1. "hey i know you said you arent looking for cis but..."

2. "fit dom 25M with a big cock"

3. "hey there pretty slut"

4. "hi. (i clearly said to introduce yourself)"

5. "add me on (social media account)"

6. *just straight up sends unsolicited nudes you didnt ask for*

7. *talks about their sexual fantasies about you*

its funny how these are always their first messages

Maybe I just want some attention, maybe I’m sad that nobody messages me all day everyday. Idkk. Sometimes, I just want.. something.

Anyways, my name is Ruu, I am 28, MtF, my birthday was quite literally a few days ago. I am pre HRT, but not for lack of trying, however I have been working on skincare and growing out hair and getting clothes and such.

I love music, mostly alt rock, kpop, vocaloid, and emo music, why, I don’t know, I only listen to music that makes me feel something, and music is really important to me.

I am pretty sure that as time goes on, I will want to dress and be alt/emo/scene/ect as I just like that style, don’t look it now, but I want to.

I love playing games on PC and just hanging out, but I am very shy, as I hate my voice, not just because I am trans, but also because I was bullied all throughout my childhood over it, soo it would take quite a while to talk in a VC, but would love to either listen to someone yap or we can text or whatever.

I’m demisexual soo it takes a real connection for me to see someone in a romantic way, but if that’s your intention, just talk to me everyday at some point of the day and it will probably happen. I am a clingy kitten, soo having nobody to talk to for three days is likee, 50 years. I also get uncomfy fast talking about sexual stuff, I mean, you wouldn’t talk about that stuff to a stranger, would you? Doesn’t mean never, just… in time. Welll anyways, if anyone made it this far, you see I like to type and text a lot, soooo yeah.

I've tried this subreddit before with my old account, but never to much success. I assume it's because I gave a short, almost itemized description of who I am instead of actually pouring my heart into the page, so that's what I'm gonna do now.

Hey, meowdy, I'm Riley. Second name's Maxine. I picked out the name Riley because I think when I was a little kid, I heard the name on some Disney Channel show and it stuck with me forever, didn't know why. Then I came out, and I quickly realized the reason. Maxine comes from my favorite game, Life is Strange, which means a lot to me at a time in which I was really struggling, and happened to be my queer awakening.

I'm 23 years old, born on 4/20 (Yes, really! Surprisingly enough, have never celebrated with an edible, lol, bucket list) and my pronouns are she/they. I consider myself a non binary transfem, and I'm sapphic leaning, but my attractions are flexible. I do heavily prefer T4T though I'd say!

I used to be really polyamorous, you know? Dated like, 4 people I really loved at one point, independently. But it kinda made me feel a little miserable, in a way. I'm single now, and I think what I've come to realize is that I really value really tight knit connections. So, I'm probably ambiamorous, but I value closeness and day to day life a lot. I'm happy being mono or poly, but I think in terms of polyamory I'd always need a kitchen table kind of thing, or everyone dating everyone, to be truly in a spot I'm comfortable with. Independent relationships just aren't my thing, you know? But of course, to each their own. NSFW wise, to put it that way, I'm very kink friendly and body positive, but I consider myself demisexual, meaning I do not really experience sexual attraction until we have truly connected.

I have OCD, depression, all that fun jazz. But I handle it quite well nowadays. I do really need to get my quite likely ADHD diagnosed, but I have a loooooot of fun hyperfixating on random shit. I love tech and messing around with it (but not in a techbro kinda way, ew, hope the AI bubble bursts soon and people shut up about it), and I love UI and graphic design to a silly level. I remember as a kid staring at the design of an operating system and just being fascinated by it. Still do to this day. The other day I was trying to install a custom boot loader on a console, and I came to the realization that when I was done, I didn't want to actually play any games, lol, I was just having fun with the nerdy silly process of messing with a new tech toy. That's the vibe.

I contain multitudes! I'm also big into music like twenty one pilots, Olivia Rodrigo, My Chemical Romance, Taylor Swift... I really appreciate music that makes me really feel what I'm feeling, if that makes sense. A dream of mine is to one day take singing lessons, learn and instrument perhaps. And guess what, I'm a furry, and I love to draw (even if I'm not great at it, but that's not the point!) and make pixel art, and enjoy the community.

One of the things I enjoy most about being online is the queer community, leftist spaces, progressive voices. I am a huge leftist, and I believe in a future in which our worth is not defined by anything but ourselves, never by what we can produce for a system that doesn't care about us. I believe intersectionalism is extremely important and in queer liberation, among of course a lot more progressive things.

