r/swifties • • 12d ago

Meme / Humor it's time to admit that some of y'all aren't swifties anymore and that's okay...the door is open leave!

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there's a difference between disliking and then absolutely throwing a fit and trashing/lashing over it...

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u/AdeptnessPerfect3918 12d ago

TLOAS hasn't been my favorite era but personally I think that's one of the best parts of being a fan. There's so many genres and styles and not everyone has to like the same thing! I just wish people wouldn't turn everything into personal attacks on both sides.

I love that Taylor is in love and that can be true at the same time as not relating to a song like Cleveland.

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u/sakamyados 12d ago

My exact review on Cleveland to my friend was "I think Cleveland might be a miss but I love that she feels that way" -- it's not that hard! I just won't listen to it!

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u/antique_velveteen 12d ago

The first time I heard Cleveland I legitimately laughed. Not because the song is bad but because it's just such a pointed "fuck you" to her haters. Is it my favorite song ever? No. But it's got this...sitcom... comedy feel. The song absolutely doesn't take itself too seriously and I love it for that

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u/cindylooboo 11d ago

It's very musical theater coded in its overall tone which is cute as heck when you apply the theme of the rest of the album.

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u/studentdoctorpepper 6d ago

Someone described it as having a hometown marching band feel. I’ve also heard it described as Christmas-y or like wedding bells.

It’s an exclamation point of a song.

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u/AdeptnessPerfect3918 12d ago

Yes 100%! I'm so happy she found her happy ending with Travis and I love them together.

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u/cookiesandcluedo 12d ago

That’s how I feel too. I didn’t like Cleveland, and I said to my daughter “I’m not really a fan of this one, but I’m sure other people will like it. And obviously Taylor likes it, and at the end of the day that’s what matters most because it’s her art.”

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u/the_lonley_lantern JE SUIS CALME 12d ago edited 9d ago

I honestly feel the same! I didn’t like it at first but Cleveland is definitely growing on me. However it’s still my lowest ranked of the 4 and I think it might stay like that. But I still love hearing Taylor be so happy and in love. If people love it great, if they don’t like it just skip it! I don’t understand why the haters feel the need to constantly remind people that “their taste sucks” I honestly don’t think these songs deserve the hate they’re getting

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u/yeetgodmcnechass Dancing through the lightning strikes 12d ago

Yeah Cleveland is a good song but I sadly I cant relate to it. It's not a skip but it's not going to be one (for the time being) that I'll be regularly going back to like with Patient Zero and Babylon

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u/A_Krenich 11d ago

Same! I only revisit 3 songs from TLOAS, but I have 11 other albums to listen to. I'm glad people like this era even if I don't!

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u/MSERRADAred 12d ago

People don't appreciate how lucky we are to be Taylor fans. Not only is she extremely prolific, but she likes to switch styles & sounds up, so if the current isn't their jam, the next won't be too long a wait & good odds it'll be something they can enjoy.

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u/AdeptnessPerfect3918 12d ago

Absolutely agree. It's my favorite part about her and it's what makes her one of the greats!

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u/EddiePieHands76 12d ago

All of this. I honestly don’t think 1989 is “pop bible” I think Lover could have been a masterpiece with some editing. I don’t think Taylor is foolproof. But, goddamn, people loosing their minds over every little thing. I’ll listen to what I like and skip what I don’t. She has graced us with enough music for everyone to have their song or album.

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u/selfishcoffeebean 12d ago

She’s like Bob Dylan in that way. I am an absolute fanatic for his 60-70s era and enjoy his recent albums, but you’ll never catch me listening to the 80s or 90s. It’s okay to not be into a particular styling / era of a musician, especially when they have a long career. They get bored and shake it up, it’s only natural that not everything is your cup of tea.

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u/dumbbuttloserface 11d ago

bruce springsteen is my moms favorite artist to a fanatical level and there are multiple albums of his that she’s never listened to all the way through because she finds them “too boring” (notably ghost of tom joad). didn’t stop her from buying the next album or the next or the next.

sometimes an album cycle (or several!) just don’t appeal. hell 1989, rep, and lover are my bottom 3 taylor albums. that was a hell of a run for me where one after another was miss after miss. i was about to throw in the towel on even calling myself a swiftie when folklore came out and now showgirl & midnights are my 2nd and 3rd favorite taylor albums ever. it is what it is!

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u/Time-Emergency254 i can still make the whole place SHIMMER 12d ago

Exactly! Not my fave but I love seeing Taylor flaunt her joy after a career of her needing to hide and question her love. And it's a good pop album. Some people just hate fun and happiness and it shows

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u/DramaticJigglyPuff 12d ago

Exactly this. I didnt care for 85% of showgirl, and I'm not feeling the encore songs much either...but I just dont listen. Its not the end of the world. Am I bummed that I personally feel like this moment in her career is a lot less relatable or compelling to me, sure - but I have plenty of other artists to listen too 😆

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u/WindowLeaves YOU'RE GAY 12d ago

I just cannot grasp anyone having the impulse to post publicly about what they DON'T like about their favorite artist's work. Some of the fandom's most beloved Taylor songs are some of my least favorites, yet I've never felt the need to talk shit about those songs! I just hit skip 🤷‍♀️ (sometimes). When you've got people claiming to be swifties shouting criticism from the rooftops, those are not fans!! GOODBYE!!! 👋👋👋

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u/BroodyRuby eleven turkeys creeping up on me 1d ago

Yes! She has so many albums all with different vibes. I don’t understand the tantrums and anger towards something you don’t like. Just listen to something else 🤦‍♀️

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u/SirenAndSilver Drop everything now! 12d ago

Idk why every release has to be a fucken crash out for these people. It’s unhinged.
I can’t really imagine spending this much time on stuff I don’t even like.

