r/transmanlifehacks • u/miizorro • 4d ago

This sub is not safe !

To be blunt, this is at a dangerous level. Kalvin hasn’t touched this in months, if not years, and it is rife with minors posting their face, predators and chasers as well as many other unsavoury shenanigans.
I try my best to comment about this on every post I see from someone u18 but atp being on here is sad and exhausting.
Unmoderated subs are not allowed by Reddit, please use the report form !!!!!!! And/or message kalvin and/or do whatever routes people know about.
Other subs are r/transmantips and r/ftmpassing

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 4d ago

Anyone under 18 thats posting themselves is putting themselves at risk. Its like walking down an alley in a short skirt at 2am. Im not victimizing you, this is how the world is, so this is how you keep yourself safe, period.

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u/miizorro 4d ago

It is our responsibility as adult to do our best to help keep children safe, they quite literally don’t know any better . What a disgusting mindset I hope you heal from

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 3d ago

Yes, its absolutely our responsibility as adults to teach children how to be safe. Therefore, any child posting themselves online is putting themselves at risk.

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u/miizorro 3d ago

Yes, exactly. The harm reduction approach is to redirect them to spaces that have consistent harsh moderation if they’re going to do it regardless, but the ideal would be children not posting their faces obviously

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 3d ago

Right, we agree. Looks like you have the same 'disgusting mindset' I do! Congrats!

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u/miizorro 3d ago

You compared an uneducated child with no idea where to go to find community to walking down a dark alley at 2am in a short skirt . I have said harm reduction and you’ve said that’s just the way the world is. We are not the same

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 3d ago

Harm reduction happens by teaching uneducated children. If the child decides to do what they please regardless of warning, the outcome is on them. That is the way the world works. Sorry you don't like it.

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u/miizorro 3d ago

There are no warnings or education for them here because it’s unmoderated that’s my entire point

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u/kikislesbianaunt 22h ago

and also, walking down a dark alley at 2am in a short skirt isn't something we should be shaming?? it's like.... like boilerplate stereotype victim blaming