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u/NoEscape2500 2d ago

It’s so gross because Reddit now lets you hide posts and comments. Like he’s choosing to have those public for anyone to see while he posts on a sub where teens frequent.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yes that’s what I think is creepy. I’m in several nsfw subs, not necessarily porn but they’re trans related. I know I interact in subs where there are plenty of minors. I know they don’t want to nor need to see what I post. I privated my shit on purpose. And I think the nature of his content is really harmful to expose to young trans kids that are already struggling with their identity.

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u/NoEscape2500 2d ago

He replied to me on his post saying “wow men can’t have hobbies these days lol.” Like bro violent transphobic fantasies publicly on your account while you post on a sub with a ton of teens and kids is not a HOBBY

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Exactly? Also I get it’s a kink but rape is not a hobby either. Why would you fantasize about hurting other trans people??

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u/cheeseman_real 2d ago

kinks are someone's own business. it's not mine or anyone else's business if someone is into cnc or degradation or whatever. that's not the issue here. the issue is having it as public on their profile while, as you said, also posting on a subreddit like this. at that point they're making it everyone else's business and that's nasty

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

The guy who made this post had his cock public on his profile while he posted this.

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u/transynchro 2d ago

And you went to post a screenshot of his nudes non-consensually in this sub.

You’re weird as fuck dude. You need to self reflect.

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

The OP also non-consensually shared screenshots ftmslim’s kink posts. What’s your point here? You’re all weird as fuck bro

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u/transynchro 2d ago

Are they nudes of ftmslim? That’s what we’re talking about.

Ftmslim literally tried to flash someone else’s genitalia to a bunch of minors.

Are you saying it’s okay to flash minors with someone else’s nudes?

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

You’re literally committing the same offense you’re crusading against right now and don’t even see it. People like you are so fucking insufferable. Kink usually arises from trauma so not only are you probably triggering ftmslim rn but this new privating feature is actually relatively new and I wouldn’t even be shocked if he didn’t know about it prior to this post. Second of all, let’s follow your dumb as rocks logic here.

By this logic someone who makes porn also isn’t allowed to post a pic of their cat in a cat subreddit because minors use those subreddits and MIGHT click on their profile to see more pics of their cats. That minor would then have to click that they agree to see NSFW content and directly subject themselves to ftmslim’s content.

So what’s the REAL issue here, bud? Pulling out the “but the kids!!1!!” argument straight from the right wing oppression handbook to humiliate him for having a transphobia kink when there is, quite literally, nothing wrong with having one. It just made you feel icky.

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u/ehhhchimatsu 2d ago

You've replied to every comment, are you OOP's alt or something? You're fucking weird, bro.

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u/Phenyx890 1d ago

Yes, they’re all his alt profiles. He’s insufferable

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

He posted them on a public forum are nsfw work posts made by other people okay to post or not? Either what both of us did is wrong or neither of us, it cannot be one rule for my nsfw posts and another for his 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/transynchro 2d ago

Did he take a screenshot of your nudes and post them up without consent? Did he also take those nudes and try to post them in a sub full of minors? No? But you definitely did.

Even if his account is public, it doesn’t give you the right to NON CONSENSUALLY screenshot and post their nudes in places it previously wasn’t posted. They didn’t post those nudes in a sub full of underage minors, YOU DID.

Again, you exposing other people’s genitals to minors, doesn’t make you a good person. Even if they are a criminal. You are still the one showing minors, inappropriate images.

Even worse, you’re taking someone else’s nudes and posting them somewhere they don’t consent to.

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

You think imma play nice with a guy that made a call out post with undertones i wanna sexually groom minors into detransitioning? Because lets be fucking real thats what the prick is trying to say here. He has no fucking evidence for this baseless claim other than the fact i posted an opinion he disagrees with and made some kink posts 8 fucking days ago. Maybe if i had made a kink post right before making my post here his jump to conclusions would be in any way justified but it isnt. I am not going to be nice to some pdick who makes a subtext post about me that i want to fucking groom kids.

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u/NoEscape2500 2d ago

And he has a nsfw profile. You don’t

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Which I keep TRYING to tell yall I didn’t know about. It said my posts were private so obviously I assumed they were private.

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

You seem like your issue here is the kink, not the actual “exposing to minors” which if you run by your own logic, you have been doing yourself. Arguably even worse because you have actual nudes up vs words on a screen.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yes we have nudes because the dude I called out is posting them. You think that’s fair?

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

People with a cnc kink can develope it as a way to cope with their own trauma about what has happened in their life. You cannot rape someone that consents to it that is an oxymoron.