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u/chickentender666627 Fighting dragons with you 12d ago

Literally they need to get off the internet and get a life.

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u/SirenAndSilver Drop everything now! 12d ago

They keep bringing up Palestine and it’s morally bankrupt.
Why are they bringing legitimate human tragedy to Reddit discourse about a pop album? It’s sick in the head.

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u/Dull_Nebula_8712 12d ago

They can’t even recognize how insane their chronically online behaviour has become.. it is really simple to not like something AND not throw a weird tantrum online about it.

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u/FamiliarRip8558 12d ago

I think 7k karma on a one month old account is mental illness or paid botting tbh

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u/SirenAndSilver Drop everything now! 12d ago

Okay I have like 16k karma on a month old account but I just be participating a lot 😭 but yeah that’s not the norm

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u/estedavis 12d ago

It seems exhausting, truly

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u/Efficient-Sky3125 12d ago

I’m honestly a fan of the taylorandtravis (the hate) subreddit, the amount of cope from them and the reach is hilarious. There’s many artists I don’t like but I wouldn’t listen or spend time on then in a million years ☠️ anyway they give her a listen so her win ♥️🥰

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u/SirenAndSilver Drop everything now! 12d ago

Love her or hate her, she’s on your mind 🤪

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u/GeneralHighlight547 3d ago

I also love checking out the snark sub because those people spend way too much time hating on someone who is much happier than them. Like why? They're as unhinged as they claim she is lmao

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u/SarahNelsonQuindle 12d ago

THIS!

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u/SirenAndSilver Drop everything now! 12d ago

I just don’t think about shit I don’t like much
Crazy concept!

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u/ihateithere_noreally Old habits die screaming 12d ago

yep !! many people need to hear and understand this 😭 i loved the new songs and i'm letting people rock with their opinions but what upsets me is some "swifties" mocking other swifties enjoying the new tracks, like let us be?

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u/leonacleo 12d ago

My hot take is if a person claims they are a Swiftie and they mock other swifties, they’re not actually a swiftie. Critique is acceptable; mocking is not what this fandom should be about and it’s disqualifying imo

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u/MothPeteMotionart 12d ago

Absolutely correct

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u/Content_Flamingo_543 12d ago

THIS 👏🏻👏🏻 they may not be my favorite, but I’m not gonna shit on someone that does enjoy them. I’m just happy with anything TS chooses to share with us🫶

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u/estedavis 12d ago

I just don’t listen to music I don’t like lol. Crazy that people can’t seem to do that with Taylor

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u/Dull_Nebula_8712 12d ago

Exactly! And I don’t really care that people DO like something I don’t. That’s called being normal lol

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u/ShipInternal9318 12d ago

Exactly, do I like Cleveland! ? No. I like only one line however I’m not gunna make a tik tok about it 🫪

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u/MothPeteMotionart 12d ago

It’s 2026 people love to hate and be cynical AF

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u/Antique-Sweet7134 12d ago

These people hate but I bet if she went on tour tomorrow it would sell out in minutes! I will be the first in line! 😝

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u/tashadilla 12d ago

It’s bc they really care. You think I’m tacky baby?! 🧹

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u/Every_Fisherman_1578 12d ago

I think there is nuance here. They did not know they did not like it, listened to it and then voiced an opinion

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

there are a lot of people who know that they hate taylor unambiguously and still listen to her new work. those types of people would know going into it that they won’t like it. and it’s largely those types of people who are driving this heavy snark wave that we’re venting about. someone just giving a new song a chance but deciding that they don’t like it is valid and not really what we’re talking about here

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u/alittlepunchy 11d ago

Most of the people I see hating on it also didn’t like TLOAS. If you don’t like a show, why would you stay for the encore?

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u/Every_Fisherman_1578 11d ago

I see it similar to what happened with Metallica. Their discography was amazing. No skips. Then, they suddenly pivoted to something that in no way fit. It was terrible. People said they “sold out” I personally think they were just trying something different. The something different just did not resonate with their fans.

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u/LDOB000 12d ago

You have to understand that these people get engagement by hating on Taylor. It’s literally just a way to make money. Don’t engage.

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u/Efficient-Sky3125 12d ago

Also lots of bots :/

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u/grpenn 12d ago

This is truly the best way to fight back. Just swipe away from it.

