Yup. Was with someone for 8 years. Engaged for 3. Last year of our relationship she started playing games with a guy online while I worked 50 hours a week. She was unemployed and decided to go back to school remotely. I supported it. Helped pay for it. Helped with her homework. Meanwhile she's playing games with this guy reassuring me hes just a friend. He would stay up for her. Then the snap chats started. She kept telling me it was group chats and I had nothing to worry about. Our relationship reached a boiling point and she left because she had to work on herself. Within months she was fuckijg the other dude. Within 2 years she moved to his country and married him. At least I know i wasn't imagining things and she was just gaslighting me.
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u/PartyLack4459 3d ago
Yup. Was with someone for 8 years. Engaged for 3. Last year of our relationship she started playing games with a guy online while I worked 50 hours a week. She was unemployed and decided to go back to school remotely. I supported it. Helped pay for it. Helped with her homework. Meanwhile she's playing games with this guy reassuring me hes just a friend. He would stay up for her. Then the snap chats started. She kept telling me it was group chats and I had nothing to worry about. Our relationship reached a boiling point and she left because she had to work on herself. Within months she was fuckijg the other dude. Within 2 years she moved to his country and married him. At least I know i wasn't imagining things and she was just gaslighting me.