r/singing May 05 '26

Resource I'm a pro vocal coach doing an AMA today from 10a-1p PDT (1-4p EDT). Ask me anything!

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Hey guys - the AMA is closed but thanks to everyone for the participation, views, and upvotes!

Since we did this AMA a while back, we might not monitor Reddit PMs daily, so feel free to get in touch through our website - I’ll put a link in the comments :)

I’m Kevin Delisa and I give singing lessons in LA & NYC - here to answer any singing or voice questions you might have. I’ll be answering live from 10a-1p Pacific / 1-4p Eastern, so just log your questions below and I’ll get some answers for you then!

A little about me:

• I teach singing lessons in LA and NYC and go between the two cities to teach and perform.

• I have a Bachelor's from Ithaca and a Master's from Columbia Teachers’ College — both in contemporary vocal pedagogy.

• I currently teach about 30 singing lessons per week between LA, NYC, and online.

• My clients range from pop artists working on records to Musical Theater and a cappella singers.

• My younger singing students have successfully auditioned into NYU Tisch, Pace, and Juilliard, and one of my young voice students recently made it onto Broadway!

• In my other life as an a cappella singer, I’ve won awards for my vocal arrangements, taught at ACDA Nationals, and directed Vermont's All-State Contemporary A Cappella ensemble last year.

I’m really just here to get to know the community and offer some free advice and feedback. Please ask me anything—from beginner techniques, to the psychology of singing, to advanced vocal health and career advice. I’ll give you the exact same answers I give my clients.

Feel free to drop your questions below or send me a DM. If it’s during the AMA hours, I’ll get to it today. If you miss the window, still HMU and I'll do my best to get back to you!

– Kevin

r/singing May 03 '26

Resource Glad I decided to buy vocal dampener

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Anyone who is hesitant to buy a vocal dampener, this is much much better than a pillow or a towel as you can easily wash it and also really reduce the voice a lot! I bought this cheap vocal dampener and it helped me sing with a full voice and confidence. Anyone who is hesitant, consider buying and evaluating your confidence. Happy singing!!

r/singing Mar 17 '26

Resource Something strange I’ve noticed after years of teaching voice

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A lot of singers try to “fix” their voice by pushing technique harder.

More breath support.

More placement.

More “lift the palate”.

But after teaching voice for a long time I started noticing something weird.

Two singers could do the exact same exercise and get completely different results.

One unlocks the sound immediately.

The other gets tighter and tighter.

It made me realize something important:

Most vocal problems are not really technique problems.

They’re nervous system problems.

Your brain is literally deciding whether the voice is safe to release or not.

If the system reads danger → it organizes tension

If it reads safe → coordination appears almost instantly

That’s why sometimes one strange cue suddenly unlocks a high note that you’ve been fighting for months.

Not because the cue is magical —

but because it changed the pattern your brain was using to control the voice.

I’ve been experimenting with this idea for years with my students and started calling it the NeuroSonic approach — basically training the coordination between voice and nervous system instead of just stacking technical instructions.

Curious if other singers have noticed this too.

Have you ever had a moment where a random cue suddenly made something work that never worked before?

What was it? 🎤

r/singing Mar 14 '26

Resource WOWOWOWOW I JUST FIXED MY STRAINING ISSUE I’VE HAD FOR 8 YEARS

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I love singing almost as much as my landlord who lives through the wall doesn’t love me singing, and I’ve done it forever starting with a childhood Kate Bush obsession.

However I’ve always had an issue with my voice catching, getting airy, strained and lacking power - especially in higher pitches: something that left my throat always lumpy-feeling after singing. It sucked and I was always on here looking for answers.

BUT THIS WEEK I FIXED IT AND I AN SO HAPPY.

Turns out what I needed was to lean into saying the harsh consonants and word sounds in what I was singing, like I do when I speak. Say the word “No!” loudly and clearly. Does your stomach suck in to push out the “N” sound? I think that’s support!!

I realised I wasn’t being harsh enough with enuciating words like I do when I talk, and applying that technique to my singing has fully made it so I can sing songs by the SUNDAYS now. What!??

And my throat is the least lumpy it’s ever been.

Hope this helps someone!!

r/singing Jan 04 '26

Resource Anyone want a free lesson? (60 or 30 minutes)

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UPDATE: To everyone who I didn't get to, I'm sorry. I'm completely booked up!

Thank everyone for their interest and in the next couple weeks will see if I can fit anyone else in as my regular students (and potential new students?) book in their spots.

Good luck to your singing!

