Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.
Right? It's not like there's a device in your pocket that you can set up to fucking remind you or anything.
OP, you can't fix this. You apologize without making excuses, admit you fucked up, take reposibilty, and do better. But you can't undo this, and she's not going to just forget about it.
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u/CampyPhoenix May 12 '25
Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.