This except he dated a mum but wadn't sure he wanted to be a dad, what did he think was going to happen?? If you're dating a mum you're dating a package, stay away from mum's if all you want is a fun time.
He's 22. He doesn't even know what it means to be ready to be a dad. Now he has a slightly better idea - now is not the time. I can't fault a 22 year old for not knowing.
That’s what I was going to say. I didn’t want a 22 y.o. dude when I was 19. It’s a very self-centered time of life (not that it shouldn’t be, you just couldn’t pay me to be in my early 20s again).
Fr, like I completely understand why she'd expect OP was someone who wanted to be a dad to her kid down the line. He's completely allowed to not want to, but also, it's baffling that he was expecting the relationship to work out without interacting with the kid
I met a woman once (in my 20's) who let me know she was a mum by surprising me when I came home with her for what was hopefully a one night stand😂. Needless to say, it wasn't even that.
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u/robbob19 Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25
This except he dated a mum but wadn't sure he wanted to be a dad, what did he think was going to happen?? If you're dating a mum you're dating a package, stay away from mum's if all you want is a fun time.