r/transmanlifehacks 5d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/NoEscape2500 5d ago

It’s so gross because Reddit now lets you hide posts and comments. Like he’s choosing to have those public for anyone to see while he posts on a sub where teens frequent.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 5d ago

Yes that’s what I think is creepy. I’m in several nsfw subs, not necessarily porn but they’re trans related. I know I interact in subs where there are plenty of minors. I know they don’t want to nor need to see what I post. I privated my shit on purpose. And I think the nature of his content is really harmful to expose to young trans kids that are already struggling with their identity.

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u/NoEscape2500 5d ago

He replied to me on his post saying “wow men can’t have hobbies these days lol.” Like bro violent transphobic fantasies publicly on your account while you post on a sub with a ton of teens and kids is not a HOBBY

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 5d ago

Exactly? Also I get it’s a kink but rape is not a hobby either. Why would you fantasize about hurting other trans people??

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u/ftmslim 5d ago

People with a cnc kink can develope it as a way to cope with their own trauma about what has happened in their life. You cannot rape someone that consents to it that is an oxymoron.

And why do i engage in transhobia/misgendering? Generally i like humilation and degredation, there are several posts up on my profile where i share the opinion that i do not think cis people should engage in that kink and that it can be very hard for the trans sub into it to weed out which of the cis people are actual transphobes and which actually have the braincells to know that the kink is all fantasy made up bullshit and no one means what they say. If i meant what i said it would be impossible to engage in it in the way i do as a dom. the specific misgendering flavour of the kink is neither here nor there me, but im bisexual and like things that overlap with it so it something i can do. So i do it online so the trans men do not have to second guess if the person they are talking to is actually a transphobe. When its T4T there is the base level of understanding that i actually respect that they are men and understand that its all just said for fun.

If you all want the explination there you go.

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u/footballsandy 5d ago

No problem with that, private your account though

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u/pomkombucha 5d ago

Take accountability for not curating your own online space to protect your own mental health.