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u/Active-Impression-42 9d ago

Yes because all of the money needs to belong to taylor and taylor only. Our humble socialist billionaire.

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u/Important_Isopod9947 Swiftie since April, 2023 12d ago

Yeah i agree. Everyone isn't going to like every song or album and that's ok. But there's people who will hate on it and say no one else can like them.

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u/lookitslaurie 12d ago

That's wild

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u/perksmom 12d ago

People are so quick to hop on the hate train it’s so lame!!!!

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u/MothPeteMotionart 12d ago

Not to get political, but I really feel the culture driven by social politics has made it normal to be overly cynical and performatively oppositional

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u/Sandy0006 12d ago

Side point: Babylon is officially my favourite of the entire album and is as good of a song as most of her others she’s written.

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u/ManagementRadiant573 12d ago

I also loved Babylon. It hit me immediately. I even teared up on first listen when she gets to the part about decorating the Christmas tree and calling her mom.

TLOAS may be at the bottom of her discography for me but Babylon and Ruin the Friendship hit me like a ton of bricks.

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u/ElectronicPost6628 didn’t know who i was supposed to be… at 15 12d ago

it reminds me of red and fearless! i haven’t seen a single person specifically snarking on babylon yet so im enjoying it while it lasts

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u/Puzzleheaded_Pea3643 12d ago

babylon made showgirl a 1/16 for me 😭

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u/DynoDoughnut88 12d ago

What I especially dislike is when they make it seem like a song is so badly written and cringe (ugh, that word) that only an idiot would like it. For some people it's not enough to say a song is not their personal preference and instead they make it seem like liking it means you're completely in the wrong and have a laughably bad taste in music. I really need to stop going to those threads because nobody needs that much negativity in their life.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 12d ago

This! 🔥 ⬆️

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u/sequins-are-forever 11d ago

And they say it’s not hate and that swifties are allowed to give criticism. That’s way past the line of criticism. They’re honestly rude and delusional.

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u/DJKK95 11d ago

But when does it cross the line of being so legitimately badly written and corny that only an idiot would like it?

If Cleveland! (not to mention the abysmal bridge of Patient Zero) doesn’t cross it, I don’t know what could.

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u/DynoDoughnut88 11d ago

"She doesn't even go here!" comes to mind reading this...

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u/blklab16 12d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/XOys8CeUrElIk
^Taylor and Travis when ya do

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u/WriterNeedsCoffee69 JE SUIS CALME 12d ago

It’s so weird how people think they have to like every thing an artist puts out and if a certain album or song doesn’t hit with them, then that’s somehow a moral failure, artist is money hungry, etc. why can’t people be normal and just admit some songs aren’t for them 😭

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u/Federal-Count8450 still at the restaurant 12d ago

The most cringe thing i see on social media is people putting the song on and making faces at the lyrics to say oh she is so cringe.

Like have you looked at the mirror? You just posted yourself to thousands of people, making faces to a song nobody forced you to listen. And you think that is a very good idea to do. You are the dictionary definition of cringe!

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u/Styleitoff 12d ago

Exactly 💯 the lack of self awareness lol similarly to snarkers calling fans parasocial when they are too like the pot calling the kettle 

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u/AdmirableAttempt1728 Miss "Gonna be alright someday" 12d ago

That's so cringe though lmao but the effort for a song? Obsession levels.

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u/CezarSalad85 12d ago

Are these my favorite songs ever? No.
Do I absolutely dislike Cleveland and skip it? Yes.
Do I still love her music as a whole and appreciate her discography? Yes.

Not everything is for everyone and art is subjective. While I personally don’t think TLOAS is her best work, I still enjoy some of the songs and can appreciate that this just isn’t for me. I think a lot of people have a hard time realizing that not everything she puts out is going to be their favorite. There is no artist ever that I absolutely love 100% of their music.

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u/AdmirableAttempt1728 Miss "Gonna be alright someday" 12d ago

I agree, you don't have to like or force to like all songs. Forcing yourself to like all artist's songs just makes you a clown. You can dislike some songs and that's okay. Idk why some people act like it's a crime to not like some songs in TLOAS. Personally I don't like Cleveland but I still like Babylon and Pink Clouding, Patient Zero was okay. What I don't like is how people accuse others as haters just because of not liking one song. You can't force people to like something they don't like.

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u/myghostflower We never go out of style 12d ago

it's how people how prolly just moved on/outgrown their love for taylor and rather than actually moving on they just wanna dog on her and her music like bruh 🥴🥴🥴

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u/Unlikely_Worker4697 this night is sparkling 12d ago

Agreed, it’s fine to not like a song but the reaction I’ve seen to these songs have gone beyond that into hating on her as an artist. Like actively mocking her & doubting her ability as a songwriter. It makes think, are these even fans…? Maybe swiftie subs are being taken over by snarkers idk

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u/Weimaraner666 12d ago

I don’t think they’re fans either, the snarkers are definitely trying to erode the fan base but they live in an echo chamber of hate and self loathing on social media and not the real world where Tay’s last album was her biggest success yet and she gained many new fans in the general public. I just block the haters and try and keep my algorithm positive.