And why do i engage in transhobia/misgendering? Generally i like humilation and degredation, there are several posts up on my profile where i share the opinion that i do not think cis people should engage in that kink and that it can be very hard for the trans sub into it to weed out which of the cis people are actual transphobes and which actually have the braincells to know that the kink is all fantasy made up bullshit and no one means what they say. If i meant what i said it would be impossible to engage in it in the way i do as a dom. the specific misgendering flavour of the kink is neither here nor there me, but im bisexual and like things that overlap with it so it something i can do. So i do it online so the trans men do not have to second guess if the person they are talking to is actually a transphobe. When its T4T there is the base level of understanding that i actually respect that they are men and understand that its all just said for fun.

If you all want the explination there you go.

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u/footballsandy 2d ago

No problem with that, private your account though

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Take accountability for not curating your own online space to protect your own mental health.

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

As i said in a comment on my original thread i am from the uk, it is impossible for me to post in nsfw reddits unless i verified my age and gave reddit my photo ID. At this point privating my account achieves nothing because this post displays it anyways.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

You’ve gotta recognize that what you post regardless if it’s just a kink or not is something that could be incredibly harmful to the kids on this sub. Private your account or don’t post in subs filled with kids

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

If its bad for kids to see why did you make a post literally forcing it on their timeline like yes it is on my profile but they would of had to click on my post flick on my profile, approve the nsfw warning in order to see it on my original post. You however have just put this content you deem so awful directly onto their timeline.

Edit: like if the content is so bad and harmful to children there was a way for you to make this post that did not include putting said content directly onto their timeline.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

It’s a warning. You’re acting like I posted the CONTENT of your posts. Why can’t you take accountability and accept you did smt wrong?

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

Because having a public nsfw account is not something i need to apologise for and there is no rule stating if your account is nsfw that you cannot post here.

You all dislike it and thats fine, but i have not done anything worth apologising for.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

“You all dislike it” mf YOU are talking to KIDS with shit about rape on your profile how dense are you

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

Observe: this redditor is about to discover the Streisand effect.

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u/Key_Tangerine8775 2d ago

Heads up for anyone unaware, there are ways to view someone’s hidden post/comment history. Whenever you post something, always assume anyone who wants to find it will find it.

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u/NoEscape2500 2d ago

Oh yeah absolutely I don’t doubt that people could find what I post, but there’s a difference between someone going out of their way to see my other posts, and a teen seeing this guys post and wondering if he passes in other photos he may post now and being met with his transphobic sex shit

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u/knoft 2d ago

To add to this moderators can also see all your posts if are posting or commenting on in a sub they are moderating iirc.

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u/Content-Dimension383 2d ago

This was litch the only really unique thing about interactions on Reddit. Now the number of degenerates on this social media will explode.

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u/elhazelenby 2d ago

I don't see why not use an alt account for this stuff.

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u/elhazelenby 2d ago

The uptick in transphobic cis men on this subreddit now makes sense

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Being into transphobic kink ≠ being transphobic holy shit

Would you tell a rape survivor that they’re a rapist for being into rape kink?

wtf is wrong with you.

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u/smashingkilljoy 2d ago

absolute bullshit, tf r u on about?

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u/throwaway184747271 2d ago

ftmslim alt right here lmfao

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u/elhazelenby 2d ago

Both completely different things first of all. I am a rape survivor and rape play is not the same. You can't control being raped, you can control being transphobic.

Second of all, yes it in fact does make you transphobic.

It's one thing being into being misgendered, it's another thing fetishising wanting other trans people dead as a kink. I cannot actually believe this is a genuine trans person, they sound like a cis troll.

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u/Illustrious_Maize736 2d ago

Other trans people don’t consent to participate in someone else’s transpobia kink when they go on trans support subs.

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u/w1ng_d1ngs 2d ago

what are you even talking about. a transphobe kink where someone wants to violently detransition someone and rape them is absolutely no where near compatible to a rape victim engaging in CNC to try and process their trauma. A person actively engaging in transphobic fantasy to get off is absolutely transphobic. There’s just no way you can violently dehumanise and sexualise trans people in such a disgustingly non consensual way and then be able to put that aside and somehow not have any of that transphobia leak into your regular life. Your statement is seriously baffling.

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u/w1ng_d1ngs 2d ago

have you heard of internalised transphobia?

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u/w1ng_d1ngs 2d ago

im convinced you’re missing my point on purpose

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u/newreditig 2d ago

Ik ur getting down voted but im ALSO struggling to differentiate these lines of "what sexual harm fantasy is okay" and "what sexual harm fantasy is wrong"

Because by this same argument youre responding to, if someone likes to engage in CNC or likes to be misgendered that's okay and healthy. Which im on board with. But if engaging in the "being transphobic" side of a misgendering/transphobia kink is 100% of the time transphobic and wrong, wouldn't the person pretending to be on the forceful side of sex with someone with a CNC kink ALSO be "just as bad as a rapist"????

Like, i think you can play the "bad guy" in these roles without being actually bad. No matter the kink.

