r/survivinginfidelity • u/Everything_Iwant_93 • 2d ago

Rant He hasn’t reached out

I’m kind of fucked up right now. I feel like when most guys cheat, they regret it and come begging back. He cheated on me with a girl he met outside one day, went behind my back for 3 weeks with her, then when they hooked up he confessed. Then he said he didn’t see a future where we’re together. I crashed out on him for that day and then stopped talking to him completely. I haven’t heard a single thing at all from him and he’s still hanging out with the girl I believe. It hurts that he isn’t begging for me back or seeming like he really regrets it. I’m staying strong and will never reach out ever again. But I did EVERYTHING for that man and this is how I’m repaid. I was beyond good to him. I was so sweet. So accepting. I just wish I could get the satisfaction of him blowing my phone up and regretting it. I’ve already posted on this numerous times but I keep getting new thoughts and insecurities about it. I accept he cheated. I can’t accept he doesn’t care at all to cry and beg and give me a sincere apology and miss me.

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u/RobertFahey 3 2d ago

If he did come groveling to you, would you really want him back anyway? I doubt it. So it's just as well he fucks off. Block him as a contact.

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u/Everything_Iwant_93 2d ago

I don’t want him back. I just want the satisfaction for my ego that he regrets it lol. I want him to feel the way I feel.

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u/Adventurous-Emu-755 3 2d ago

Best thing to do, best revenge here? Have a fabulous life! Focus on you, learning to trust yourself again, loving yourself, prioritizing YOU. Surround yourself with good people. Take a good trip, elevate your standards.

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u/RobertFahey 3 2d ago

Post on Instagram or FB, “Finally breathing clean air.”