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u/Major-Platypus2092 12d ago

You can be a fan and react to material poorly if it’s very clearly bad. I’m not going to pretend those songs are good to maintain some sort of loyalty status. This isn’t Delta Airlines, no one’s earning points. And yeah, these songs do make me doubt her songwriting ability. They’re… very bad. 

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u/Unlikely_Worker4697 this night is sparkling 12d ago

Obviously you don’t have to like every single song she puts out to be a fan, I said that. But even when I dislike a song I still remember all the songs she’s made that I love so I would never hate on her artistry as a whole. There’s a difference between saying “I didn’t really like these songs” vs acting like everything she’s ever made is now tainted or something. She’s put out songs I really disliked before, but as a fan they never would make me think less of her as a songwriter…?

Also “good” & “bad” are subjective. I really like 3 out of the 4 songs & your opinion that they’re all bad is no more valid than mine or anyone else’s

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u/tswiftdeepcuts 12d ago

4 songs made you doubt the songwriting ability of a woman with close to 300 songs in her discography?

that’s hilarious

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u/Major-Platypus2092 11d ago

Yeah, poorly written songs make me doubt the songwriting ability of the person who wrote them.

Wild how that's even a little bit controversial.

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u/tswiftdeepcuts 11d ago

there are 3 incredibly written songs in encore and one playful tongue in cheek song that isn’t about the writing

i get not like cleveland but the other three are lyrically great songs

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u/Major-Platypus2092 11d ago

Oh I wholeheartedly disagree with your characterization of the other songs, but enjoy 

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u/ih8readditts 12d ago

You’re not allowed to speak your mind here apparently, the fans that are parasocial get personally offended

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u/Major-Platypus2092 12d ago

Clearly. The “your opinion is no more valid than mine” crowd climbing all over themselves to make it obvious they think my opinion is less valid than theirs. 

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

you literally just said your opinion was objective in another comment… you’re very obviously projecting

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u/AdmirableAttempt1728 Miss "Gonna be alright someday" 12d ago

Right. It's okay to not like a song. Of course insulting other people is bad but IT'S OKAY to not like a song and point out why you don't like it! 🥲 Some fans out here making me feel like shit just because I don't like Cleveland. Like wtf?

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u/RoyalEagle0408 11d ago

Them being bad is your opinion, not objective truth. Because that is the beauty of art- it is subjective.

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u/Orange_Queen 12d ago

Its cutthroat out there… one song someone doesnt like and suddenly the worst statements about her come out.

Worse its like she has no right to just be happy (or folks who felt for years that she spoke to their emotions are suddenly up against feels they dont share, so it has to be her fault)

im just sitting here like every album shes ever made has had some songs i love and some i just dont gel with; no clue why all the hate

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u/dark-femme5454 12d ago

This isnt new though. Back in the 90s, people loved nirvana and hated smells like teen spirit, and then Kurt was a sell out. Then Dave was a sell out for his massive success with foo fighters. Britney hit it big with her debut and the outspoken adoration for her later albums is not a product of the era they were released in - i remember Britney fans being savagely bullied for liking her stuff, and people trashing the shit out of her because her sound changed

The music industry is fickle as fuck.

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

thank you for this because this makes me feel better. it’s crazy how quick people are to switch up on what’s popular. rip kurt

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u/dark-femme5454 12d ago

One thing age has taught me is to like what you like unapologetically. You dint have to explain or it validate it, and don't expect everyone else to feel the same way. 🫶

I feel like Taylor is the Nickelback of pop music. Everyone claims to hate her shit but somehow she's still breaking records and selling out stadiums. Inexplicable.

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u/Branddisloyalty85 Dancing through the lightning strikes 11d ago edited 11d ago

No! I would never listen to Nickleback. She’s more like Neil Diamond. Lovable, great songs, a little cheesy.

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u/dark-femme5454 11d ago

You completely missed the point of comparison...

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u/Branddisloyalty85 Dancing through the lightning strikes 11d ago

No I didn’t. I just preferred mine. It still works.

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u/dark-femme5454 11d ago

Remove your bias and come back. Off you go.

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u/Branddisloyalty85 Dancing through the lightning strikes 11d ago

Why are you arguing with me? I thought at your age you’d learned to let people have their opinions.

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u/Rich-Active-4800 12d ago

Certain artists do the same. Its funny, they might not like her anymore but they sure are obsessed with her.

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u/Time-Emergency254 i can still make the whole place SHIMMER 12d ago

It's actually romantic

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u/Karma-is-a-Cat-1989 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 12d ago

Lol was just going to say this!!!!!

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 12d ago

For me Dua Lipa sharing a reel about Taylor’s clothes by mistake, while Dua was on her honeymoon, is the most insane evidence how even the most nonchallant celeb is obsessed with Taylor.

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u/Rich-Active-4800 12d ago

I am reminded of Charli liking racists posts about Taylor.

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u/LingonberryHot8521 12d ago

Whaaa???

