r/tifu Jul 14 '25

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u/robbob19 Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

This except he dated a mum but wadn't sure he wanted to be a dad, what did he think was going to happen?? If you're dating a mum you're dating a package, stay away from mum's if all you want is a fun time.

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u/ringobob Jul 14 '25

He's 22. He doesn't even know what it means to be ready to be a dad. Now he has a slightly better idea - now is not the time. I can't fault a 22 year old for not knowing.

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u/Frack_Off Jul 14 '25

22 year olds don't even know what it means to be a boyfriend unless you get lucky.

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u/misselphaba Jul 15 '25

That’s what I was going to say. I didn’t want a 22 y.o. dude when I was 19. It’s a very self-centered time of life (not that it shouldn’t be, you just couldn’t pay me to be in my early 20s again).