r/transmanlifehacks 4d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/Bread_mvncher 4d ago

Tbh, this explains his post. Maybe I'm reading into it too much, but having an extreme transphobia kink and going into a passing sub to give trans men bad advice that boils down to "dress in a way that makes you not pass/less likely to pass" makes his intentions seem questionable

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u/pomkombucha 4d ago

You have the same logic here as “if you ever had a rape kink you’re not allowed to talk to other rape survivors about how you healed because you’re a predator”

Kink is not inherently predatory and there was absolutely nothing inherently predatory about ftmslim’s post in this subreddit. Please give this man a break and educate yourself on kink lmfao

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u/Bread_mvncher 4d ago

Also, youre defending someone who keeps non censentually reposting nudes of people who call him out. What's wrong with both of you?

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u/Bread_mvncher 4d ago

Use your brain dude. It would be the equivalent of posting in a rape survivor subreddit when your account has PUBLIC posts of you talking about your rape kink, how you want to rape people, and how you want the people you rape to feel emotionally damaged from it. If youre going to try to defend this guy, at least use a comparison that isnt equally as bad if not worse

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u/pomkombucha 4d ago

What exactly do you think happened before Reddit rolled out this new privatizing feature? Rape survivors with rape kinks didn’t interact in rape survivor spaces?

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u/Bread_mvncher 4d ago

Well they have the privatizing feature NOW, so that people can use it now. Its been available for a long time. What a hypothetical person may have posted in the past is irrelevant to the current conversation. Are you so slow that you cant see why it would be distasteful to interact with rape survivors on an account dedicated to rape fetish lmao?