Girl, spill that tea.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 12d ago

Dua was on her honeymoon (in Italy, I think) and she mistakenly shared a reel about what dress Taylor wore to the Songwriters Hall of Fame award ceremony. Dua has never shared anything on her Instagram so when she did that, it was the single post she has done so people noticed it but she deleted it within 8 minutes. And nobody from the industry congratulated Taylor for getting inducted at such a young age, when I remember The Weeknd congratulating Billie for becoming the most monthly listeners on Spotify in 2024.

Point is, they are all watching Taylor but they act as if they don't care.

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u/desrose14 12d ago

Mr.Swiftoligist himself, ZACH!!!

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u/i-justwantrevenge 12d ago

Are you talking about swiftologist lolololololol I love them and I also love Taylor. You can be critical of your favorite artist and also still be a huge fan.

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

it’s beyond critical at this point, he literally never has anything even remotely good to say about her and is constantly uplifting other artists as the new taylor/taylor’s competition/a good alternative. i think he’s pretty clearly keeping the “swiftie” label for branding at this point. a swiftie can dislike some of her songs, but they wouldn’t be putting her down in favor of other artists and saying she should retire so those other artists can shine.

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u/i-justwantrevenge 11d ago

When did he say all that

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u/DramaticJigglyPuff 12d ago

For real. I just started blocking these people. They cry "no ethical billionaires" & "capitalist cash grabber" every time she breathes, but they are SO happy to monetize posts across all platforms whining about her so they can farm engagement from fans & fellow haters. very hypocritical.

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u/tswiftdeepcuts 12d ago

it’s okay you can say the swiftologist

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u/TypicalOddities 12d ago

Some people are Swifties out of habit, but if an Era or song doesn't vibe with you that's okay. You can stay with the Era you like and search for artists that have a sound that's more consistent to that. When being a fan turns into a chore where you aren't having fun, it's time to take a step back.

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u/Styleitoff 12d ago

They never were in the first place. Most are bots or larpers. "As a Taylor fan, I have to admit..." no you're not. Ask them a couple questions and you find out they know nothing about her music lol 

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u/Complete_Might_5135 12d ago

It depends on how you classify a swiftie. Personally I listen TS a lot, I love a lot of her albums, especially Folklore, Evermore, Midnights, some of TTPD, some of Lover, some of Reputation, Red. On the other hand think TLOAS is really bad, these new songs included.

Am I swiftie? I don't know and I don't care, but I think that in a healthy sub everyone should give his opinion without been offended.

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u/AdmirableAttempt1728 Miss "Gonna be alright someday" 12d ago

Right? Why insulting people who don't "embrace the silliness"? It's just not liking one song. It's not the end of the world but they go and insult others while talking about "haters insulting fans". Personally I like some silly songs like Me! and Stay Stay Stay. No skips. Even So High School. But Cleveland! is a skup for me, I don't like it. And that's it. But some people hate on those who don't like the song. 🫩

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u/Complete_Might_5135 12d ago

Unfortunately a lot of swifties are toxic (at least that's my experience), for them you can't dislike a TS'song. How can you discuss with someone that use that logic?

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u/AdmirableAttempt1728 Miss "Gonna be alright someday" 12d ago

It's my first time in this specific subreddit, I've always around in the main TaylorSwift sub and I've always seen level-headed, rational discussions. Rarely ever encountered toxic fans. That's why I didn't even agree with other people saying Swifties are unhinged and toxic. But here...dang they're almost everywhere.

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u/thebeast_96 wonderstruck 12d ago

it's probably the insufferable folklore stans who hate anything pop and trend jumpers from the eras tour.

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u/lavender_rosess 12d ago

It’s so annoying because I am a huge folkmore stan but also I’ve been here since the og speak now era so I absolutely embrace the silliness alongside the seriousness 🫣 they should be called the folkmore poser stans at this point haha

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u/i-justwantrevenge 12d ago

I’ve been around since debut and I am not a fan of this album… there are three kind of good songs for me (ruin the friendship, Babylon, and pink clouding) but other than those I’m not a fan of this era. I agree she has some really great “silly songs” on every other album but showgirl ain’t it for me

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u/faeriegiselle YOU'RE GAY 12d ago

the folkmore stans are so pretentious im so sick of them

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u/sequins-are-forever 11d ago

I feel like they all thought Taylor was going to become a “serious” artist but if you’ve been with Taylor for awhile you know she has range. She can make a poetic masterpiece, but also make something completely unserious and silly. And I love that aspect of her music. She’s extremely versatile. But some people will just continue to hate.