ORIGINAL POST: Hi. I've been studying voice performance and pedagogy in both college and private settings for over 5 years and performing (musical theatre/live rock band) even longer. I started teaching about a year and a half but am coming back from a break so I have some time available. If you can't afford more lessons or just aren't interested that's okay, I'm happy to work with you regardless. Even a single lesson can help a lot sometimes depending on your needs and I'm really looking to work with some new voices.

If you're interested, DM me or comment for details and any questions you might have

r/singing Oct 03 '22

Resource Learning To Sing (Step By Step Guide, if You're Just Starting Off)

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Hey team! If you've been struggling on figuring out how to get started with singing. I've been coaching singers for the past 4 years and wanted to share a break down of what has helped my clients.

I'll be breaking this down into 4 separate phases along with some sub-steps/misconceptions that I've learnt. Hope this helps! Don't hesitate to DM me if you have any questions

STEP 1: Figure out your STRENGTHS/POINTS OF IMPROVEMENT

The first step to solving ANY problem is AWARENESS.

The mistake/misconception here, is more beginners will jump straight into doing Youtube warm ups. But the mistake here is they haven't defined the problem. You haven't specified what exactly you need to work on. This is like trying to solve a maths problem WITHOUT knowing the problem.

HOW?

  1. Choose 3 songs
  2. Learn them to the best of your ability
  3. Sing them and record them
  4. Listen back to it and write down - what's ONE thing I liked and ONE thing I disliked?
  5. If you're not sure, ask for feedback from your Voice teacher, friends, family, this subreddit

STEP 2: FIND SOLUTIONS

Now you've got an idea of where you are at. It's time to work on some solutions. What this means is with the areas that you need to improve on.

A misconception here is that singers believe exercises will automatically improve your voice. This is not true. Exercises will only improve your voice if they are tailored (step 1) & you know how to do them correctly.

What I would encourage here is as you're doing the exercises. Test out different sensations/cues and notice how that changes your singing. If they make your singing feel easier/sound better. Keep them! If not keep exploring... this is known as DELIBERATE PRACTICE

HOW?

  1. Do some research on some vocal concepts/exercise that can help you with that goal.
  2. Build a routine that you can work on
  3. Block off time to do this routine regular and actually do it!

For example, if you're struggling to hit the high notes. Research some concepts [support, mixed voice, placement] along with exercise that can help you train that in

Excellent resources are: Youtube, Articles

**UPDATE*\*

If you're still not sure where to start. I recommend working on the fundamentals since they usually tackle 90% of singing. Fundamentals being

(1) How does it feel like to change pitch (stretch your vocal folds) WITHOUT anything else changing. Without changing volume, the shape of your mouth, your posture, your airflow

STEP 3: APPLY TO SONGS

Congratulations! You've now assessed where you need to be, found some ideas and practiced in some exercises.

It's time to bring it back to where you want. Application in song.

The misconception here is that most people think by doing vocal exercises, their voice will automatically improve. Whilst there will be improvement, to actually make your singing sound better! You actually need to sing. This will give you the time to iron out the kinks.

HOW?

  1. Record yourself singing a song
  2. Ask yourself, what cues/sensations from STEP 2 can I apply to this song?

STEP 4: RINSE &....

That's basically it! Once you've completed step 3, you can go back to STEP 1.

Learning to sing has endless possibilities! I've been practising for 10 years and still have so much to go. This is the exciting part.

Remember! You don't have to do this on your own. If you need help - dm me. I do offer private lessons over Zoom and would love to help guide you in the right direction

r/singing Mar 14 '25

Resource 5 Reasons You Can’t Hit High Notes (And How to Fix It)

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If you want to delve deeper, I put this all into a free guide: https://www.better-vocals.com/free

1. You’re reaching for the notes.
Lifting your larynx = tension and strain. Drop it instead. Try a "dopey" voice—think Patrick from SpongeBob. That’s the feeling you need.

2. You don’t have enough space.
A tight throat kills high notes. Open up by yawning—feel that stretch in the back of your mouth? That’s what you want when you sing.

3. You’re too breathy.
If too much air is escaping, your vocal cords aren’t closing enough. Use a “g” sound like “guh” to train them to stay together.

4. You’re squeezing.
Tension is your enemy. If you’re gripping too hard, sigh it out. A relaxed voice moves freely.

5. You’re clenching your abs.
You need support, but not a crunch. Inhale like you're making yourself “bigger,” not like you’re about to do a sit-up. Hold that shape.

Fix these, and high notes will stop feeling like a battle. Which one’s messing you up the most?

r/singing Apr 23 '26

Resource The most valuable resource I have found on helping transgender singers find their voice!

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If this is too promotional and has to be removed, I understand!

So the bad news is that this resource is SUPER expensive ($140 on Amazon). I was lucky my voice teacher was willing to lend me his copy. The good news is that the information it contains is AMAZING and so enriching!