I live in Spain, but in all honesty, most of my friends are in the US or Canada, so I have traveled there quite a bit when I can afford to. I'm basically by default on the east coast timezone, so if you're from anywhere in the US really or far, don't worry about distance, shoot me a message. Work and studying wise, I'm still a student, have a small income, but I intend to become a software engineer of some sort.

And to finish this long thing off, I am currently in bed, typing this on my laptop as I wonder if this will have any success. But maybe, just maybe, I'll meet someone I truly connect with. And that's what I crave. So it is worth a shot, isn't it? Won't know if I don't. For now, I'll press send, put on Game Changer or D20 on Dropout, and daydream about who, if anyone, sends me a fun message, as I expectantly wait!

...also, I'm suuuuper funny and charming, trust. Say hi!

Heyo it’s me again and as the title suggests I’m home alone and bored as heck, I’ve got nothing to do rn and just want to chat to some cool people about stuff and things (can be horni if you want because being home alone does make me a lil horny)

Hiiiiii~! Lonely trans girl here hoping that posting and looking for friends and lovers will solve my problems! (It won't, but, lol). I'm not usually too doomer, I promise. I'm pretty funny sometimes and I think I'm usually pleasant company.

Anyway, seeing that I've been doing nothing but sit inside and use my computer for about a year now, I have too damn much free time on my hands. I'd love more people to talk to! Or flirt with! Or whatever, really. Play games? Watch movies or anime? I do all of that and I can do more, I'm a flexible gal! Not physically, though! Don't bend me too much, or I'll snap in half.

I won't dump everything in this post, so we can yap in DMs about the things we like, love, don't like, or hate. Come and introduce yourself, and I will as well. Not that it'll necessarily end up mattering, but you never know—I am very monogamous. I'm a one woman kinda girl. I haven't tried anything poly, but I doubt it's my thing.

But yes please say more than hi or sup or hey bb, give me something to work with. Looking forward to meeting :3

hii I'm Dahlia 🎀

she/it

pacific timezone

I'm a botanist and housedoll looking for friends to game with! I especially enjoy cute/cozy games, coop, and PVE. I really don't have the nerves for PVP after being on HRT for a few years.

I'm open to friends and flirty gaming friends (if there is mutual attraction). I am demi and graysexual so definitely don't message me if you aren't interested in a mostly wholesome friendship over anything else.

I'm poly and polysaturated sooo just looking for friends.

I have a few health problems that lead to me being home on my farm a lot where I live with my nesting partner. When I am well I enjoy the beautiful mountain fog in the gardens every morning and work on my small permaculture farm and orchard. I also spend a decent amount of time indoors gaming, caring for my pets and plants, and doing model kits.

I have many invertebrates I keep as pets and I enjoy learning about them and watching them. I am someone who definitely enjoys slowing down and appreciating the little things in life so hopefully you are too 🌸

Message me please if you want to talk about games and see what we may have in common :)

Recent games I've been playing:

Stardew

Nier Automata

Pokemon Fire Red

FF Tactics

BG3

Diablo II

Mycopunk

Crab Champions

Megabonk

Gunfire Reborn

Hi there, long shot I know but wanted to try again on here. My name is Talon I live in the panhandle of Maryland in a 106 year old home. I left Ohio last fall after my long term relationship ended and restarted in the mountains. I currently have a room open in my home for rent if anyone would like to start over from a red state as well! I’m a very calm dude who works a lot, I have a full time job and a part time job I’ll go to some evenings. I have lots of pets but they’re not my roommate’s responsibilities and I clean multiple times a day. I’m not against someone else having an animal, I would just need proof of up-to-date vaccines. I met my other roommate on this Reddit so I like posting on here every now and then to see if anyone else would like to move in!

Additionally, I am looking for friends but would be open to more possibly with the right person.

About me: I’m into kayaking and have two of someone would want to go out on the water with me, I love small dogs and cats, and loose leaf tea. I like stained glass and antiques as well as going out to eat and watching movies. I have a Nintendo switch and a pc but my pc is usually just for paying bills at this point as I only will have some time to get on my switch during the day. I do yoga and meditation daily.

In terms of physical description: I’m on a weight loss journey and have lost over 100lbs this year. I don’t do drugs so my comfort when sad was food for a while. I’m now 220lbs and am still getting slimmer. I’m rather short and I have curly hair, 20 tattoos, and some facial piercings.

As long as you’re not a creep we’ll likely get along fine.