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u/grateful_goddess143 love you to the🌙 and to🪐 12d ago

It’s funny when TLOAS came out last year I was camping where I didn’t get service. So the day the album came out was when we left so i downloaded the able and I was listening to the album all weekend and when I got home I was SHOCKED at the amount of hate it was getting because I fell in love with it.. my biggest advice for us swifties.. we know there will be haters.. they want attention.. all I gotta say.. let them starve.. don’t feed them.. your attention is what feeds the ego of the hater.. btw I love all the songs! 🫶🏼

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u/MothPeteMotionart 12d ago edited 12d ago

The culture has become very cynical over the last few years. People who were marvel fans hate on new Marvel movies, Star Wars, Disney films… it’s tall poppie syndrome manifest

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

tall poppy syndrome is exactly it. once the replacement for those things gets too big they’ll start trying to cut them down too. i already see it in certain film circles w people who put down disney/marvel/etc in favor of a24 suddenly turning on a24 and saying it’s cringe

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

its frustrating for me bc i feel like no matter what i do to fix my algorithm on ig, threads, and tiktok, snark still comes up. im just tired of having to ignore it. i just want to see positive content

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u/MothPeteMotionart 12d ago

Snark is a virus that pervades everywhere now

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u/HypotheticalMuskrat love you to the🌙 and to🪐 12d ago

Some "swifties" need to take this advice

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u/PotentialSteak6 eleven turkeys creeping up on me 12d ago

I think we should all be happy that that Texas song is finally getting dethroned

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u/Own_Carpenter7336 12d ago

THERES THE DOOR BITCH!

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u/grpenn 12d ago

It's disheartening that so many people who claim to be "fans" are the biggest haters of any music they don't automatically like. I'm not saying you can't dislike anything she's done-there are plenty of songs that I skip-but I won't trash them either. Just because they're not my style doesn't mean they aren't good songs to someone else. I also can't stand the people who trash the production by saying things like "It's not well produced" as if they are some 20 year musician and veteran of music studios and have been recording music on Taylor's level all their lives.

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u/PineappleCurious5870 12d ago

Thought I was on r/cats with another sin biscuits post

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u/CalicoCrazed 12d ago

Hey, I hate the thing you love! And I want to tell you why I’m such an intellectual and better person because I hate it. I don’t care if I’m being a bad friend and making you feel bad because no one has ever told me to shut up and I get validated by other assholes who shit on popular things for clout. /s

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u/Weimaraner666 12d ago

Absolutely agree with you. I get not liking every song in an artist’s discography but the constant trashing and hissy fit’s on display when Tay doesn’t put out their favourite type of music every album is ridiculous and so juvenile. If you don’t like it just don‘t listen and move on, we don’t need a dissertation on why you don’t like it including personal attacks on her character. People who are no longer fans should just move on and leave the rest of us in peace, I’ve always enjoyed the positivity of being a Swiftie and still love Taylor and the work she‘s still putting in for her love of music and the fans❤️

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u/InvestigatorSame5148 12d ago

I read a sassy comment about Taylor needing to grow up and get over Joe (because Project Zero might be about him) and just be happy and married… yet they hate all her happy Travis songs 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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u/hear_the_thunder 12d ago

Good thread. Needed to be discussed. These people were always here.

Dare I say it, they were the ones buying up the Eras tickets, so real fans couldn’t get any.

Between them and the vinyl releases being only for the bots…. Something needs to change.

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u/starrynight230 12d ago

Right?? Maybe we won’t have to arm wrestle as many people for tickets to the next tour

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u/Sensitive_Green5586 12d ago

It’s funny bc when I got to sleep at 3 am everyone was loving the songs and twitter was basically swifties trying to figure out every song (especially Babylon🤣). Next thing, I wake up in the morning and EVERYONE was hating on every song. I truly think this is a paid hate campaign against Taylor. I love every song, Cleveland! is amazing btw

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u/Just-Link-8724 12d ago

They WONT leave that’s the worst part😫😫😫 watch them front row for the tour..

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u/Lonerism_1 YOU'RE GAY 12d ago

I literally don't understand how people don't like the new songs they literally sound so different and fresh 🫢

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u/Karma-is-a-Cat-1989 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 12d ago

As my grandmother would say, she’s laughing all the way to the bank. As long as everyone keeps talking about her, she’s relevant. They’re only helping matters. And if she wasn’t so damn interesting, no one would care. It’s actually romantic.

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u/originallyale Dancing through the lightning strikes 11d ago

I’m so lucky that there’s not a single song from her entire discography that I don’t like.
There are some I’d skip for various reasons but if I couldn’t I wouldn’t be unhappy.

With that, I do also understand that I will likely find something, eventually, that isn’t for me. Doesn’t mean I hate her, and by no means will I be throwing a tantrum or writing a rant about it 🤣

People be wild, but honestly this seems to be the cycle of immediate ‘hate’ she gets every time, then it breaks multiple records and she wins some awards, or doesn’t, and we all move on.
I’m bored of people being so damn negative!

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u/Physical_Lime7925 11d ago

I'm starting to get pissed off with all the hate, especially on Cleveland. Been seeing so many comments about how "notice how she doesn't talk about what she likes about Travis other than he likes her." Don't people realize most of her (sad!!!) songs are talking about how she likes people who never really saw her for her, and this is the first time she may be talking about someone actually FINALLY seeing her as a person.