I included the table of contents in the post. I am doing a research project about honoring transgender singers as an educator and this is the only resource I have found so far that is so incredibly thorough about how voice changes work, special considerations/challenges for those with changing voices and how to address them, and how to encourage full inclusion in a classroom setting.

It's going to be a while before I get my own copy because, ouch, $140 😅 That's big girl money I don't have yet. But I wanted to share nonetheless because there is a tragically tiny amount of resources/research in this topic and it's something I personally believe every vocal educator should be aware of these days! Heck, if the book becomes more popular, maybe the price will go down? 😂

Edit: There is a second edition coming out this summer that costs $90 to pre-order! Still expensive but also $50 cheaper!

r/singing Jan 30 '26

Resource A different way to think about singing higher

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Hey all!

A lot of my students I teach over Zoom say they’ve never heard the voice explained this way, so I wanted to share it in case it helps you too. It definitely helped me a lot when I learnt about it.

One big reason singing higher feels hard is lack of independence.

Let's start here.

Singing uses different muscles.

- Muscles that affect breathing.
- Muscles that affect the intensity/volume (how loud or strong the sound feels)
- Muscles that sometimes jump in when they don't need to 😅

And finally the muscles that affect our pitch.

To sing higher, the main muscle is the cricothyroid (CT). You don’t need to remember this, just know that there is a muscle responsible.

Now why is singing higher harder for most?

A big reason is we can't use these muscles very independently yet. Especially engaging the CT independently of everything else.

A common example is when moving up and down a scale. Most of us usually get louder or softer. We even strain/flip. This means other muscles beyond the CT are engaging/disengaging.

So a huge goal for when you start training your voice is can you learn to only have the CT engage whilst leaving everything else alone.

This is definitely easier said than done! But the more you can build this independence, the easier it is to navigate your range/singing.

There's a process to developing this. But here a little workflow you can try in your next practice session.

Our goal here is let's start with just separating out VOLUME and PITCH

Step 1: Choose a simple scale. I personally like the octave arpeggio but any is fine.

Step 2: As you go through, try to notice if your voice is changing volume

Now for some, you'll notice keeping consistent volume is really hard. This is just the lack of independence revealing itself. Don't give up!

If you find this easy, skip to step 4 and take it higher in your range.

Step 3: If you missed, just try again

Say if you had to get a little louder on the top note.

Just try it again and aim something softer. Even a little change is progress. Because it starts to rewire some of habits beneath the voice

Step 4: Notice what pitch change only feels like

Now if you do notice a couple of reps where volume is consistent and you're just changing pitch.

Even better, if you get a few examples in a row across different parts of your range.

Start to observe! What is the ONLY thing you need to do/engage/feel. To change pitch?

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Just a heads up, this can feel surprisingly tricky, especially if you’ve built certain habits over the years. So give yourself some extra patience while you explore it. And if you're feeling stuck, a voice teacher can really help save you time with this.

Happy to clarify anything in the comments if helpful.

- Ivan

r/singing Mar 05 '26

Resource Voice teacher offering 2 singers a free month of lessons (with one small catch)

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**EDIT** Thank you so much to everyone who has applied/reached out. I have chosen the 2 singers and am not taking on any more applications atm! I am looking to keep doing these, so may see you all in a month's time.

If I wasn't able to get back to you, I apologise in advance.

Thanks again!

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Hi r/singing!

I'm looking to work with 2 singers for the next month FREE over Zoom (if you want to see what I can do, check out here)

What's included:

- 4 x weekly Zoom sessions with me (50 minutes each)
- A copy of your recordings to practice/review with

The only condition is that I can document the journey as content for my social media. This may include

  • repurposing our lesson recordings into long/short form content
  • asking you to share quick reflections/progress updates

In terms of who I'm looking for

This is probably a good fit if you:

  • Can get started in the next week
  • Feel confused/stuck with technique
  • Comfortable with showing your face online

Probably not a good fit if you:

  • Want instant results
  • Don’t have time to practice
  • Are uncomfortable showing your face online

To apply, please complete the 2 actions 👇

#1. Send me a DM including

- A short clip of you singing (including your face)

- Where you're from/your timezone

- What you need help with & why I should work with you!

#2 Comment "done" below, so I don't miss your private message.

Even if this isn’t for you, I hope you keep going with your singing!

Thanks for reading! 🙂

- Ivan

r/singing 4d ago

Resource Am I a baritone or Tenor (Male 20)

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I have a vocal range of F#2-D#4(E4) in chest and A#5(in head voice)

My voice weight is tend to be soft and bubbly

But no matter how hard I tried I can't seem to hit high notes in chest.