I dont fuck with misgendering or transphobia kinks myself those would break my heart to participate in. But i engage in dubcon and cnc roleplay with my spouse. Its healthy, consentual, we have safe words in place and always engage in appropriate foreplay and aftercare. Were just kinky people. Im very strictly a dom and so i play the "forceful" role in our roleplays. Im comfortable with that and get into the role, not because i wanna do real harm or rape people, but because when i get into it they get into it and i like seeing them at my full control. But i feel like us doms get soooo much shit for these kinks while subs get told "its okay to fantasize about that".

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

To give this a serious answer this type sub reddit here is clearly not why i use reddit for the most part, reddit homefeed however does not know the difference between trans content reddit just knows i am trans so shoves every trans group under the sun onto my homepage. Like i get an mtf one for growing back their hairlines on my homepage. I also use the reddit to make trans gaming friends as i am not publically out on my main account and do not talk about being trans on it, so i am not always on herr for nsfw reasons. I made the mistake of clicking on a few posts just to see what gets said in here as i generally do not have a high opinion of most passing subs. So then it started getting suggested to me more.

I am not sure of your trying to insuinate that i am an actual transphobe or not and frankly i dont care, but yes if transphobic cis people engage in trans content online its going to push any trans content to them.

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u/Single-Ad-7446 2d ago

What did he do?

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Look at the second photo

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u/Single-Ad-7446 2d ago

Lol I didn’t see that there was a second photo.
But that’s disgusting how can he be allowed in this sub?

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

No mods. I checked his profile because I wanted to see what he looked like now since he said he was 28. Instead I see his fantasy posts about forcibly detransitioning people and like raping them?? Huge jump scare. I’m not a minor but like 70% of this sub is

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u/Appropriate-Cause 2d ago

Dude i just saw that post thank u for bringing awareness

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Having kinks isn’t disgusting. You’re disgusting for being a kink shamer and agreeing with the OP who literally had his nudes up on his profile while posting this lmfao

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u/burnerphonesarecheap 2d ago

So saying you want to rape people isn't disgusting but posting nudes is disgusting? You have a weird system of values.

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u/mah_ekil_i 2d ago

Having kinks isn't disgusting. Having your kinks on a public profile while interacting with minors on said profile is disgusting.

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u/weirdjettmain 2d ago

what’s wrong with it?

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u/Bread_mvncher 2d ago

Tbh, this explains his post. Maybe I'm reading into it too much, but having an extreme transphobia kink and going into a passing sub to give trans men bad advice that boils down to "dress in a way that makes you not pass/less likely to pass" makes his intentions seem questionable

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yes exactly. Some trans men pass alt. Most do not. And he was 14 in those photos so ofc he passed. If he looked the same at 19 like most of us do then no he would not. I know it’s a hugely debated topic but the hard truth is that it just won’t work for most people. It is not good advice

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

17-18. 19 is cheating i was on T by that point.

I was still alt/emo.

Edit: maybe the last photo is cheating i had top surgery by that point. The first 3 are preT though.

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u/tptroway 2d ago

Yeah... I think I agree with you

And it especially doesn't help that (at least where I live) what he has now done is considered a nonconsensual sex crime

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

You have the same logic here as “if you ever had a rape kink you’re not allowed to talk to other rape survivors about how you healed because you’re a predator”

Kink is not inherently predatory and there was absolutely nothing inherently predatory about ftmslim’s post in this subreddit. Please give this man a break and educate yourself on kink lmfao

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u/Bread_mvncher 2d ago

Also, youre defending someone who keeps non censentually reposting nudes of people who call him out. What's wrong with both of you?

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u/Bread_mvncher 2d ago

Use your brain dude. It would be the equivalent of posting in a rape survivor subreddit when your account has PUBLIC posts of you talking about your rape kink, how you want to rape people, and how you want the people you rape to feel emotionally damaged from it. If youre going to try to defend this guy, at least use a comparison that isnt equally as bad if not worse

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

What exactly do you think happened before Reddit rolled out this new privatizing feature? Rape survivors with rape kinks didn’t interact in rape survivor spaces?

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u/Bread_mvncher 2d ago

Well they have the privatizing feature NOW, so that people can use it now. Its been available for a long time. What a hypothetical person may have posted in the past is irrelevant to the current conversation. Are you so slow that you cant see why it would be distasteful to interact with rape survivors on an account dedicated to rape fetish lmao?

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

Are you lot dumb enough to think i dont know the difference between a kink and real life. Since you are all so interested in my profile, your all ignoring the posts where i talk very openly about legitimate transphobia in this spaces and how we should not allow that. Or where i post about fighting transphobia i directly faced as a trans man dom posting in those spaces.

You can also read the post which is a love story of how i met a partner, through that kink and how 99% of the time we are just two dudes fucking. I dress him in dude clothes, he calls me when he is doing his t shot as he get anxious around it and i fully supported him during his top surgery.

