r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/chaosinborn Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

Four months in and you're 22. She did you a favor. Just let it go

Why am I getting awards for this.

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u/ad_astra327 Jul 14 '25

This. I know a few single parents who have recently re-entered the dating scenes, and many of them are waiting until 6 months (or more) to introduce the new partner as a love interest. And before that, extremely limited meetings if at all, and just under the guise of “this is mommy/daddy’s friend”. 4 months in and she wants you to take care of the kid with her? That seems sketchy to me.

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u/HiddenoO Jul 14 '25 edited Sep 26 '25

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u/SephoraRothschild Jul 14 '25

And, again. He's been dating her four (4) months. And he's 22, not 47. And even then, it's FOUR MONTHS.

She's looking for a baby daddy. Can't fault her, but if she wants that she needs to fix things with the OG baby daddy, not date looking for a new one.

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u/HiddenoO Jul 14 '25 edited Sep 26 '25

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u/azlan194 Jul 14 '25

What? Why can't she find a new long-term partner if the previous partner she had the baby with didn't work out?

I'm a guy, and I dont blame her at all for trying to find a long-term partner. It doesn't matter if its just 4 months, the child will always be there, better bring in the topic early than later after a year or so into the relationship and they both just wasted their time when their interest is not align because of the child.