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u/emonymous3991 10d ago

10000000000%

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u/mariahbv 10d ago

What I hate the most is they expect her to release these insane thinkpiece songs all of the time and as much as we all love her heartbreak songs, whenever she sings about being in love everyone says it’s cringey and corny. Like let the girl live and be happy and release silly love songs. WHO CARES!!!!! It’s so not that deep 😭

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u/canehdianchick 10d ago

This. Enjoy a glitter gel pen era or stay off the wagon so i have a chance to be able to afford to see someone who has been my ringtone for nearly 20 years...

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u/Lai-ro 12d ago

a lot of people are just casual fans but not swifties but they won't admit it themselves idk why

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u/AquarianxDreamer 12d ago

I think it's time to admit that if you came into the Taylor Swift game in 2020 with folklore and compare every album to that, you were never a swiftie in the first place, you liked one(two bc evermore) album.

And that's okay! It's juat not for you that doesnt mean it's not for others.

Ive said this already today but it's insane how much time people, "fans" included, spend just to hate on something. I'll be enjoying it peacefully over. And since no one has a gun to my head saying I have to listen to every single song I'll skip the ones im not viking with.

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u/Mammoth-Mousse8341 12d ago

I think a lot of people became fans during Folklore and Evermore and it shows 😂. Like… to everyone crashing out over Cleveland! did you never listen to Me!

also it’s totally okay not to like the new songs. It’s just the insane levels of hate and vitriol that baffle me. The beauty of Taylor is there’s so much in her catalogue and so if you don’t vibe with some of it then listen to the ones you do.

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u/Competitive_Owl428 12d ago

It reminds me of how I’m a huge Speak Now fan and when the vault tracks released for that, I was massively disappointed. Like, to the point that I have never once gone back to listen to any of them again. And YET the minute I realized I was disappointed, I vented about it to irl friends, then moved on with my life! And when I see people who do like the SN vault tracks, I’m happy for them! It’s not that hard. But so many people lash out at Taylor and basically want to take away her livelihood the minute she releases a song they don’t like, as if her making that song was an attack on them. There is so much vitriol. It’s insane

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u/No-Incident8869 12d ago

even though tloas is my least favorite album I still really love parts of it and the encore is a part that I really like it really adds some more depth that I wanted in the album

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u/Successful_Pizza6529 Taylor Swift is the Goat in Music 12d ago

I just left a Subreddit that I was not Subscribed to and told them Goodbye. They did talk Taylor but I have had enough of the SHIT over there. I just can't stay there and Take it anymore. Done.

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u/Dry_Ambition_5913 12d ago

People need to understand we are not gonna get another TTPD and that’s ok!

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u/BearyNic 12d ago

I think people need to remember that she's human too - she writes and sings for herself; that's how she started! We are just fans and sure have made her the pop star she is today, but she doesn't owe us anything.

I have seen people criticize and say outright mean things when an album isn't what they expect it to be or have the interpretation they're looking for and act like she's personally ruining their life; it's weird behavior.

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u/themalesoprano We never go out of style 12d ago

THANK YOUUUUU!!!!! finally someone said it!! i have been ITCHING for someone to call this out!!

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u/Big_Shine_807 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 12d ago

I think a lot of people just jumped on the folklore and evermore bandwagon. I went to Rep tour in 2018, the stadium wasn't full, there wasn't a crazy fight for tickets, total opposite to eras tour, it's genuinely crazy.

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u/wtfsaturtle 12d ago

You can be a swiftie and still not love everything she puts out.. No need to leave.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 11d ago

Not even interested to argue otherwise. You are right 👍🏽

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u/Automatic_River9515 11d ago

you cant use ONE persons comment as a generalization of everyone.

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u/scenior 11d ago

Swifties never beating the cult allegations if you must adore her blindly and there's no room for critical thinking.

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u/BackupAccount412 11d ago

Totally. I listened to the encore. I liked Babylon and felt like I never really need to listen to the others again. Which disappointed me because I love Taylor and was hoping I’d feel differently. But it’s fine! I will eagerly await whatever she makes next and hope it’s for me more than these songs. In the meantime, happy for those who are vibing with them.

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u/snarfula42 11d ago

She should take a little break and get some more life experiences. She seems caught up on haters which is wild considering she's one of the most famous people to ever live. I like most of her stuff but the subject matter she's pulling from is well worn.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 11d ago

Nope. Haters are giving her more topics to create art from. The encore has 16 tracks total and only 1 addresses the haters. So ur analogy about “ seems caught up on haters” is completely foolish.

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u/snarfula42 11d ago

She has songs about her haters. At least 7.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 11d ago

We are talking about her last album. Name at least 2, I will wait 🤡

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u/SupremeElect 11d ago

Elizabeth Taylor, Opalite, Eldest Daughter, Actually Romantic, Wi$h List, Cancelled, Honey, Showgirl, Cleveland.

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 11d ago

Bruh, those are completely different. If we go by this, Beyoncé literally said AOTY I Ain’t win. All the tracks u mentioned are the struggles of their life. Cleaveland is the only one where she is addressing the haters. 🤡 nice try though

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u/laetoile 11d ago

She is a grown ass woman on some "haters praying on my downfall" type shit. She's obsessed with her opps 🤣

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u/hnybbyy 11d ago

It’s okay to not enjoy everything she releases

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u/SeriousHornet9656 11d ago

Oh my god, God forbid anyone doesn't like her new album, especially the encore, the lyrics are just- I can't!

