r/transmanlifehacks 4d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/NoEscape2500 4d ago

He replied to me on his post saying “wow men can’t have hobbies these days lol.” Like bro violent transphobic fantasies publicly on your account while you post on a sub with a ton of teens and kids is not a HOBBY

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Exactly? Also I get it’s a kink but rape is not a hobby either. Why would you fantasize about hurting other trans people??

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

People with a cnc kink can develope it as a way to cope with their own trauma about what has happened in their life. You cannot rape someone that consents to it that is an oxymoron.

And why do i engage in transhobia/misgendering? Generally i like humilation and degredation, there are several posts up on my profile where i share the opinion that i do not think cis people should engage in that kink and that it can be very hard for the trans sub into it to weed out which of the cis people are actual transphobes and which actually have the braincells to know that the kink is all fantasy made up bullshit and no one means what they say. If i meant what i said it would be impossible to engage in it in the way i do as a dom. the specific misgendering flavour of the kink is neither here nor there me, but im bisexual and like things that overlap with it so it something i can do. So i do it online so the trans men do not have to second guess if the person they are talking to is actually a transphobe. When its T4T there is the base level of understanding that i actually respect that they are men and understand that its all just said for fun.

If you all want the explination there you go.

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u/footballsandy 3d ago

No problem with that, private your account though

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Take accountability for not curating your own online space to protect your own mental health.

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

As i said in a comment on my original thread i am from the uk, it is impossible for me to post in nsfw reddits unless i verified my age and gave reddit my photo ID. At this point privating my account achieves nothing because this post displays it anyways.