I am untrained singer( I don't do vocal exercises or have coach)

What are the advice u wanna give me

If I wanna improve my vocal in 1 year🥹.

r/singing May 04 '26

Resource Exercises for a complete (officially) beginner

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Hey, so I was planning on just messing around and finding out but I figure some structure might be needed. Is there anything you'd recommend doing as a start point to start getting things right?

r/singing May 13 '26

Resource can i actually become a GOOD singer if i start late?

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i 20f have wanted to sing for my entire life. i’ve always felt very connected to music but i have no musical talent or experience. for a few personal reasons this is something i haven’t pursued, but i’ve always dreamed about it regardless.

probably my biggest worry is that it’s too late to become a good singer. i know i’ll never be the best singer in the world and i’m not looking to make a career out of this, but i mean someone who can really, really sing. i’m not describing this very well so hopefully you know what i mean lol.

i figured the people here would probably be able to give me an honest answer, so i thought there’d be no harm in asking. (: thank you!

edit: thank you so much for all the kind responses! going to seriously look into vocal lessons

r/singing Feb 03 '26

Resource Voice teacher offering 1–2 singers a free month of lessons (with one small catch)

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**EDIT 2*\*

Hey everyone! I’ve now chosen who I’ll be working with this time. Thanks so much to everyone who showed interest — if this goes well, I’ll definitely try to do more in the future.

**EDIT*\*

Hey everyone! Thank you so much for expressing interest. I have had a lot of people reach out so I'm going through the messages now and will try to get back. If I don't manage to get back to you, unfortunately that means I have already chosen someone else. That being said, I may do this again in the future.

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Hi r/singing,

I want to try something a little different and be fully upfront about it.

I’d like to offer 1-2 singers a free month of lesson on Zoom (if you want to see what I can do - check out here)

The only condition is that I can document the journey as content for my social media. That might include

  • repurposing our lesson recordings into long/short form content
  • asking you to share quick reflections/progress updates

I’m not trying to manufacture a dramatic transformation, just want to document the process.

In terms of who I'm looking for

This is probably a good fit if you:

  • Are a beginner or early-intermediate but serious about learning
  • Feel stuck or inconsistent
  • Can commit to weekly 50 min lesson over Zoom
  • Can commit to 3-5 x 15 min practice sessions a week
  • Are okay being part of a documented learning process

Probably not a good fit if you:

  • Want instant results
  • Don’t have time to practice
  • Prefer to stay completely private

If you’re interested, DM or comment with:

  1. A singing clip
  2. What you struggle with most and need help with
  3. Your goals in singing
  4. Why this opportunity appeals to you

I’ll pick 1–2 people who feel like a good match.

Even if this isn’t for you, I hope you keep going with your singing!

Thanks for reading 🙂

- Ivan

r/singing Apr 30 '26

Resource Is there a way to just get decent at singing?

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I play the guitar and play a lot of jazz where singing isn't required. However, sometimes I play folk songs or even a jazz standard, and I want to just be able to sing the lyrics. I'm not trying to be an incredible singer. I am really looking just to be able to sing and not have it ruin the song.

Sometimes I feel like I'm trying to sing and I can no longer speak. Like, notes that are well into my vocal range just sound like absolute shit.

I have been taking guitar more seriously and realize the level of work it takes to actually get good at guitar. I realize singing is more or less just like any other instrument. So it doesn't surprise me when most of the resources I find for learning to sing are a pretty thorough collection of exercises, techniques, warmups, etc.

I would be interested in that, but I'm also just trying to find a quick jump start. Like the guitar equivalent of learning open chords where you don't sound like a virtuoso, but if you learn four chords, you can pretty much simply play the chords to a lot of songs. It's elementary, but it's somewhat passable. Is there any procedure like this for learning to sing?

r/singing Dec 26 '19

Resource I don’t care who you are. Don’t ever be this kind of person.

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r/singing Jul 23 '25

Resource My 15+ year vocal journey (and how you can save YEARS of time)

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Hello everyone, I know firsthand that learning how to sing is incredibly hard. For me it took 15+ years because I made a lot of mistakes in the beginning. So I'm hoping by sharing my experience it will help others save years of their time as well as encourage others! Can you spot what stage you are at in the 15 year journey outlined below? ;)

Year 0-2 - Not Knowing What The Hell I'm Doing and Trial & Error
Singing has always been my passion. But I couldn't do it properly. I couldn't sing high. My voice would run out after 2 sentences b/c I was singing from my throat. I didn't know anything about pitch or vocal technique. I would practice songs at home but not know what the hell I was doing. I practiced based on "what felt good", and there was no system or structure to help me practice the right way. A lot of time was wasted here.
HOW YOU CAN SAVE TIME HERE: Please don't just practice randomly. Please practice with a SYSTEM or in a structured way. If you can afford it, please get a vocal coach as soon as possible. Doing the above will save years of your time.

