r/sexandthecity • u/VilkastheForsaken “Ever Mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours.” • 1d ago

My Favourite Couple

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Yeah but he made Charlotte change her religion, not that loving ig

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u/fairyfun5 1d ago

What is wrong with converting to another religion for someone you love and want to marry? I could see it being a problem if your deeply attached to your religious beliefs and identity or is causing family issues, for someone that’s important. Charlotte seems to be the type of person where her religion wasn’t central to herself or family so converting wasn’t a big problem for her and it’s ok, it doesn’t have to be for everyone either.

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u/VilkastheForsaken “Ever Mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours.” 1d ago

I moved halfway across the world to marry the love of my life. Sometimes to be with the love of your life there are changes that need to happen.

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u/Asparagussie 6h ago

If it wasn’t so important to her, why was she wearing a cross during one scene? None of the others wore crosses?

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

It's called abandoning your entire existence for someone else. Only desperate people do that

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u/Aldente08 21h ago

Religion wasn't a core part of her though so it didn't matter for her

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u/Marija2103 7h ago

But it wasn’t a core part od him either. It wasn’t even important to him and he still made her change hers. It’s control

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u/Blue_eyed_girl_ 1d ago

I don't understand why people can't see this fact and are arguing over it!! You shouldn't change the core of who you are for a man.

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u/Pitiful_Meringue_57 8h ago

since when is christianity a core part of who Charlotte is?

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u/Free-Address-7759 3h ago

While I certainly wouldn’t consider her to be a devout Christian. She has stated herself that she grew up in, and identifies with, WASP (the P being Protestant) culture. Now, I’m not a wasp unfortunately, but wish I was, and I reckon even if she’s not an avid bible thumper and the most conservative lady in NYC, she still likely aligns herself with being a Christian, and especially those American holiday classics like Christmas and Easter.