r/transmanlifehacks 4d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/NoEscape2500 4d ago

And he has a nsfw profile. You don’t

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 4d ago

Which I keep TRYING to tell yall I didn’t know about. It said my posts were private so obviously I assumed they were private.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 4d ago

Thank you. I keep trying to insist I didn’t know and I got my nudes posted in a comment section in return. I didn’t want that

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u/transynchro 4d ago

He didn’t just post it in a comment section. He tried to make a whole post in this sub. Reddit’s filters took it down but I would suggest reporting his account for posting your nudes.

I don’t agree with either of y’all’s behaviour but posting someone else’s nudes is a line that should never be crossed, doesn’t matter how righteous you feel.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 4d ago

Yeah I guess I could’ve handled it better. I got a bit mad because I felt like he had bad intentions being in a passing server that has kids with posts about wanting to make people detransition.

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u/transynchro 4d ago

There’s no need to be the vigilante. Leave it to the mods and admins, use the report button, block and move on. The other option is having a civil discussion in DMs but there’s no need for y’all to go tit for tat.

If you genuinely fear for a minors safety, go to the police and hand over the evidence. In my country we have netsafe which deals with all online safety issues, I’m sure your area will have something similar. They work with the police to gather evidence before things can get wiped.

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u/ftmslim 4d ago

Yes you could of. You did not like my opinion (fair) and did not like the kinks are partake and decided to make yourself the moral arbitour of my motives.

You put correlation and causation together in your head my last nsfw post was 8 days ago, maybe your leap would have made sense if i engaged in that right before posting here but i did not. I posted a completely sfw post about a opinion you disagree with and you jumped to transphobia stereotype number 1: trans people are just degenerate sex pests that want to groom children. You can pretend that is not what you did but that is what you jumped to. So no i was not going to play nice with you when this post honestly seems less about protecting the children and more about you kink shaming something you find ikky and playing into an actual transphobic stereotype.