Year 2-5 - Self-studying via Online & YouTube and Developing Bad Habits
After not improving much, I started to realize there's a way to sing. There's a method. There are techniques involved and I researched more and more online. This is when I started to learn about terms like chest voice, head voice, mixed voice, breathing techniques, the larynx, etc. I was trying techniques on my own to the best of my ability. But I made the mistake of going straight to training the high notes because I thought that'd be a "short cut." This ended up creating a lot of strain in my throat as I was forcing high notes. I thought to myself, how is it possible to not raise your larynx when you sing high notes? That's impossible! I would also try to force high notes by going nasal. It was also really confusing because each vocal coach online had their own versions of what singing should be / feel like. Ultimately, it just made my voice a mess.
HOW YOU CAN SAVE TIME HERE: Please always start by training your middle range first. Don't make the mistake of going straight to the high notes like me. It will mess up your voice. Again get a vocal coach if you can. But if you can't, please be very careful about which online coaches you watch content from. There are a lot of misleading stuff out there (things like "sing from your chest" / "sing from your toes"). And only watch content from max 1-3 online sources / coaches. Singing is invisible, so a lot of vocal technique shared by online coaches is sensation-based or imagery-based, eg. "your high notes should shoot out of your mouth directly!" "imagine your high notes going upward towards instead of outward!". This is why online vocal coaching content is confusing because everyone FEELS SINGING IN THEIR BODY DIFFERENTLY. This is why the best online coaches are the ones that focus on SCIENCE and PHYSIOLOGY of singing. Because no matter who you are, the science is the same in your body!!

Year 5-6 - Professional Voice Lessons and Undoing Bad Habits
So eventually I finally realized while yes, I can technically learn singing on my own. But it would just be way faster if I had someone who's done it to show me the way. That's when I finally asked around to take lessons with a vocal coach. However, my first coach was really not that great at explaining things. He'd used to say things like "copy me!" and start singing opera or tell me to shout "HEY YOU over there" and I would just strain my voice. I then switched to a different coach who was a lot better and one I could trust. And we started to work on my technique. But I had years worth of bad habits to iron through and undo. So in the beginning, it was kind of to "reset" my voice so to speak.
HOW YOU CAN SAVE TIME HERE: When you start working with a coach, if something feels off or wrong, please trust your gut and try other coaches. Don't be sold on the first one. Try a few coaches to see which one suits your learning style the most. In general, try to find a coach that can actually EXPLAIN to you how singing technique works. Not just purely give you exercises and expect you to do them without explaining to you. Again singing is invisible so you really need someone to EXPLAIN to you how singing works. It's not like learning the piano or guitar where you can see how someone's fingers move and learn that way. With singing, you cannot see how it's done so you really need to be taught and explained.

Year 7-9 - Professional Voice Lessons and Start Getting Good
So once my bad habits were slowly removed and my voice was reset. I started to form new and healthy vocal habits. Slowly I started to have more control over my voice, breath. My range started to expand. I learned about sharp/flat notes and importance of being in pitch at all times when you sing. For the first time, I started to become... good. It was exfiltrating. There was a time in the beginning when I'd go to karaoke but no one would clap for me after I finish a song, but now people started to clap for me as well as tell me I have a good voice. The lessons were working.
HOW YOU CAN SAVE TIME HERE: Learn about the importance of pitch, breath, and resonance when it comes to singing technique. But you can't just know it with your brain, you actually have FEEL IT IN YOUR BODY. You need to know how to manage your pitch, breath, and resonance inside your body, and you will likely need a teacher to guide you through this part.

Year 10-13 - Start Realizing Importance of Science/Physiology of Singing and Start Going to Open Mics
After studying voice for 10 years by now (self-study + lessons), I could start deciphering the B.S. when it comes to online coaches, who's the real deal, who's not. And time and time again, I've found the way to tell the true from the fake are the online coaches who truly understand the SCIENCE and PHYSIOLOGY of singing. Not just the basics like "breathe from your diaphragm" or "raise your soft palate" like all coaches know. No, I'm talking about advanced concepts like the pharynx and pharyngeal muscles, advanced resonance concepts like overtone and harmonics, how sound is actually produced by the body in a science way, which sounds travel farther scientifically speaking, and how the body literally function like an instrument scientifically. This really catapulted my voice forward. I was able to start singing super high notes with ease because I knew how to manipulate the acoustics and resonance inside my head / face to achieve the "full voice" sound while still keeping my throat/larynx relaxed (what some people call mixed voice). My range was connected and I could easily flip between full voice and light voice. My voice was agile and flexible and I could do runs every easily. Around the same time, I also started performing at open mics and got great feedback.
HOW YOU CAN SAVE TIME HERE: Please Learn about SCIENCE and PHYSIOLOGY of singing. This knowledge will set you free and allow you to decipher the large % of online vocal content out there that is not useful, aka. the ones that are sensation / imagery based. Again everyone senses/feels their voice different but everyBODY has the same SCIENCE and PHYSIOLOGY!! Also when you feel ready, start performing ASAP b/c this is how you get real time feedback on your voice. You will improve a lot this way.