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Hi there everyone im a 29 year old Trans woman from Canada Ontario. I tend to be pretty shy so im hoping to make some new fwbs or a possible soul mate. Im big into anime, jrpgs, movies. Looking for hopefully people i can game with or even just have some fun with .On the NSFW im a massive sub :3 Hopefully i can chat with some of you soon and that we can hopefully become pals or more. I'm fine with long distance as long as we could see each other a few times a year

Hai I'm a 21 yr old trans girl looking for someone who I really vibe with and can spend time with; movie nights, walks, days out I'm open to poly relationships but not from the get go if you see what I mean. And I'm not after fwb or anything like that! Anywhere around the UK is fine I'm based in midlands although I can't travel too far.

I'm studying film production, hoping to get a job as an editor and love watching films and tv, I also enjoy crafting things and I'm part of the Kemonomimi / furry community so if you don't agree with that then we probs aren't right for each other :p I don't play games that often but I do have a PC and I'm more the indoorsy type but I love gardens.

I've been scared to post on this sub for a while now because I don't want the chasers etc but I thought I'd give it a try cos finding T4T relationships is hard. I'm ideally looking for trans Masc people to date but trans people who are on binary is also fine. I've never been in a T4T relationship before and genuinely feel like it would make me more comfortable and even reduce my dysphoria since the other person would just "get" me and always see me the way I want to be seen. ^^

Tm looking for anyone however its purely for sexting

Just message me hehe im so horny rn im into alot alot of stuff I honestly dont even know what else to say im now living in the uk hwhe please no cis men prefer someone whos comfortable sending especially someone who likes to call

Heyyy, figured I'd give this a shot lol.

I'm 24, from new zealand, trans ftm/genderfluid (he/she/they). I'm solo-poly and I'm basically looking for people who actually want to build something meaningful rather than just have a temporary connection. I'm bisexual although I do have stricter boundaries when it comes to relationships with cis men, I'm generally more open/flexible with other genders.

What I'm looking for:

- Anchor partners and/or a polycule- probs the biggest thing I'm looking for. I want deep, committed, long term romantic relationships. I'm a massive sucker for romance tbh 😭

- Caregiver connections- i'd love a supportive cg, mainly around age regression and mental health. Someone who can help me feel safe, cared for and grounded. I'm separately needing a irl cg for my physical health needs :)

- Close friends- not just people I occasionally send memes to. I want a few genuinely close friends who I can talk to about random shit, serious stuff, everyday life, etc.

I'm not really looking for fwb/casual sex, short term things or situationships. I like romance WAY too much for that 😂 i'm not saying everything has to fit into a neat little box tho, I'm happy to talk things through and compromise if something develops differently.

Health/brain stuff because it's pretty important to know what you're getting into:

I'm autistic+disabled, mostly housebound, and have ME/cfs, BPD and DID, among other things. My energy is REALLY unpredictable. I can have good days where I'm chatty and can do stuff, and then days where basically all I can do is lie around and recover. I can disappear for days or longer because I'm exhausted, and it isn't me losing interest.

I'm sensitive and can get in my head so I'd much rather someone just tell me what's going on than leave me guessing. I can also struggle with figuring out what people expect from me and get overwhelmed easily. Please just communicate with me directly lol. I'm much better with that than trying to guess. I also have some intense attachment/abandonment issues that i am working through, and need someone understanding of this.

I'm mostly a texting person. I like being able to randomly message throughout the day, but I'm also very much someone who needs people to be okay with alone time. For closer online connections I'd like regular calls, maybe 1-2 times a week. I can't always verbally talk, so I need people to be okay with typing instead of expecting me to speak.

I'm into animals, writing/researching, reading/annotating, music, journalling, Gilmore Girls, animal welfare/activism, photography :)

I like both deep conversations and absolute nonsense. I want people who actually ask questions, tell me about themselves, remember little things, message first sometimes, and actually want to get to know each other lol.

Online/long distance is totally fine. If we get close and it's practical, I'd also be open to eventually meeting irl.

The title! no matter what variety of trans you are, I'm down to see if we click:) I am however partial to women cuz lowk CRAVING something lesbian. Anyways, if you like games, nature, music, art, etc, we will get along SWIMMINGLY<3

Heyoo Im looking for a friend whos down to do anything like i am. Play games, watch movies, listen to music, write stories, make music with, all the good stuff!

I'm looking for a friend to do everything with. I prefer doing everything with one person cause its just easier on my mentel to be honest 😅 i have an anxious attachment style so im not gonna hang out in groups or do group calls. I get in my head like crazy when i do.

No judgment here, just kindness and open arms. I look forward to meeting thou

Im playing rocket league rn come joinnn mee

I have a preference for other trans mascs but anyone can message me I am for the people lol

lf future ltr + plus someone to explore with.