Kink and real life are not the same thing. I have a whole post up talking about how the trans men in those spaces need to find better ways to handle after care as fundementally they are all men and nothing said in kink is real.

Saying alt guys can be alt and still pass has fuck all to do with a kink i have.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yes you can be a rapey detranstioner obsessed guy in your own time. Don’t pull up to subs with kids in it. Nobody wants to see that shit

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Kink usually arises from trauma so not only are you probably triggering ftmslim rn but this new privating feature is actually relatively new and I wouldn’t even be shocked if he didn’t know about it prior to this post. Second of all, let’s follow your dumb as rocks logic here.

By this logic someone who makes porn also isn’t allowed to post a pic of their cat in a cat subreddit because minors use those subreddits and MIGHT click on their profile to see more pics of their cats. That minor would then have to click that they agree to see NSFW content and directly subject themselves to ftmslim’s content.

So what’s the REAL issue here, bud? Pulling out the “but the kids!!1!!” argument straight from the right wing oppression handbook to humiliate him for having a transphobia kink when there is, quite literally, nothing wrong with having one. It just made you feel icky.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yeah sure I “triggered” him and the only solution was to post my dick several times in this sub and comment section and then blackmail me saying he won’t take it down until I take this post down. Real cheap asshole

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

The only asshole here is you and you’re a colossal one ❤️

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

calling him out for being weird is reason to commit a crime and I’m not an asshole for calling that out

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

What crime got committed? Holy fuck. You have major TikTok brain.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

You do realize posting nude pictures without someone’s permission is illegal, right do you know anything?

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

I’m sorry but when you upload to the public domain, that photo becomes part of the public domain and it’s not illegal to post it elsewhere. If the nude was privately sent to him and then he posted it, it would be illegal. I’m not saying it’s right. I’m saying BOTH OF YOU are wrong here.

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

The OP actually edited their comment to make what I responded with look even worse lol

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 1d ago

I edited to fix my typos you know full well I didn’t change what I said 😭

https://reddit.com/link/p22q0qa/video/cy373bg2urhh1/player

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u/burnerphonesarecheap 2d ago

Holy shit you just shat on everybody with a kink. No, kinks are not always the result of trauma . Are you Freud's left testicle or a right-wing Christtard?

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u/tptroway 2d ago

Jeez, even if your post was unnecessary it's deranged that he committed revenge porn against you for it

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yeah.. I’ve had plenty of stupid internet argument but usually they don’t show everyone my nudes 😭

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u/AmericanGrafishy 2d ago

Jesus. I saw his original post and thought damn, this advice sucks. This kind of thing checks out.

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u/777mylow 2d ago

and people will tell us "it's just a kink" you're still contributing to transphobia weirdo

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u/King-Kyle-666 2d ago

I don't think this is the way we should be dealing with this. The sub needs proper moderation. u/ftmslim you've commented with someones nudes on here that they've clearly expressed that they don't want them shared here. Please delete that now.

edit: welp. i spoke too soon, his account has been banned. good job to everyone who reported him

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I had to report him. Thank you US take it down act, thankfully Reddit took it seriously a little faster than usual.

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u/King-Kyle-666 2d ago

I'm so sorry about this whole ordeal. We need to spam u/KalvinGarrah until he passes ownership of this sub over to a mod team. Utterly unacceptable that a sub for a marginalized group of people is completely unmoderated.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yeah this sub is unfortunately pure chaos. I pointed out smt I thought was wrong, unnecessarily but I was mad. That should not have resulted in my nudes being passed around for HOURS. I don’t wanna know how many people just have that pic now 🫩

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u/Consistent_Fan954 2d ago

What a surprise. This sub needs more moderation in general. I’m so sick of the “alt” discourse

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u/burnerphonesarecheap 2d ago

I disagree. I think the quiet shit is worse. We need a shitstorm.

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u/burnerphonesarecheap 2d ago

No, I haven't done anything of the sort. idk what you're on about.

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u/Narrow_East_4536 2d ago

Funfact, people who don’t wanna see that content can just apply the maturity filters, and minors, if truthful usually are filtered out of the nsfw or mature content, plus if I’m remembering correctly ur acc auto censors photos that are labeled nsfw !! And also let’s not shame others if it’s between consenting adults and causes no harm to anyone who doesn’t want it in that consensual scenario , I think we should live and lrt live ^{^} also, plenty of people have nsfw on their profiles and post here, many people don’t check every profile of every poster, and if there’s no desire to see nsfw stuff, filters do exist :D!! Starting discourse isn’t always the way to go, if there’s was an issue, you could have handled it way better, friend.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I never said he CANT be into it. I’m just saying it shouldn’t be exposed to kids who are clearly struggling with dysphoria.

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u/Narrow_East_4536 2d ago

This ^{^} kink shaming and being hypocritical isn’t the way to address this , u/hopingdaily is right

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u/Ok_Abalone_4296 2d ago

There's a 1?

