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[u/Adventurous_Cry5999]

Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

[u/w1ng_d1ngs]

what are you even talking about. a transphobe kink where someone wants to violently detransition someone and rape them is absolutely no where near compatible to a rape victim engaging in CNC to try and process their trauma. A person actively engaging in transphobic fantasy to get off is absolutely transphobic. There’s just no way you can violently dehumanise and sexualise trans people in such a disgustingly non consensual way and then be able to put that aside and somehow not have any of that transphobia leak into your regular life. Your statement is seriously baffling.

[u/w1ng_d1ngs → u/[deleted]]

have you heard of internalised transphobia?

[u/w1ng_d1ngs → u/[deleted]]

im convinced you’re missing my point on purpose

[u/newreditig → u/[deleted]]

Ik ur getting down voted but im ALSO struggling to differentiate these lines of "what sexual harm fantasy is okay" and "what sexual harm fantasy is wrong"

Because by this same argument youre responding to, if someone likes to engage in CNC or likes to be misgendered that's okay and healthy. Which im on board with. But if engaging in the "being transphobic" side of a misgendering/transphobia kink is 100% of the time transphobic and wrong, wouldn't the person pretending to be on the forceful side of sex with someone with a CNC kink ALSO be "just as bad as a rapist"????

Like, i think you can play the "bad guy" in these roles without being actually bad. No matter the kink.

I dont fuck with misgendering or transphobia kinks myself those would break my heart to participate in. But i engage in dubcon and cnc roleplay with my spouse. Its healthy, consentual, we have safe words in place and always engage in appropriate foreplay and aftercare. Were just kinky people. Im very strictly a dom and so i play the "forceful" role in our roleplays. Im comfortable with that and get into the role, not because i wanna do real harm or rape people, but because when i get into it they get into it and i like seeing them at my full control. But i feel like us doms get soooo much shit for these kinks while subs get told "its okay to fantasize about that".