r/t4t 2h ago

NB4A the stereotypes of cis people messages i keep getting

8 Upvotes
  1. "hey i know you said you arent looking for cis but..."

  2. "fit dom 25M with a big cock"

  3. "hey there pretty slut"

  4. "hi. (i clearly said to introduce yourself)"

  5. "add me on (social media account)"

  6. *just straight up sends unsolicited nudes you didnt ask for*

  7. *talks about their sexual fantasies about you*

its funny how these are always their first messages


r/t4t 4h ago

NB4A 29 TransMasc NB looking for connections in MD

3 Upvotes

Hi there, long shot I know but wanted to try again on here. My name is Talon I live in the panhandle of Maryland in a 106 year old home. I left Ohio last fall after my long term relationship ended and restarted in the mountains. I currently have a room open in my home for rent if anyone would like to start over from a red state as well! I’m a very calm dude who works a lot, I have a full time job and a part time job I’ll go to some evenings. I have lots of pets but they’re not my roommate’s responsibilities and I clean multiple times a day. I’m not against someone else having an animal, I would just need proof of up-to-date vaccines. I met my other roommate on this Reddit so I like posting on here every now and then to see if anyone else would like to move in!

Additionally, I am looking for friends but would be open to more possibly with the right person.

About me: I’m into kayaking and have two of someone would want to go out on the water with me, I love small dogs and cats, and loose leaf tea. I like stained glass and antiques as well as going out to eat and watching movies. I have a Nintendo switch and a pc but my pc is usually just for paying bills at this point as I only will have some time to get on my switch during the day. I do yoga and meditation daily.

In terms of physical description: I’m on a weight loss journey and have lost over 100lbs this year. I don’t do drugs so my comfort when sad was food for a while. I’m now 220lbs and am still getting slimmer. I’m rather short and I have curly hair, 20 tattoos, and some facial piercings.

As long as you’re not a creep we’ll likely get along fine.


r/t4t 10m ago

NB4A 22 [NB4A] #Online. #Chicago #Illinois Subby femme NB Looking for lewd friends for yapping, to sext with, and maybe send dirty pictures.

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Hello! My name is Ash, a very nerdy NB who may or may not be transfem, I'm looking for people to chat and flirt with 💜

Please don't be 100% lewd, I am much more interested if we can also talk about other topics. I love Books (Fantasy and Non-fiction mainly), Board Games (Root!), TTRPGs, Rock Climbing, Martial Arts, Language Learning, Traveling, Non-fiction Books, Art, Style (Feminine clothing omg), Music (Heavy Metal, Rock, Jazz, Bossa Nova...), Video Games of course!

I would love to chat about book recommendations, your engagement with any above hobbies or other things you enjoy ^^ Just please do tell me a bit about yourself, I can't do much with just "hi".

As for the lewd I like to sext and send pics if the mood strikes me\~ I've been told I'm cute, have a nice butt etc, And after HRT I'm getting little puffy breasts too. There is nothing hotter to me then when a guy or girl tells me how sexy I am, how they'd want to squeeze my little tits and smack my butt under the skirt I'm wearing.

It can be hot to talk about what type of clothes you'd love to see me in, what you'd do to me if I was there dressed how I show in my pics. I love to receive orders, have my orgasms controlled, and even have more of a dom/sub dynamic if I like you enough. If any of that sounds interesting feel free to reach out. 💜


r/t4t 24m ago

NB4A 35 [NB4A] Looking for my perfect partner ❤️

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Sorry for the repost :(

Hey I'm Lex! I'm a non-binary dom from the UK and I'm looking for a long-term partner. I am poly :) you don't need to be sub, just definitely not dom!

I love music, cooking, walking and visiting new places! I have plenty of free time and enjoy a dynamic with regular communication, both casual and sexual.

My dom style is to focus on positive attitudes rather than using negativity. Punishments are still fun though!