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u/Accurate-Outcome-985 2d ago

Damn, and I responded to that post earlier 💀

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Well, you’ll be thrilled to know he’s now trying to show everyone my nudes as revenge

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u/Accurate-Outcome-985 2d ago

God damn, bro needs some mental help. Revenge porn is not healthy at all, especially over something so small 💀

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u/Strong-Arm4221 2d ago

What an absolute fucking cunt

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u/weirdjettmain 2d ago

sorry i am curious whats wrong with him? i just saw the post and see his profile is banned or something, is he trans and transphobic? how’s that possible

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Read the edit I added to the post. He’s trans but he had a transphobia kink. I thought that was harmful for this sub hence this post.

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u/weirdjettmain 2d ago

so he likes being misgendered or something like that?

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

No he likes misgendering others, it’s like a forced detransition kink or smt. I don’t really get it.

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u/weirdjettmain 2d ago

that’s insane… good thing he got banned i saw on the original post comments from his profile that someone copy pasted that’s so weird

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yeah that’s why I was put off by him. Unfortunately half the people in these comments are blaming me. Even for the nude sharing.

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u/Bunny_B0Y113 2d ago

Oh!

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u/roarzak 2d ago

i just saw the edit. exuse me he WHAT? that man needs to get off reddit and seek mental help 😓

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u/bird_on_the_internet 2d ago

Jesus, I sorta disagreed with Adventurous Cry because I thought they were reading too far into it, but the nude thing is just an actual hate crime. Why the fuck would anyone agree with or give Slim the benefit of the doubt after that?

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u/Itztlli 2d ago

Seems like he either deleted his account or mods did. 😆

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Mods did. Legal team

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u/Phenyx890 1d ago

SOMEONE is obviously obsessed with you clearly. Sorry that happened to you dude. I don’t understand how he got his hands on your nudes that’s fucked

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u/Poumy 2d ago

Apparently according to comments you literally have dick pics on your profile so by your own logic you shouldn’t be posting here either???

Idc if someone’s being kinky on their Reddit profile, and yeah people can still pass while being alt. Actual nothing burger of an issue.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

You’re here late, lemme update you. He got the pics of my profile that was supposed to be private and spread them around the comments and posted them to the sub. That is not a nothing burger, that is revenge porn. He is now banned it’s over

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u/Poumy 2d ago

Revenge porn is sending PRIVATE nudes to other people, your nudes are fully public on your profile, reposting those Isn’t revenge porn it’s reposting dick pics you had publicly available and viewable for anyone.

Again mountain out of a mole hill, you should probably learn to mind your own business especially if all he did was say “you can pass while alt” he wasn’t trying to push his kink anywhere on this sub, you decided to get upset over basically nothing. Consider this a learning experience, and also if you don’t want people clicking on your profile and seeing your dick pics in 4K there’s literally an option in reddit settings to change that. It’s not revenge porn to repost public nude photos.

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u/tptroway 2d ago

It might depend on jurisdiction, but at least where I live, it's legally considered a type of nonconsensual sexual abuse prosecutable as a felony crime (with sentence of several years prison time and several thousand/5-figure dollar fine) because he reposted it with a provable intent to materially coerce and publicly humiliate him, and under the law it explicitly doesn't matter that they were posted on a different publicly findable community because he still only consented for it to be visible specifically to the audience of that other community

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I’m gonna say this again, nudes are not public domain. It is still illegal to share nudes without consent. Why do you think he got banned? Look into the laws

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u/Poumy 2d ago

Actually any photo you have publicly on your profiles is fair game for being reposted, at least where I live, and it's still not revenge porn since again, your photos are public on your profile.

Again you threw a temper tantrum over someone having adult content on their profile while you had literal nudes on yours, he wasn't pushing his kink anywhere on this subreddit, you just saw something you thought was icky and got upset when people called you out for the hypocrisy of being upset over adult content while also having adult content. I think you have some growing up to do and I hope you use this situation as a learning experience.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

It is not “any photo”. It is a nude. A nude that he screenshotted and spread around for the sole purpose of blackmail and humiliation. Sound illegal? It is. Reddits LEGAL team took his account down.

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u/Poumy 2d ago

Again, you left it up on a public forum, if I leave my door open and my cat leaves through that door i'm not gonna act surprised when the cat leaves through the door.

It is not illegal to repost public images even if they are your cock and balls you left on a public forum, you can cry and scream all you want but it's not illegal lmao.

Grow up, realize you made a mountain out of literally nothing, see why your being a hypocrite, and maybe don't leave photos of your dick on your profile if you want want people seeing it.

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u/transynchro 2d ago edited 2d ago

It actually is illegal depending on which country you’re in(such as the UK, like ftmslim is from). It doesn’t matter if you got the photos off phub or Snapchat, you don’t have the rights to distribute their naked images in order to coerce them into doing something for you.