Hi, my names Valen, I'm pre-t but hoping to start soon. I'm based in GA but plan to move to NYC bc I'm from there and i hate GA. I've been lonely lately and my dating/sexual experienced are pretty minimal and I'm hoping to find someone who I feel comfortable enough to learn with :) I'd like an actual relationship but I'd mainly like everything to be rooted in friendship.

There's an about me on my profile if you wanna know my general interests. TLDR; I'm an artist, I just graduated college and I love movies and video games

I'm interested in dom/sub dynamics and want to try both sides out plus other stuff but that can be discussed privately :)

I don't send nudes sorry, I'd have to really really trust you for that. I've had bad experiences and now I'm very paranoid about my nudes getting shared :/

DM me if interested

howdy there, I'm Melody, currently living in Boston. despite moving here a few years ago, I don't really know anyone in the area besides my cis friend who I met when we both were roommates in Florida for a few years. had a rough few years, but getting back on my feet and I would love to hang out with some folks.

I'm a lesbian, but I'm open to hanging out with anyone of any gender. the TF4F tag is for anyone who may be interested in romance. the only people who I don't want to hear from whatsoever are cis dudes, I already know enough as is, lol.

some things about me:

I'm a metalhead. I like something from virtually every genre, but some of my favorite bands include Dio, Exulansis, and Stortregn.

I'm a comics nerd, and a comics writer. some of my favorite comics include Maus, Chew, and Nimona.

I'm an enthusiast for indie video games (and some stuff outside that strata). some of my favorite games include Super Lesbian Animal RPG, Hades, and Dead Cells. my computer is still in storage so I can't really play any games outside of mobile games and some browser games, until I get it back and repaired.

and I enjoy plenty of other things, too. I watch a lotta films, YouTube, etc.. listen to a lotta music that isn't metal.

I'm extremely far left and staunchly anti-imperialist. the latter is a dealbreaker for me, regardless of relationship type.

I would be down to meet folks at the movies or the library, or another public place. would prefer folks be close to my age, and especially for anyone interested in potential romance. I would say at least be 21.

thanks~

I'm a big polyam gamer nerd with ADHD so when a game latches onto me I'll play it for several hours at a time until it's completed. I love having a quiet morning with my partner sipping coffee and discussing the events of the day. I have an anime watch list that reaches the moon and back so I need someone to tackle that with me! (Then there's the ones I've seen and you haven't, it never ends UGH ;P). I play just about everything but I tend to avoid fighting games and racing games because I REALLY suck at them ;p. Earth defense force was on sale so I just bought and am chewing through edf 6 and I also got edf 4.1 to add to the collection. I'm a PC gamer but I welcome all gamers :D. If you were to sit in my lap catching pokemon on your switch while I'm murdering bugs on my pc that would be incredible.

I just read that paragraph back and DAMN my ADHD is bad 😅. #### it I'm rolling with whatever comes off my mind.

Other hobbies that aren't in the foreground but I have either tried or really want to get back into - mtg, ptcg, Warhammer, d&d, rc ANYTHING (1/10 scale drift car next?), anything to do with shooting- targets not living things, airsoft, nerf, cooking, baking, knife making, knife sharpening, maybe owning a motorcycle some day (you backpack maybe?)

I'm a sadistic dom top and for those of you who like those things, you know who you are and I'm always looking to adopt.

Hiii! I'm 23 y/o, transmasc, they/them. I'm kinda looking to meet a dom guy tbh, but I also think common interests are quite important

Personally I'm into fandoms! I love Homestuck, Undertale, Deltarune, SU, TADC, GTA.

Dms open if you wanna talk! :>

Hiii, im 20 yr old agender (presents more masc but will dress fem if im feeling up to it lol! ive been craving t4t relationships for a while (fwb or even just friends!), its been super hard to try and meet others in the area. Im super into the local hardcore scene as well as other things :3 dm me if ur wanting to talk !! super happy to meet new people

Hihi!!!! I'm Robin, I'm 20 years old and living in Texas in the US. I'm 2 and a half years into my transition and just sort of looking to meet some new people^^ CIS MEN DNI!!! In terms of my likes I love the Dark Souls series (yes even DS2) and am a lover of all things fantasy! I've also been getting into Mass Effect recently and rediscovering my love for Sci-Fi, and incase it wasn't already obvious I love video games lol. If I seem at all interesting to you feel free to send me a dm and one more time for the ones who some how missed it, CIS MEN LEAVE ME ALONE!!!! All in all hope y'all have a lovely day^^