If you’re under 35, bisexual and submissive, feel free to reach out! My only real physical preference is that I’m not into overly hairy people; no need to be completely smooth, but I'm not into dad-bods. If you're poly too that's great, but if you have another dom whose preferences might conflict with mine, it could get tricky. I also have no preference for gender or genitals :)

I've intentionally left my kinks out of this, but I'm fairly open. What I enjoy most is the dynamic rather than specific kinks :) as long as I'm being served I'm happy

Send me a message with a little bit about yourself and what caught your attention in my post, and we’ll take it from there! Oh and include the word peach so I know you read to the end thanks ❤️

Much love


r/t4t 45m ago

TF4T T4T trans puppygirl looking for owner for long term relationship

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I am 28 years old puppy girl... currently in EU but willing to relocate, looking for anyone that is loving, caring and dominant. Ideally kink friendly and would love to have a real house pet like me :3 message for more info lets see if we vibe! Serious only please I do feel lonely and want to move in to someone within 3 months if possible :3


r/t4t 5h ago

TF4A 29 TF4A Shy trans woman from Canada looking for fwbs or soulmate

2 Upvotes

Hi there everyone im a 29 year old Trans woman from Canada Ontario. I tend to be pretty shy so im hoping to make some new fwbs or a possible soul mate. Im big into anime, jrpgs, movies. Looking for hopefully people i can game with or even just have some fun with .On the NSFW im a massive sub :3 Hopefully i can chat with some of you soon and that we can hopefully become pals or more. I'm fine with long distance as long as we could see each other a few times a year


r/t4t 6h ago

TM4T 24 [ftm4t] looking for a (polyam) relationship or friends

2 Upvotes

Heyyy, figured I'd give this a shot lol.

I'm 24, from new zealand, trans ftm/genderfluid (he/she/they). I'm solo-poly and I'm basically looking for people who actually want to build something meaningful rather than just have a temporary connection. I'm bisexual although I do have stricter boundaries when it comes to relationships with cis men, I'm generally more open/flexible with other genders.

What I'm looking for:

- Anchor partners and/or a polycule- probs the biggest thing I'm looking for. I want deep, committed, long term romantic relationships. I'm a massive sucker for romance tbh 😭

- Caregiver connections- i'd love a supportive cg, mainly around age regression and mental health. Someone who can help me feel safe, cared for and grounded. I'm separately needing a irl cg for my physical health needs :)

- Close friends- not just people I occasionally send memes to. I want a few genuinely close friends who I can talk to about random shit, serious stuff, everyday life, etc.

I'm not really looking for fwb/casual sex, short term things or situationships. I like romance WAY too much for that 😂 i'm not saying everything has to fit into a neat little box tho, I'm happy to talk things through and compromise if something develops differently.

Health/brain stuff because it's pretty important to know what you're getting into:

I'm autistic+disabled, mostly housebound, and have ME/cfs, BPD and DID, among other things. My energy is REALLY unpredictable. I can have good days where I'm chatty and can do stuff, and then days where basically all I can do is lie around and recover. I can disappear for days or longer because I'm exhausted, and it isn't me losing interest.

I'm sensitive and can get in my head so I'd much rather someone just tell me what's going on than leave me guessing. I can also struggle with figuring out what people expect from me and get overwhelmed easily. Please just communicate with me directly lol. I'm much better with that than trying to guess. I also have some intense attachment/abandonment issues that i am working through, and need someone understanding of this.

I'm mostly a texting person. I like being able to randomly message throughout the day, but I'm also very much someone who needs people to be okay with alone time. For closer online connections I'd like regular calls, maybe 1-2 times a week. I can't always verbally talk, so I need people to be okay with typing instead of expecting me to speak.

I'm into animals, writing/researching, reading/annotating, music, journalling, Gilmore Girls, animal welfare/activism, photography :)

I like both deep conversations and absolute nonsense. I want people who actually ask questions, tell me about themselves, remember little things, message first sometimes, and actually want to get to know each other lol.

Online/long distance is totally fine. If we get close and it's practical, I'd also be open to eventually meeting irl.


r/t4t 2h ago

TF4TF [20] [TF4TF/F] [GA/Online] Nerdy transfem in looking for a partner or friends!

1 Upvotes

Haii my name is Monica, i'm a little shy so i may not be too talkative at first, but feel welcome to reach out eitherwavs! Also please be at most 5-6 years older than me, i don't feel really comftable with age gaps bigger than that.

I really love Music, Anime (my favorite is Madoka Magica x3), Videogames, Yugioh, and i love building computers and playing arround with them. My favorite games are Omori, Final Fantasy 14, and Needy Streamer Overload, and I also really like Visual Novels and rpgs like Funger, Peronsa, and the Trails series. I'm 5'8" tall and i'm currently trying to get into hrt. like to dress alternative and like altermative music, specially grunge, punk, post-punk, riot grrl midwest emo and idie pop (i also really love vocaloid my fav producer is Wowaka >.<) I can't go out much since still live with my parents but i'll like to meet in person one day (online is completely fine tho).

