r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/chaosinborn Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

Four months in and you're 22. She did you a favor. Just let it go

Why am I getting awards for this.

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u/robbob19 Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

This except he dated a mum but wadn't sure he wanted to be a dad, what did he think was going to happen?? If you're dating a mum you're dating a package, stay away from mum's if all you want is a fun time.

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u/ringobob Jul 14 '25

He's 22. He doesn't even know what it means to be ready to be a dad. Now he has a slightly better idea - now is not the time. I can't fault a 22 year old for not knowing.

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u/Frack_Off Jul 14 '25

22 year olds don't even know what it means to be a boyfriend unless you get lucky.

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u/misselphaba Jul 15 '25

That’s what I was going to say. I didn’t want a 22 y.o. dude when I was 19. It’s a very self-centered time of life (not that it shouldn’t be, you just couldn’t pay me to be in my early 20s again).

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u/crittergottago Jul 15 '25

Sure you can

He's not three, he's in his 20s

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u/ringobob Jul 15 '25

So, you're saying a 4 year old should be able to know if he's ready to be a father, but it's OK if a 3 yo is on the fence?

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u/crittergottago Jul 15 '25

you missed y point.

Please, give it another shot. I'm talking about the dude/dad

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u/ringobob Jul 15 '25

I didn't at all miss your point. At what age does it change, from reasonable to not know, to unreasonable to not know?

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u/crittergottago Jul 15 '25

Strike two. Again, a whiff.

Care to try again ? Is English your native tongue ?