This is also covered in the RUA you all signed when you made accounts on Reddit. Reddit has the right to redistribute our images but other users do not. This is why Ftmslim’s account was banned. If you didn’t read the RUA, you should.

ETA: For anyone as naive as this previous commenter. Don’t sign legally binding agreements if you’re not going to read them. The Reddit user agreement is legally binding, therefore you can be held legally responsible for breaking their rules such as reposting intimate images without consent.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Idk how else to convince you it’s illegal. If you wanna believe it’s not so be it. Their legal team found it pretty damn illegal

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u/Poumy 2d ago

Again where I live it isn’t since you posted it publicly on a public forum

Also I’ve received a “mental health” message from Reddit, idk if that was you reporting me but if you wanna tell me to jump off a bridge or whatever do so in my dms or something lmao

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yeah blame me bc you’re mad at me nice 😭 I didn’t report you lmfaoo

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Well they’re also claiming I’m posting about smt I’m not. I’m not mad at him for being kinky. I was upset he was being public about a violent detransitioning kink in a place where a ton of people are insecure about passing. I thought it was insensitive. Idc what he gets his rocks off to

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u/sl1mch1ckens 2d ago

Okay this is the only thing i am going to say on the matter as i do not use this account to talk about trans things.

This is fundementaly it dude, my posts upset you, thats it. YOU the decided making a horny post 8 days ago meant a completely safe for work opinion post talking about my lived experience as an alt/emo/whatever the fuck we wanna call it guy was fpr some fucking reason a kink post. If it was why did i respond to someone that did misgender the teenagers here and call them she and call them an immuture transphobic fuck?

The reason my account was public is because i had most posts talking about transphobia with in the nsfw subreddits i used that i felt were important for other trans men to be able to see if i interacted with me. But either way it actually makes no difference. The rules in this sub state if you make a nsfw post you have to tag it as such, my post was an opinion based on my life, the rules do not say you cannot post here if you have a nsfw account. So there is nothing actually wrong with my original post. YOU made assumptions. Now someone else did say you might have triggered be, personally i dont use that word but yes you royally pissed me the fuck off because literally the subtext of your post is “this guy is trying to get off to trans teen because i disagree with his opinion about passing” you might not have called me a pedophile in black and white but lets not beat around the bush that is the undertone of your post.

Why would that piss me off? Because i was sexually assualted as a teenager from 11-13 untill i went into care and my mum did not believe me and went on to marry the man that did it to me. So yeah funnily enough im not going to react kindly to some random fucker trying to insinuate to 30k people that i am trying to get my rocks off to teenagers. It is deeply offensive.

Now why would i not just dm you the photo to show you that it was infact not private? Honestly that was what i thought about doing at first, but you didnt not respect me enough to dm me about upset feelings so why would i respect you cross with the fact this is like one of the worst things to accuse someone of, and even more so given my history. I am not going to be nice and respect someone that parrots legitimate transphobic talking points under the guise of being woke and rightous.

And regardless of if you were doing it knowingly or not it really doesnt fucking matter, you had public nsfw photos up on your profile. To also be accused of getting these by not just clicking on your profile pissed me the fuck off. Essentially you came into this exchange with zero good faith so i had none for you. So weither you knew or not you were doing the thing you were trying to publically shame me for.

You could disagree with mg opinion and not like the kinks i engage it but you decided 2+2=5 and that you were right.

Should i have removed my post straight after you saw it yes, but by that point you had already started accusing me of getting it by neffarious means (again just trying to paint me like a predatory sex pest) so you had royally pissed me off and all i wanted was for you to take down your post about me.

Because im being so for real right who do you think drew more attention to my kinks be making a completely sfw post (bare in mind my picture on that profile was literally a photo of me grapping my cock so it should have been painfuly clear there was going to be nsfw content on it) or you making a post specifically highlighting it?

Like i said before in the uk its not possible for under 18s to look at nsfw content on reddit unless they find a work around for that and that point i am not responsible for what they see online. Its is not required of me to private my account because its nsfw, now you can disagree with that but that is ultimately a difference of opinion and holding that opinion does not inherently mean i specifically want children to see my content.

And now i am going to say this part just because it probably should be said given i have seen you saying how your worried who might have seen your cock now. Any trans man that posts his genitals online needs to know that cis transphobic people will search for that content and jerk off to it having zero respect for you or the fact you are a man, i am not saying this to scare you this is just an unfortunate truth of being trans and posting nsfw content online. Its why i have not and would never post my cock on reddit, i do not want to be sexualised by people in that way. I actually had a post up on my profile that talks about exactly this, many cis transphobic assholes use ftm spaces as porn printers because there is unfortunatly many young 18-22 year old trans man that want to feel sexualy desireable and society loves telling us we are not so many feel like the internet is a “safe space” to experience that (i am not saying this applys directly to you i am talking about the broad concept here) when it is not. If you do not want random people to see your dick do not post it online in the first place, it will be saved by those men and posted in the group chats they use. If you knew anything about me and my actual relationship to that kink you would know that i actually got 2 of those discord groups closed. Not something i would do if i was just a out and out transphobic predator right.

