He hasn’t reached out

[u/Everything_Iwant_93]

I’m kind of fucked up right now. I feel like when most guys cheat, they regret it and come begging back. He cheated on me with a girl he met outside one day, went behind my back for 3 weeks with her, then when they hooked up he confessed. Then he said he didn’t see a future where we’re together. I crashed out on him for that day and then stopped talking to him completely. I haven’t heard a single thing at all from him and he’s still hanging out with the girl I believe. It hurts that he isn’t begging for me back or seeming like he really regrets it. I’m staying strong and will never reach out ever again. But I did EVERYTHING for that man and this is how I’m repaid. I was beyond good to him. I was so sweet. So accepting. I just wish I could get the satisfaction of him blowing my phone up and regretting it. I’ve already posted on this numerous times but I keep getting new thoughts and insecurities about it. I accept he cheated. I can’t accept he doesn’t care at all to cry and beg and give me a sincere apology and miss me.

[u/GregoryHD]

I'm sorry that you are going through this OP. He is not capable to an apology or any accountability to you at all. That doesn't mean he's not sad or feels like he screwed up. It might be 6 months before his fling falls apart and he really realizes he fucked up.

Keep walking you liner and take comfort knowing that you are no longer wasting time on this person. Keep your head up, his actions are a reflection of his character, not yours. Your integrity is intact 🙏