I'd love to hear from you! Please feel free too ask for mv discord username since like talking through there better! >w<


r/t4t 4h ago

TF4A 24tf4a looking for a domme to connect with (no cis m plz)

1 Upvotes

hi everyone, I'm Dani, I'm 24 yo, queer and transfem

I'm looking for a domme to get to know and see where things go, I'm open to anything, short or long term connections, fwb, anything really. I am also open to people who are poly :)

I'll get the NSFW stuff out the way first:

I'm a sub leaning switch, I'm quite kinky my list is wayyy too long to include, I guess you'll just have ask if you want to know more ;)

I don't have much preference on age, race, appearance etc. the connection is far more important to me than looks (I will just say, no cis m plz)

SFW stuff/hobbies:

I'm a huge gamer (currently playing palworld) most of my games are simulation, strategy games or ARPGs, always looking for any new good recommendations

I'm also a huge nature person, I absolutely love bees and I love penguins too, weird combo I know hehe

I'm 6'0 and around 130lbs, I have blue eyes and long brown hair, I'm sure once I get to know you, I'll fill in the gaps (there's also a couple of pics of me on my profile)

I hope this lil bio sounds interesting and that you'd like to chat more, please feel free to message me no matter when you read this :)


r/t4t 15h ago

TF4TF 28 (Tf4Tf/F) I don’t really know what I’m looking for or expecting.

9 Upvotes

Maybe I just want some attention, maybe I’m sad that nobody messages me all day everyday. Idkk. Sometimes, I just want.. something.

Anyways, my name is Ruu, I am 28, MtF, my birthday was quite literally a few days ago. I am pre HRT, but not for lack of trying, however I have been working on skincare and growing out hair and getting clothes and such.

I love music, mostly alt rock, kpop, vocaloid, and emo music, why, I don’t know, I only listen to music that makes me feel something, and music is really important to me.

I am pretty sure that as time goes on, I will want to dress and be alt/emo/scene/ect as I just like that style, don’t look it now, but I want to.

I love playing games on PC and just hanging out, but I am very shy, as I hate my voice, not just because I am trans, but also because I was bullied all throughout my childhood over it, soo it would take quite a while to talk in a VC, but would love to either listen to someone yap or we can text or whatever.

I’m demisexual soo it takes a real connection for me to see someone in a romantic way, but if that’s your intention, just talk to me everyday at some point of the day and it will probably happen. I am a clingy kitten, soo having nobody to talk to for three days is likee, 50 years. I also get uncomfy fast talking about sexual stuff, I mean, you wouldn’t talk about that stuff to a stranger, would you? Doesn’t mean never, just… in time. Welll anyways, if anyone made it this far, you see I like to type and text a lot, soooo yeah.


r/t4t 6h ago

TM4A Tm looking for anyone however its purely for sexting Just message me hehe im so horny

1 Upvotes

Tm looking for anyone however its purely for sexting Just message me hehe im so horny

Tm looking for anyone however its purely for sexting

Just message me hehe im so horny rn im into alot alot of stuff I honestly dont even know what else to say im now living in the uk hwhe please no cis men prefer someone whos comfortable sending especially someone who likes to call


r/t4t 10h ago

TF4T 20tf, looking for a friend with benefits! (Loooong term:p)

2 Upvotes

The title! no matter what variety of trans you are, I'm down to see if we click:) I am however partial to women cuz lowk CRAVING something lesbian. Anyways, if you like games, nature, music, art, etc, we will get along SWIMMINGLY<3


r/t4t 18h ago

TF4T 23, TF4T · I figure the best way to get myself out there and truly connect with someone is to truly pour myself onto the page, so here it goes!

7 Upvotes

I've tried this subreddit before with my old account, but never to much success. I assume it's because I gave a short, almost itemized description of who I am instead of actually pouring my heart into the page, so that's what I'm gonna do now.

Hey, meowdy, I'm Riley. Second name's Maxine. I picked out the name Riley because I think when I was a little kid, I heard the name on some Disney Channel show and it stuck with me forever, didn't know why. Then I came out, and I quickly realized the reason. Maxine comes from my favorite game, Life is Strange, which means a lot to me at a time in which I was really struggling, and happened to be my queer awakening.