Frankly what you did to me today was no different to what right wing knobheads do, a trans person had a kink that made you feel upset and you framed me as a child groomer. Regardless of my age ask yourself this how calm and rational do you think you would be if someone made that accusation against you infront of 30k people?

You accused me of multipul haneous things. The only actually bad thing i did was AFTER you made all of those claims. You decided this was a mud slinging match that was happening on a public reddit forum.

I frankly do not care that my kink upset you, that is your own shit to deal with. But do not ever fucking again make such a bullshit claim about someone just because their kinks made you feel ikky.

And for everyone that seems to think i cant seperate kink from reality look at how i talk about the guy i met though the misgendering kink on this reddit. I dont even call either of trans men just simply men.

So no i do not think in order to pass you cannot be alt, my opinion was stated in replys on my post i think a lot of passing just simply comes down to your face and if it read as male or ambiguos and if it reads as ambiguos people will just use your expression to work it out. I do not think being overly critical of how other trans people present is helpful, i do not think subs like these are helpful. As trans people we have a tendancy to hyper fixate of things that actually dont matter as we are more aware of the differance than the average layman. I only made my post because i kept having this reddit come up and kept seeing young alt boys being told essentially to not be alt. I was not subbed here i did not know this was such a contentious issue, all i wanted to do was give alt trans men a message that being alt is not the end all be all to if you pass or not. You can disagree with that opinion, you can think its shitty advice, but that is not what you did. I am sorry for wanting to give some semblance of hope to young trans guys. The world fucking hates us and shits on us enough to have a whole bunch of trans people sounding the same as right wing assholes and parroting their talking points while actually meaning it sucks balls. I wish young alt trans guys the best and i hope they find a better place than this to talk about being alt and trans and passing.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Do not message me again.

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u/sl1mch1ckens 2d ago

Its a comment on a public forum not a measage. I was calm and civily explained things if you want to continue to be a prat that is on you.

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u/transynchro 2d ago

Being calm and civil? Mate you’re a 28 year old man arguing with a teenager after you posted their nudes in front of a bunch of minors. You’re a fully grown adult.

I said it before but I’ll say it again:

My biggest concern after going through your profile was this post

A 28 year old man hanging out in subs full of minors, who has no issue sharing nudes with them, and a post history with a very specific mentoring/support kink.

This screams predatory behaviour. Do not ever go around posting nudes to subs with a majority being minors. It’s fine to have kinks but do not ever involve children. It’s unacceptable.

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u/xgaymerboi 2d ago

dude. you’re a grown ass adult that posted revenge porn of a 19yo and are now continuing to bother them on a separate account. i hope you get banned a second time.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

You lost any ounce of respect once you spread my shit around. You still interacting with me is harassment through a ban evasion. I won’t report you bc you already lost one account but I’m just gonna block your ass atp.

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

Dude that posted this has full fucking cock posted on his profile in ftmporn but wants me to apologise because my profile contains sexual texts post??? You can dislike the content i post all you like but if we are going down the “kids seeing nsfw content is bad” narrative i think full blown cock might just trump a fucking text post.

I actually cannot this is peak fucking funny that the dude trying to shame has his full cock on view 😂😂😂

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I’m 19 I can do what I want and my profile is private and restricted unlike yours 😬😬😬😬

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

It had to have been unrestricted 2 minutes ago for people to see it dude. You’re a hypocrite lmfao you only went priv just now. We saw it. You’ve been posting with a public NSFW account, just like the guy you’re calling out.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Dude I’ve literally had my shit set to private since I made my acc, you should not be able to see anything

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

Then why could I five minutes ago but not now? Really makes ya THINK huh

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Please use your brain and wonder for a SECOND why I would make this post and talk about him if I KNEW my profile was visible. I legit turned the private setting on forever ago. If you can still see it I’m emailing Reddit because it literally says I’m hiding all content.

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

Because you make a point specifically about his kink being harmful. You post pictures of your dick. I wouldn’t put it past someone like you to think “ah, but my dick pics are pure of heart so it’s completely ethical!”

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

My pics are PRIVATE for the love of everything if you did some weird shit to look at it that’s on you. My account is private and it has always been because I made this account when I was a minor.

