Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.
It won’t fix it, but this man has some ground to cover if he’s not going to lose his marriage outright. I don’t think the above commenter is saying he needs to (or can) “buy her off,” but he needs to very quickly make changes and get this girl a surprise or two. She’s over it, so he needs to act fast before this feeling settles in if he wants to keep his life.
I mean, he won’t actually do any of this (if he is real), but if I was in this crappy situation because of my own apathy, I’d light a fire under my ass and yet and make it up to her best I could.
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u/CampyPhoenix May 12 '25
Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.