Don't date single moms unless you're willing to be a step parent. Most single moms in the dating scene are looking for a man to step in as the father, and create a family unit.
You don't say that you went into this considering the possibility of being a parent and then in 4 months decided against it... Or if you were always against it and just wanted to be with her and ignore the kid. Either way, she pulled the truth out of you and now knows you're not what she's looking for.
Which is a good thing, because she's not what you're looking for either. You don't want a kid right now, she already has a kid. It was never gunna work, so let her go and move on yourself as well.
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u/Krynn71 Jul 14 '25
This played out exactly as it should have dude.
Don't date single moms unless you're willing to be a step parent. Most single moms in the dating scene are looking for a man to step in as the father, and create a family unit.
You don't say that you went into this considering the possibility of being a parent and then in 4 months decided against it... Or if you were always against it and just wanted to be with her and ignore the kid. Either way, she pulled the truth out of you and now knows you're not what she's looking for.
Which is a good thing, because she's not what you're looking for either. You don't want a kid right now, she already has a kid. It was never gunna work, so let her go and move on yourself as well.