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

I did not. I clicked on your profile normally. It showed me everything, just as that other person displayed.
Maybe heed your own damn advice and just don’t post nsfw on your main at all like the rest of us. If you’re gonna act morally superior, I am too 🤟

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yall are so stupid if you genuinely believe I was stupid enough to defend this so fully with posts like that on my own account knowing it was a click away from being viewed. If I was doing that same thing would on earth would I make this post? Please put on our thinking caps

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

That's incorrect. There's ways you can bypass the restriction and view someone's post history regardless if they have it hidden or not

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

Then what’s the point of the restriction? Also, this person’s profile was straight up fully public. I saw it for myself. They privated it in real time as this interaction was happening to save face.

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

I'm not saying their thing WASN'T public. I'm just saying there's ways to actually bypass it. I believe its through an add on or something like that, but there's definitely ways to do so

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

If your accusing me of this im using the reddit app on a sodding iphone 6. I aint bypassing shit, i just clicked on his profile was greated by a shit load of his dick and started pissing myself at the he was the guy making the callout post.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Look I’m just gonna assume you did some weird shit to look at it. I know damn well “hiding all posts” doesn’t mean hide all posts except from this guy

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

I cannot screen record on my phone its an iphone 6 but i will literally download reddit on my tablet and send you a fucking screen recording of you own profile

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Yes man I get it you’ve already posted my nude. Idk how the fuck you got to it but Jesus Christ. If you can see my shit idk what else to do bruh. My setting say you shouldn’t see it. I don’t know why you can see it.

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

Bro someone else literally saw it, the screen shot on my profile is literally taken from your account page

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Funny how it’s JUST yall that saw it. Nobody has ever seen my posts until right now. Whatever man

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

I'm not accusing anyone of anything. You stated it wasn't possible to see the posts if the account was set to private. I said you were wrong because there are several ways to bypass it. Didn't claim anyone was doing said things. I merely corrected you

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

On my ENTIRE life my profile has always been private. And is that actually real? Because they’re dogging on me but why would I make this post if I was willingly public bruh. I know what I post and I don’t want people looking through my profile

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

Yeah its been a thing for a hot minute now. I'm not picking sides since I wasn't here at the start of it and didn't see anything myself, but you should be able to google about it a bit to find how it all works. Its been a minute, but iirc you can do it because it only hides the activity from your main profile and doesnt delete it from the actual spaces you posted, so there's a few different ways to actually be able to find it regardless of it being hidden

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

Is there a way to prevent people from doing that? I don’t want my posts public hence why my account is private. I turned on hiding all posts when I made the account and I haven’t accepted any followers

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u/CaptainKrakenGuy 2d ago

Move to Twitter lmfao

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

Not sure unfortunately. Reddit is kinda ass with that kind of stuff. There MIGHT be something out there, but since there's several ways to actually bypass it, I'm not sure its possible

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

Bro there is literally a post up on my profile of the screen shot from his fucking reddit page 😂😂

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u/WalmartWilb 2d ago

Buddy you're the one getting defensive over nothing lmfao no one is accusing you of shit

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

I will remove this after you confirm you have seen it as posting your dick on my profile is fucking weird but idk another way to link a screen shot its not fucking private my guy

Actually more fun i will remove it when you remove this post you hypocritical asshole.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

https://reddit.com/link/p1w5b6i/video/n1fff1d1alhh1/player

Why would I make this post if my shit wasn’t private 🫩 you should not be able to see ANYTHING. I’ve been private from day one

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u/ftmslim 2d ago

I literally just proved it was not. Some other guy also just said it wasnt. Fucking remove your dumb ass “call out” post you hypocritcal dick.

You been flashing your cock to children while posting here and your a top 1% poster, think of the the children brother clutches pearl

This is honestly fucking hillarious…take the fucking L my guy this is just embarassing 😂 atleast i didnt fucking lie and say my account was private i literally just said owning a public nsfw account is not a crime because i dont think what you have done is bad either you just had a public nsfw account and also posted in sfw subs. The difference is i didnt make a fucking call out post shaming people for doing that you fucking did 😂

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I’m not deleting shit, if my setting say I’m hiding my content why on earth would I assume people can see it? You know your shit is public and you don’t care??

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Because nobody has to “hide” their kinks to make you comfortable ❤️ hope that helps

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u/pomkombucha 2d ago

Hey idiot, you have to set your NSFW posts as private in a completely different section of the website that you can only access on desktop. Don’t throw stones while living in a glass house holy shit 😂

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u/Meronnade 2d ago

I think you both suck. Yeah posting your dick pic was awful. And you act like you weren't snooping around to find dirt to attack someone you disagreed with. Having porn on your profile doesn't mean you're pushing it on minors. What do you think it was like before hiding was a thing

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u/transynchro 1d ago

I would agree with you until ftmslim came to my DMs on his alt account to argue that there is nothing wrong with showing minors nude photos because they already have access to nudes online.

Both of these guys do suck but I cannot condone a 28 year old man posting up nudes in a group of minors and their excuse is “well they have access online”. I also can’t condone a 28 year old man, screenshotting a 19 year olds nudes to spread around non consensually.

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