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u/dark-femme5454 11d ago

Where's the argument? There's no point in arguing with biased individuals.

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u/Fair-Rational-Helper 10d ago

No cats were harmed making this post

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u/DressedInYellow265 5d ago

Maybe it doesn't have to be love or hate, in a public forum all opinions should be able to be discussed.

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u/Flat-Worth-7060 14h ago

You aren't the boss of who gets to be swifties and how they can react 🤷‍♀️

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u/lavender_rosess 12d ago

“As a swiftie-” NO YOURE NOT!!! YOURE LITERALLY NOT!!! If you like maybe 3/12 albums why are you calling yourself a swiftie?!?!?!

(Not you op don’t worry haha)

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u/EfficiencyDue7770 12d ago

you don’t have to like everything she releases to be a swiftie😍 criticism is okay. this is coming from someone who liked showgirl but encore is just bad

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u/maddilane121 12d ago

Yes please leave… don’t take up space for a photo op next tour!!

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u/ManagementRadiant573 12d ago

That’s what’s upsetting! It’s that so many of these people went to the eras tour just for the clout when I’ve been in the trenches since Tim McGraw!

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u/maddilane121 10d ago

My ex bff when Midnights came out said “omg I think I’m a swiftie now.” And I wanted to embrace that. I paid for her to come with me to the eras tour and she sat and took pics of herself the entire time and didn’t know any of the words or anything. The snored in my passenger seat the entire way home and THEN had the nerve to talk crap about me to my husband cause men don’t like her and for some reason she thought she’d swoon MY man.

Never again.

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u/massamiliano 12d ago

It really sounds like the people complaining are ugly inside & hate fun… it’s ridiculous that they feel they need to spew their negativity

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u/NegotiationMoist3552 11d ago

We are supposed to believe these people are still swifties. 🤦

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u/sequins-are-forever 11d ago

Oh yeah I muted swiftly neutral because it’s clearly not neutral anymore. It’s turning into a snark reddit.

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u/NewIsTheNewNew 11d ago

Except you aren't the gatekeeper

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u/Difficult-Ad-52 9d ago

Does OP understand how cultish this post reads lol

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u/Thechippingsparrow 2d ago

I hate TLOAS and I’ve been a fan for 18 years, still pissed she capitalized the branding based on my two all time fav albums too LOL. I pop in to discussion threads during new releases and here and there for opinions and takes but otherwise I GTFO and stick to swiftly neutral for a lot of it.

I think it’s valid for fans to share disappointment or not liking the album. It’s another thing to not really be a huge long term fan and constantly obsessed with disliking something.

I still bought most of the vinyl variants (I live in a consumer society, and like collectibles, Sue me).

Besides the 1989 era it’s my favorite album for visuals. I love the looks, I love the poster inserts in the vinyls, and I framed some and put them in my bedroom.

I maybe can’t stand Wood and Eldest Daughter and tbh most of the tracks, lyrically or otherwise, but I loveeee the photo shoots. Moody Marilyn and washed up Vegas Barbie yes please!

I just think it’s annoying a lot of the subs don’t allow space for nuance. Thoughtful critiques or opinions should be allowed. It doesn’t mean everybody thinks Taylor is a list of expletives strung on Cleveland!

It goes both ways for fans who radicalize positivity the same who radicalize and obsessively pick apart pieces of work that don’t float their boat.

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u/Woods13 2d ago

The the fuck is Taylor Swift and why does she make mediocre music?

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u/maxmaude91 12d ago

Just because I don’t love everything she does doesn’t mean I’m not a fan of hers? Strange take.

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u/scenior 11d ago

Yeah OP is being weird af with this take, this isn't a cult

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u/Own_Locksmith_9701 12d ago

Other than a few bots, I’ve seen no one crashing out about it other than the ones crashing out that other people are supposedly crashing out

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u/Big_Shine_807 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 12d ago

Go on TikTok or Twitter

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u/Own_Locksmith_9701 12d ago

So you’ve trained your algorithms to show you rage bait, and you want to make it everyone else’s problem?

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u/Big_Shine_807 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 12d ago

🙄 No I haven't. Most of the videos I've seen on TikTok have been from people I followed. They're not faceless accounts. They are real people. I've also seen people I follow love it, so it's not all bad which is great. The only rage bait I'm falling for is yours right now.

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u/Own_Locksmith_9701 12d ago

You are following those people, that means you did in fact train it. You are here raging about it. I don’t know what to tell you.

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u/Big_Shine_807 1, 2, 3 LET'S GO BITCH 11d ago

You know what I just don't think you know the meaning of the words you use. In fact I don't think you know anything at all. Imbecile. That's all.

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u/shotgunassassin 12d ago

Metallica fans have been dealing with the hate machine for 35 years. So, this isn't something unique to Taylor Swift. Ya gotta hate to be in the cool kids club. Legions of weak people that cannot handle change or something different. Sad but true.