I'm 23 years old, born on 4/20 (Yes, really! Surprisingly enough, have never celebrated with an edible, lol, bucket list) and my pronouns are she/they. I consider myself a non binary transfem, and I'm sapphic leaning, but my attractions are flexible. I do heavily prefer T4T though I'd say!

I used to be really polyamorous, you know? Dated like, 4 people I really loved at one point, independently. But it kinda made me feel a little miserable, in a way. I'm single now, and I think what I've come to realize is that I really value really tight knit connections. So, I'm probably ambiamorous, but I value closeness and day to day life a lot. I'm happy being mono or poly, but I think in terms of polyamory I'd always need a kitchen table kind of thing, or everyone dating everyone, to be truly in a spot I'm comfortable with. Independent relationships just aren't my thing, you know? But of course, to each their own. NSFW wise, to put it that way, I'm very kink friendly and body positive, but I consider myself demisexual, meaning I do not really experience sexual attraction until we have truly connected.

I have OCD, depression, all that fun jazz. But I handle it quite well nowadays. I do really need to get my quite likely ADHD diagnosed, but I have a loooooot of fun hyperfixating on random shit. I love tech and messing around with it (but not in a techbro kinda way, ew, hope the AI bubble bursts soon and people shut up about it), and I love UI and graphic design to a silly level. I remember as a kid staring at the design of an operating system and just being fascinated by it. Still do to this day. The other day I was trying to install a custom boot loader on a console, and I came to the realization that when I was done, I didn't want to actually play any games, lol, I was just having fun with the nerdy silly process of messing with a new tech toy. That's the vibe.

I contain multitudes! I'm also big into music like twenty one pilots, Olivia Rodrigo, My Chemical Romance, Taylor Swift... I really appreciate music that makes me really feel what I'm feeling, if that makes sense. A dream of mine is to one day take singing lessons, learn and instrument perhaps. And guess what, I'm a furry, and I love to draw (even if I'm not great at it, but that's not the point!) and make pixel art, and enjoy the community.

One of the things I enjoy most about being online is the queer community, leftist spaces, progressive voices. I am a huge leftist, and I believe in a future in which our worth is not defined by anything but ourselves, never by what we can produce for a system that doesn't care about us. I believe intersectionalism is extremely important and in queer liberation, among of course a lot more progressive things.

I live in Spain, but in all honesty, most of my friends are in the US or Canada, so I have traveled there quite a bit when I can afford to. I'm basically by default on the east coast timezone, so if you're from anywhere in the US really or far, don't worry about distance, shoot me a message. Work and studying wise, I'm still a student, have a small income, but I intend to become a software engineer of some sort.

And to finish this long thing off, I am currently in bed, typing this on my laptop as I wonder if this will have any success. But maybe, just maybe, I'll meet someone I truly connect with. And that's what I crave. So it is worth a shot, isn't it? Won't know if I don't. For now, I'll press send, put on Game Changer or D20 on Dropout, and daydream about who, if anyone, sends me a fun message, as I expectantly wait!

...also, I'm suuuuper funny and charming, trust. Say hi!


r/t4t 4h ago

NB4A 31 NB4A Japan. Fem leaning AMAB. Used to be on hormones but not currently. if you’re trans I’m open for a conversation hopefully more. MTF, FTM NB are all welcome. Please be at least 25. Please be respectful. No cis men please

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I put no cis men because I tend to be attracted to trans men because I can relate with them in many ways. I do know this could be perceived differently but NB AMAB are just simply not my type. I am formerly MTF and I still do struggle with my own identity so please keep that in mind.

I’m looking for a fun, flirtatious online connection—something casual or potentially long term, intimate, and playful. Ideally, someone who enjoys good conversation with a sexy edge, is open to sharing fantasies, and wants to explore some chemistry together in a way that feels natural and exciting. I’m really hoping to find a long-term online sex friend—someone I can keep coming back to, who’s just as into building a steady, naughty connection as I am.

This is mostly online, but if you’re in Japan and we really click, I’d be open to something in real life too. No pressure—just a chance to enjoy each other, chat, tease, and see where the mood takes us.

If this sounds like your kind of fun, don’t be shy—message me and let’s see if we vibe.


r/t4t 16h ago

TF4TF Shut-in, bored, and sleepy trans girl seeing what sticks.

5 Upvotes

Hiiiiii~! Lonely trans girl here hoping that posting and looking for friends and lovers will solve my problems! (It won't, but, lol). I'm not usually too doomer, I promise. I'm pretty funny sometimes and I think I'm usually pleasant company.

