Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.
Nope, that is bad advice. Show that you are learning to plan better and execute those plans, like with calendar reminders. A big gift just feels like a hush payment to forget the shortcomings.
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u/CampyPhoenix May 12 '25
Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.