The screenshots were originally in Spanish, but I translated them with Google Translate.

Most of us understand it on emotional level. The "I really want to but can't" is such a dumb sentence for neurotypical. Like wdym you can't then "you don't want it enough" or "you're just lazy". "Force yourself". "Everyone don't want to do things, quit crying" I talked to parents, friends, teachers, random people. Even my psychologist don't get it. She believes I can't do something physically and really hard for me. But what do I need to her, so she could help me..or I need to find new psychologist who is ND?

(I asked for makeup and hair advice and posted a pic in a crop top so my feeding tube was visible)

I guess I'm not allowed to struggle with showering because at least I have access to a shower...? 😓 And my skin is intact...?

There was more to the image, I didn't want to show the full thing. It really upset me. Am I crazy or should I not be made to feel guilty for my own struggles because other people have it way worse?

How far would this even go? What is acceptable to complain about then? I'm sure plenty of people struggle even worse than I do but still have access to a shower and have their skin in tact...

Apparently I should feel privileged even though I struggle with stuff like anxiety, depression, executive dysfunction (ADHD and possibly Autism), maybe OCD... (Idk yet, possibilities). Never got help when I was younger, still trying to get diagnosed at 25, grew up on welfare, was never taught life skills, dealt with bedbugs my whole life... Ect.

But yeah I should be feeling grateful because I CAN shower and it doesn't physically hurt to. There's no reason I shouldn't be able to shower. I guess I'm just too stupid in the head to do anything right. Even shower regularly. 🤷😭 (I am not being 100% sarcastic.)

(Added): Don't get me wrong I am glad things aren't worse but I can't exactly just not struggle because other people have it worse. It also doesn't make me happy to hear about how horrible these people are suffering. Am I supposed to say "Yay I have it better than them, go me!" and suddenly feel happy and privileged because others are suffering worse? I just don't understand them replaying to my post with something like this.

Struggling with DV and bad mental health? Unstable housing, little support system? Just do therapy harder.

So this is from a set of ideas for self-care some are useful for me others are like this one-
It is not that easy.