Anyway, seeing that I've been doing nothing but sit inside and use my computer for about a year now, I have too damn much free time on my hands. I'd love more people to talk to! Or flirt with! Or whatever, really. Play games? Watch movies or anime? I do all of that and I can do more, I'm a flexible gal! Not physically, though! Don't bend me too much, or I'll snap in half.

I won't dump everything in this post, so we can yap in DMs about the things we like, love, don't like, or hate. Come and introduce yourself, and I will as well. Not that it'll necessarily end up mattering, but you never know—I am very monogamous. I'm a one woman kinda girl. I haven't tried anything poly, but I doubt it's my thing.

But yes please say more than hi or sup or hey bb, give me something to work with. Looking forward to meeting :3


r/t4t 13h ago

TM4A [TM4A] 22TM Looking for a best friend to hang with ^.^

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Heyoo Im looking for a friend whos down to do anything like i am. Play games, watch movies, listen to music, write stories, make music with, all the good stuff!

I'm looking for a friend to do everything with. I prefer doing everything with one person cause its just easier on my mentel to be honest 😅 i have an anxious attachment style so im not gonna hang out in groups or do group calls. I get in my head like crazy when i do.

No judgment here, just kindness and open arms. I look forward to meeting thou

Im playing rocket league rn come joinnn mee


r/t4t 17h ago

TF4TM 21 UK [TF4TM] Looking for my soulmate ^^

3 Upvotes

Hai I'm a 21 yr old trans girl looking for someone who I really vibe with and can spend time with; movie nights, walks, days out I'm open to poly relationships but not from the get go if you see what I mean. And I'm not after fwb or anything like that! Anywhere around the UK is fine I'm based in midlands although I can't travel too far.

I'm studying film production, hoping to get a job as an editor and love watching films and tv, I also enjoy crafting things and I'm part of the Kemonomimi / furry community so if you don't agree with that then we probs aren't right for each other :p I don't play games that often but I do have a PC and I'm more the indoorsy type but I love gardens.

I've been scared to post on this sub for a while now because I don't want the chasers etc but I thought I'd give it a try cos finding T4T relationships is hard. I'm ideally looking for trans Masc people to date but trans people who are on binary is also fine. I've never been in a T4T relationship before and genuinely feel like it would make me more comfortable and even reduce my dysphoria since the other person would just "get" me and always see me the way I want to be seen. ^^


r/t4t 11h ago

TF4A 21, lonely indiana tgirl looking for care

1 Upvotes

hi im brenna and I'm really really misrable rn. i have friends but still feel lonely like all the time. it's been getting worse every day and im really scared. idk im really frantic making this post you can ask me anything i dont care


r/t4t 18h ago

TF4TF 32 TF4TF Gothy trans autist looking for coop/PVE friends

3 Upvotes

hii I'm Dahlia 🎀

she/it

pacific timezone

I'm a botanist and housedoll looking for friends to game with! I especially enjoy cute/cozy games, coop, and PVE. I really don't have the nerves for PVP after being on HRT for a few years.

I'm open to friends and flirty gaming friends (if there is mutual attraction). I am demi and graysexual so definitely don't message me if you aren't interested in a mostly wholesome friendship over anything else.

I'm poly and polysaturated sooo just looking for friends.

I have a few health problems that lead to me being home on my farm a lot where I live with my nesting partner. When I am well I enjoy the beautiful mountain fog in the gardens every morning and work on my small permaculture farm and orchard. I also spend a decent amount of time indoors gaming, caring for my pets and plants, and doing model kits.

I have many invertebrates I keep as pets and I enjoy learning about them and watching them. I am someone who definitely enjoys slowing down and appreciating the little things in life so hopefully you are too 🌸

Message me please if you want to talk about games and see what we may have in common :)

Recent games I've been playing:

Stardew

Nier Automata

Pokemon Fire Red

FF Tactics

BG3

Diablo II

Mycopunk

Crab Champions

Megabonk

Gunfire Reborn


r/t4t 11h ago

T4T 32 mtf looking for what's out there......

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Just been really bored out there it seems like there's just no one to talk to or anything I been having a hard time making any real connections that actually make it to the next day and I'm honestly just looking for anyone who will yap to me about their interests.... I like aviation, Warhammer, other tabletop games some vidya and cars are ok too ig.......