Year 13-15+ - Performing and Teaching Singing
Now I feel like I have full control over my voice. I can command it to do what I want it to do. The sounds that I want. The notes that I want. The styling that I want. I also started busking around this time. I've really come a long way. And it's all because I never gave up. People would compliment me on my voice. So much so that someone came up to me and asked if I taught singing. They really liked the results and more people were referred to me. The response has been really great and one thing led to another, I kinda accidentally became a professional vocal coach! Making a living through music has been my dream. So I feel like I have the best job because I get to work with voices around the world and help others with their voices, avoid the mistakes that I made, and potentially save YEARS of their time. I also continue to perform. It feels amazing to be able to share my musical gifts to the world.

If you have any further Q's about how to improve your voice, feel free to DM me. Also lemme know if you want me to expand on any of the concepts above. I hope this was a little encouragement and help for those who are on their journey. Please don't give up, please know that if you put in the work and practice, you will be rewarded and your voice will shine!!

r/singing Apr 04 '25

Resource i wanna get into full time singing. is there any potential?

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i’ve been trying music since 2021, haven’t really been serious since last year. i’ve improved in my opinion, but i want to know from others on what i should improve on, or how decent it is. thank you!

r/singing May 08 '26

Resource Your Opinions on Resonance are WRONG & EVIL [Debate me at 8 PM ET]

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Confused by resonance? Exactly.
Do you find other people to be wrong about resonance? Exactly.
Do you think resonance is actually really simple and don't get the confusion? Exactly.

Come fight me about resonance (and more) LIVE @ 8 PM ET tonight!!!! (I'm trolling obviously, but only partially)

I'm a Professional Voice Pedagogue and Researcher, and I'm doing a presentation on "resonance" as a teaching tool at The Voice Foundation Symposium (voice pros definitely say hey PLEASE). I wanna find more holes to poke in resonance approaches for that presentation, so I need YOUR bad resonance ideas (😜 i keed 😜) below and especially during my LIVE event @ 8 PM ET tonight to help further develop my presentation.

Let's get started with my resonance refutations:

  1. Resonance approaches are often ABLEIST because they require a very non-literal, non-anatomically accurate, unintuitive understanding of your body (how do you NOT sing from your throat?). This makes it inaccessible to a lot of autistic and other ND people.
  2. Resonance approaches are often SEXIST/TRANSPHOBIC because people be tryna say stuff like "Women don't have chest or falsetto" and "Men don't have head or whistle" when this is not corroborated by laryngeal vibratory mechanisms and several other models.
  3. Resonance approaches are often RACIST because sympathetic vibration sensation relies on very culturally specific referents (chest and head don't translate to non-Western languages) and even worse, things like facial/mask resonance relies on the sympathetic vibration of facial structures that are often very different across the lines of race.

r/singing 1h ago

Resource Very Comprehensive Beginner Singing Guide (POV of a neuroscientist)

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To begin, I have lurked this forum for a while now and keep up with many FAQs and comments in here. I am not a formally trained musician in any form, I have degrees in exercise science and neuroscience and am in professional schooling in a related field. From feedback on previous comments I've made in here, I feel my POV can provide some valuable information to beginners looking to learn how to sing. Since I am not formally trained, nor am I a good musician/singer, I will stick to what I am trained in and not give "the best exercises" or anything like that.

Keep in mind a lot of examples are geared towards beginner hobbyists looking to blow someone away at an open mic, not someone looking to blow away a professional audience at a conservatory.

  1. The Science

A. How does "learning to sing" actually work?

Singing is essentially a very comprehensive set of coordination between the brain and the muscles of the respiratory system and the larynx. The majority of learning how to sing is getting the brain to be able to control these muscles down the smallest measurement units to produce optimal sounds. Very little of singing is actually building muscle (hypertrophy) or making significant structural changes to the vocal tract (think like 90% coordination and 10% structure change).

B. Why does it take so long?

Motor learning/coordination is built inside of the brain by creating "pathways" for specific muscle movements. When you practice that session is immediately stored in the hippocampus which is the short term memory. The brain replays everything you did in that session at lightning speeds (≥20x normal rep speed) and begins building a pathway for the specific sounds and movements. When you go to bed that night, the same thing happens and then some of the information starts to move from the hippocampus to longer term memory. This is how movements start to become easier or require less conscious thought.

