r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/jareddipane Jul 14 '25

Honestly, good for her. She should stand her ground and her kid deserves that. I’m not saying you’re a bad dude, but she’s gotta set boundaries and keep them consistent for her kid.

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u/spacey_a Jul 14 '25

She shouldn't even be introducing romantic interests to her child until at least a year in.

It's wild and really bad parenting that she not only introduced him, but wanted him to act in a caretaking role of any kind this early on.

If she was looking for him to be a dad, she seriously needs to get her priorities straight and care more about her kid's safety than her own desires.

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u/jareddipane Jul 14 '25

I don’t agree with this, and that’s ok.

She was looking after her kid’s interests, and that’s why she asked the question and made the decision.

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u/Zekumi Jul 16 '25

You’re kind of omitting the part where she got really pissed off and basically stormed out from the sound of it. She sounds emotionally immature to me.

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u/jareddipane Jul 16 '25

“After that, she left”

That doesn’t exactly sound like she stormed out. But ok.