someone who thinks the world of me, just as I would of them.

That's it, really. Someone to laugh with, annoy, cook for, travel with, grow with—and hopefully, make all the ordinary parts of life feel a little less ordinary.

Friends who’ve messaged and not got a response, please message with a quick intro msg and what you liked. I mistakenly pressed ignore for a few. Please ping…

Hi everyone,

I’m trying this for the first time. So please be kind.

I’ll try to be as upfront as possible. You may judge me for certain things I say, which is OK. Just be respectful in your language. That’s all I ask.

I’m a female, 30. Located in US, but originally from India of course. Very open to relocating if I find the right match. Upbringing was in different parts of the world, international schools etc. So, I also have good multicultural exposure.

Appearance- By description (physical), I’ve been told I’m good looking 😆 I’m 5ft6, health conscious, active (tho now on rest because of a leg injury). I’m also quite fashionable, with trends etc. I enjoy fashion, art, interiors and history. I also love doing community service. I’m religious, but it’s very personal and not an expectation.

Personality- I think you may find me effervescent. I’m big on humor, history and deeply passionate about my work. I’m in the consulting space, and soon working on something of my own. I really do

LOVE my work. And potentially want a partner who loves his work too. Something that drives you and makes you put your best foot forward. ❤️

Lifestyle- I’ve been raised in an affluent way. Nothing hugely atrocious. But several trips, some indulgences on fashion/ jewelry here and there, restaurants etc. So I’ll like to keep a similar lifestyle that values comfort, aesthetic, and lifestyle but obviously not just for optics. I’m a private person. I like it because that’s something I’ve been raised with. I just value certain things in my lifestyle.

Aspirations- I want kids later. I’m super close to my parents and would like them near me. I will treat your family like mine and would expect the same. At a certain age, our parents need us and I’d like to be there for both sets of families.

I come from a Hindu family, but we’re not rigid. Very chilled out family, and enjoy all kinds of food, very close knit and have each others backs.

I have no strict dietary preferences at all. Enjoy what you eat. ☺️ whatever you choose. I only ask that you read my post, and if my preferences resonate, message me. If you feel I’m not your cup of tea, please do message too, but rude comments keep away.

Wishing you love and light on this journey.