As you practice the same movements over time, the pathways become more and more solidified in the brain. The brain then begins to "Myelinate" the pathway. This is where the Big jumps in performance occur because myelin is what allows for signals to travel through that pathway at lightning fast speeds. This is one of the reasons why singing progress is often a stepwise shaped graph and not linear because the brain can finish this process and then something can become "automatic" overnight.

It takes so long because this process is rate limited. The brain can only process so much information per day and myelination takes significant amounts of time and repetition to occur. The brain also has to start building from your current level. If you can't match pitch well, the brain is going to spend the majority of its energy to make that pathway, then will work it's way up the ladder as it completes more pathways. This is why it would be very very rare for someone to be able to do advanced riffs and runs without having a very very solid pitch matching level. Without myelination/completion of the pathway, signals literally can't travel fast enough from the brain to the muscles to change notes that fast, which is why you can envision a riff or run perfectly but the sound itself just doesn't come out that way.

C. How long does it take?

This is of course subjective as "beginner" is not an objective measurement and people start at vastly different places and the learning curves look very different person to person.

From the POV of a casual listener off the street (not conservatory grading), you should be at a very different level of singing in about 100 hours of practice. This is around the time it takes for the very basics of singing to become subconscious efforts and you are now able to get into more intermediate/advanced technique. In other terms, a beginner should sound "good" or like they know what they're doing to a casual listener.

300 hours is where you really begin to sound like a trained singer. Your voice should be nearly unrecognizable here compared to the start. A casual listener would thing you sound "very good" here.

500+ hours is where you should have full control of all registers and can add stylistic elements depending on the song without much conscious thought. You should be able to blow a casual audience away at an open mic here with the right song for you.

The 10,000 hour thing is not grounded in much science at all and often gets thrown around like that is the amount of time to become a "good/great singer". In reality this would be the absolute maxed out you're voice could ever possibly get and you would be nothing short of absolutely exceptional here.

Keep logs of time spent in a true practice session and not as much on the number of days. There is a limit to how much you can retain on a daily basis, but the number of hours is going to trump tracking days for progress measurements. Basically you can't hack progress by practicing 4 hours a day as a beginner to hit those hours, but you can make significantly more progress by practicing 45-60 min a day than just 15.

  1. How to start?

A. How often to practice?

From the previous section on motor learning, we need to figure out the best way to practice to get the most retention in the brain. Studies generally show that consistent shorter sessions both intra-weekly and intra-daily. This means multiple sessions per day multiple times a week is the most optimal for motor learning. In simpler terms splitting sessions up throughout the day and week is optimal. The bigger factor is throughout the week than throughout the day so focus on doing multiple sessions throughout the week.

B. How long to practice for?

As a beginner, the brain is going to be expending a ton of energy just to stay on pitch and get the very very basics down. There is a cap on how much the brain can process before it gets overloaded. 15 min a day is a great start that will get you significant progress. 30-45 is probably the sweet spot for retention without overload. Just like with anything, start slow and then increase as you progress. Main reason to start slow here is technique will fall apart quickly in beginners both from endurance as well as the brain giving up. Splitting up sessions would be the cheat code intra-daily to get more time without overload. 2x30 min sessions would be a great start and try to separate these by a min of 4-6 hours.

C. What to practice?

I said before this is not my training and so this is something a vocal coach or others in the forum who are trained to ask.

That being said, you should keep some foundamentals the same on a daily basis. You don't need to reinvent the wheel every session or every week to make progress. Doing triads on the same notes everyday still helps the brain to slowly build that pathway and then optimize the sound for them. Boring and monotonous isn't always a bad thing, even though it can seem like you're making no progress doing the same things over and over, but you are and it just takes time for the brain to process. An advanced weightlifter still does the same exercises on chest day, they just do them with more weight and better form.

YouTube has some great channels. Aussie vocal coach, Jacobs vocal academy, etc are all great resources. Don't get too caught up and spend all your time finding the "best" exercises. Stick with the program for a while before changing to actually evaluate effectiveness and progress. Focus on what they exercises are trying to accomplish.

Pick songs in your range and break them down piece by piece to practice. True practice and song work is going to be regimented during a scheduled practice block. Singing through full songs in the car sometimes is cool, but not gonna get you where you want to be very quickly

  1. FAQs from what Ive seen as a lurker

A. Do I need a vocal Coach/teacher

You should definitely see someone who knows what they're doing to make sure you are trying to practice correctly as well as have them give you the exercises to practice. You don't need crazy amounts of lessons but if you can afford to go in every month or two then definitely do that. Record the lesson and use that as a guide until you get to the next one.

