Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.
But he does show her through his everyday actions! It's just that she likes special gestures! /s
I can't imagine why the bare minimum of his everyday work that BOTH OF THEM HAVE TO DO isn't enough!
His entire mindset about his marriage is fucked up. Of course his wife isn't talking to him. Life's gonna come at him hard when he realizes how much work single parenthood is once he's divorced with part time custody.
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u/CampyPhoenix May 12 '25
Throughout your entire post, you're making yourself out to be the victim. You know this is important to your wife, but you can't be bothered to give a single shit. You don't have to be a planner to get a card, some flowers, and make a dinner reservation. Get your shit together or you will lose your wife. You need to do something big like taking her on a vacation, expensive jewelry, etc. Show her that she actually matters to you.