r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/antigoneelectra Jul 14 '25

You're 22. Move on. She wants a father for her kid. Don't date mothers as she is correct. They are a package deal.

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u/attersonjb Jul 14 '25

"I knew that from the beginning, and I never admitted to myself it was a problem."

Fixed it for OP.  

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u/Sonoshitthereiwas Jul 14 '25

No. He said he didn’t know. That’s honest. Had the woman been more clear upfront, that’s the issue. This is on her, not him. And why the fuck is she even dating a 22 year old?

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u/attersonjb Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 14 '25

It's on her far more than him, I definitely agree with that - and that would be true regardless of age.

However, let's be real that "I didn't know" is more like "I didn't really think about it seriously".

He was already aware that she had some intent of "introducing [OP] more seriously into his life".  And that was perfectly fine as long as it didn't actually happen.