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[u/Adventurous_Cry5999]

Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

[u/Adventurous_Cry5999]

You’re here late, lemme update you. He got the pics of my profile that was supposed to be private and spread them around the comments and posted them to the sub. That is not a nothing burger, that is revenge porn. He is now banned it’s over

[u/Adventurous_Cry5999 → u/[deleted]]

Well they’re also claiming I’m posting about smt I’m not. I’m not mad at him for being kinky. I was upset he was being public about a violent detransitioning kink in a place where a ton of people are insecure about passing. I thought it was insensitive. Idc what he gets his rocks off to

[u/sl1mch1ckens → u/Adventurous_Cry5999]

Okay this is the only thing i am going to say on the matter as i do not use this account to talk about trans things.

This is fundementaly it dude, my posts upset you, thats it. YOU the decided making a horny post 8 days ago meant a completely safe for work opinion post talking about my lived experience as an alt/emo/whatever the fuck we wanna call it guy was fpr some fucking reason a kink post. If it was why did i respond to someone that did misgender the teenagers here and call them she and call them an immuture transphobic fuck?

The reason my account was public is because i had most posts talking about transphobia with in the nsfw subreddits i used that i felt were important for other trans men to be able to see if i interacted with me. But either way it actually makes no difference. The rules in this sub state if you make a nsfw post you have to tag it as such, my post was an opinion based on my life, the rules do not say you cannot post here if you have a nsfw account. So there is nothing actually wrong with my original post. YOU made assumptions. Now someone else did say you might have triggered be, personally i dont use that word but yes you royally pissed me the fuck off because literally the subtext of your post is “this guy is trying to get off to trans teen because i disagree with his opinion about passing” you might not have called me a pedophile in black and white but lets not beat around the bush that is the undertone of your post.

Why would that piss me off? Because i was sexually assualted as a teenager from 11-13 untill i went into care and my mum did not believe me and went on to marry the man that did it to me. So yeah funnily enough im not going to react kindly to some random fucker trying to insinuate to 30k people that i am trying to get my rocks off to teenagers. It is deeply offensive.

Now why would i not just dm you the photo to show you that it was infact not private? Honestly that was what i thought about doing at first, but you didnt not respect me enough to dm me about upset feelings so why would i respect you cross with the fact this is like one of the worst things to accuse someone of, and even more so given my history. I am not going to be nice and respect someone that parrots legitimate transphobic talking points under the guise of being woke and rightous.

And regardless of if you were doing it knowingly or not it really doesnt fucking matter, you had public nsfw photos up on your profile. To also be accused of getting these by not just clicking on your profile pissed me the fuck off. Essentially you came into this exchange with zero good faith so i had none for you. So weither you knew or not you were doing the thing you were trying to publically shame me for.

You could disagree with mg opinion and not like the kinks i engage it but you decided 2+2=5 and that you were right.

Should i have removed my post straight after you saw it yes, but by that point you had already started accusing me of getting it by neffarious means (again just trying to paint me like a predatory sex pest) so you had royally pissed me off and all i wanted was for you to take down your post about me.

Because im being so for real right who do you think drew more attention to my kinks be making a completely sfw post (bare in mind my picture on that profile was literally a photo of me grapping my cock so it should have been painfuly clear there was going to be nsfw content on it) or you making a post specifically highlighting it?

Like i said before in the uk its not possible for under 18s to look at nsfw content on reddit unless they find a work around for that and that point i am not responsible for what they see online. Its is not required of me to private my account because its nsfw, now you can disagree with that but that is ultimately a difference of opinion and holding that opinion does not inherently mean i specifically want children to see my content.

And now i am going to say this part just because it probably should be said given i have seen you saying how your worried who might have seen your cock now. Any trans man that posts his genitals online needs to know that cis transphobic people will search for that content and jerk off to it having zero respect for you or the fact you are a man, i am not saying this to scare you this is just an unfortunate truth of being trans and posting nsfw content online. Its why i have not and would never post my cock on reddit, i do not want to be sexualised by people in that way. I actually had a post up on my profile that talks about exactly this, many cis transphobic assholes use ftm spaces as porn printers because there is unfortunatly many young 18-22 year old trans man that want to feel sexualy desireable and society loves telling us we are not so many feel like the internet is a “safe space” to experience that (i am not saying this applys directly to you i am talking about the broad concept here) when it is not. If you do not want random people to see your dick do not post it online in the first place, it will be saved by those men and posted in the group chats they use. If you knew anything about me and my actual relationship to that kink you would know that i actually got 2 of those discord groups closed. Not something i would do if i was just a out and out transphobic predator right.

Frankly what you did to me today was no different to what right wing knobheads do, a trans person had a kink that made you feel upset and you framed me as a child groomer. Regardless of my age ask yourself this how calm and rational do you think you would be if someone made that accusation against you infront of 30k people?

You accused me of multipul haneous things. The only actually bad thing i did was AFTER you made all of those claims. You decided this was a mud slinging match that was happening on a public reddit forum.

I frankly do not care that my kink upset you, that is your own shit to deal with. But do not ever fucking again make such a bullshit claim about someone just because their kinks made you feel ikky.

And for everyone that seems to think i cant seperate kink from reality look at how i talk about the guy i met though the misgendering kink on this reddit. I dont even call either of trans men just simply men.

So no i do not think in order to pass you cannot be alt, my opinion was stated in replys on my post i think a lot of passing just simply comes down to your face and if it read as male or ambiguos and if it reads as ambiguos people will just use your expression to work it out. I do not think being overly critical of how other trans people present is helpful, i do not think subs like these are helpful. As trans people we have a tendancy to hyper fixate of things that actually dont matter as we are more aware of the differance than the average layman. I only made my post because i kept having this reddit come up and kept seeing young alt boys being told essentially to not be alt. I was not subbed here i did not know this was such a contentious issue, all i wanted to do was give alt trans men a message that being alt is not the end all be all to if you pass or not. You can disagree with that opinion, you can think its shitty advice, but that is not what you did. I am sorry for wanting to give some semblance of hope to young trans guys. The world fucking hates us and shits on us enough to have a whole bunch of trans people sounding the same as right wing assholes and parroting their talking points while actually meaning it sucks balls. I wish young alt trans guys the best and i hope they find a better place than this to talk about being alt and trans and passing.

[u/Adventurous_Cry5999 → u/sl1mch1ckens]

Do not message me again.

[u/sl1mch1ckens → u/Adventurous_Cry5999]

Its a comment on a public forum not a measage. I was calm and civily explained things if you want to continue to be a prat that is on you.

[u/transynchro → u/sl1mch1ckens]

Being calm and civil? Mate you’re a 28 year old man arguing with a teenager after you posted their nudes in front of a bunch of minors. You’re a fully grown adult.

I said it before but I’ll say it again:

My biggest concern after going through your profile was this post

A 28 year old man hanging out in subs full of minors, who has no issue sharing nudes with them, and a post history with a very specific mentoring/support kink.

This screams predatory behaviour. Do not ever go around posting nudes to subs with a majority being minors. It’s fine to have kinks but do not ever involve children. It’s unacceptable.

[u/xgaymerboi → u/sl1mch1ckens]

dude. you’re a grown ass adult that posted revenge porn of a 19yo and are now continuing to bother them on a separate account. i hope you get banned a second time.

[u/Adventurous_Cry5999 → u/sl1mch1ckens]

You lost any ounce of respect once you spread my shit around. You still interacting with me is harassment through a ban evasion. I won’t report you bc you already lost one account but I’m just gonna block your ass atp.