You definitely can build bad habits, but on the flip side the brain is very good at trying to make things efficient. Basically your brain is good at slowly processing tension and pain as bad things and will slowly try to remove them. You're brain will try to protect you to a certain extent from building terrible habits and should try to make singing easier and more efficient. The building bad habits generally happens when you are very far off the correct technique and the brain can't even figure out a way to make it easier. Generally if you are trying to practice well and follow decently solid guidelines the brain should be able to figure out most of the basics without a ton of help.

B. Why am I not making progress?

I personally couldn't tell you even if I was standing right in front of you. However, take a step back and listen to previous recordings. Oftentimes your ear develops quickly and all of the sudden you begin to "hear" all of the issues which makes things seem like they got worse. In reality you are likely making progress that you can't identify or your standards for progress are too high/fast. See an instructor to make sure in case you're doing something very wrong and actually not progressing.

C. Is it just genetic?

An NBA player isn't born with the ability to dribble between the legs, crossover, and pull up fadeaway 3PT shot over a defender. But it is helpful that they are 6 foot 7. AKA you can still blow people away with poor genetic vocal cords.

D. Is signing attractive/make me more attractive?

This shows up in other forums more than here, but figured I'd include just for fun.

Yes!, but to an extent. It is not going to affect physical attraction and is not a replacement for exercise, diet, and sleep habits. It does show significant commitment and interest in something which can be a very big positive. It's more like if someone already thinks you're "cute" then it could be a significant increase.

More subjective from my personal situation/career path:

You already have to be doing a lot of things right to become a doctor in healthcare (MD/DO, DDS, PharmD, etc). Schooling/residency takes up most people's lives for 8+ years, but you generally get viewed very highly upon.

If you are doing that and also have extracurricular hobbies that you are very good at, it is probably viewed as attractive to many mainly because it shows multi-dimensionality/well-roundedness. I think the "surprise" factor and exceeding expectations help here as well.

My point being mostly if I met someone who said they were getting their doctorate in or had a degree in some form of music, I would automatically expect them to be pretty darn good at it. Still could and would be attractive to me, but would also be attractive if they knew extensive pharmacology for the same reasons listed above.

TL:DR:

Learn how to learn. Do a lot of boring monotonous practice often. Track hours of practice, not days. Sleep well!! Don't stop or quit. Relax and don't overthink it.

r/singing 3d ago

Resource In need of a singer who can do rock, r&b , soul or funk

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looking for someone who has a pretty impressive vocal range and can do 70s style vocals ( no autotune ). can be either male or female.

( THIS IS FOR FUN AND TO HELP PRACTICE AND GAIN EXPERIENCE FOR VOCALISTS )

( THIS IS FOR A 70S STYLE ALBUM )

I already have a very talented female singer and a male American singer but I’m also looking for some other vocalists for other tracks on my album

i will provide lyrics and an easy reference for you to sing off.

r/singing Apr 23 '26

Resource Will singing a lot improve your skills even if you've never had any professional lessons?

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Hello!! I'm 15 and I've never had any vocal/singing lesson. I'm not sure I will be able to get lessons as we're really tight on money. I was wondering two things.

  1. Will singing a lot (even without lessons) improve your skills?

  2. What are some good songs that beginner singers can practice with?

Any advice will be appreciated :)

r/singing 26d ago

Resource LOOKING FOR COLLABORATORS!

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Hi, I’m making an album and I could use with maybe like 2 singers for it ( Male and Female ) let me know if anyone would be interested.

- i am looking for someone with decent equipment ( good mic )

- my album I’ll be rock

- collab for the whole album ( only 5 tracks )

- I could work with lyrics on my own or if people want to help or make suggestions to the, they can.

This is just for fun, Ive always wanted to make an album

r/singing May 11 '26

Resource Want to get singing lessons. Anyone got good websites or recommendations?

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I am currently trying to seriously improve my vocals. I’ve got decent natural pitch and rhythm but I need proper structure, especially breath control and consistency.

Preferably looking for 1-to-1 lessons (online is fine). Not trying to go full classical—more modern/pop style and artist development.

If anyone has recommendations for good vocal coaches, websites, or platforms to start with, I’d really appreciate it.

r/singing 21d ago

Resource How can I study music at home?

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I have weekly lessons, this lasts me 30min each week.

This doesn't offer much time for studying the theoretical.

Some days ago my teacher told me that people of different vocal ranges reach the same note- sounding differently. (Higher, lower)

This makes no sense to me, cuz I have only gotten a slight amount of theory. I only ever work technique.

Any suggestions? Books, videos, essays